Will my daughter come to stay a few days?

KayBug · #1 05-10-2010, 02:39 PM

My daughter's boyfriend, whom she lives with right now, had some medical test about 3 weeks ago. The doctors removed a hernia he had and found that he has early stage COPD and colon cancer. They removed some growths from his colon the day they did the colonscopy but he has to go back into the hospital this coming Friday, May 14th to have part of his colon removed and hopefully get all the cancer. He will have to be in the hospital about 5 days. I am planning to ask my daughter if she could come stay with me while he is in the hospital; just give us some time together we have not had in a long time. My question is; will she come and stay for those few days?

I am going to say I am Mars in the 4th house of home and that she is Venus in the 1st house. Now, I don't know anything about Horary and my bain seems to work backwards even when I try to deal with Natal and I am probably getting Natal and Horary mixed up in this but here goes. If she is venus in the 1st house she is thinking about herself. I believe there is a Venus-Mars aspect here which looks good for her to come to stay. I don't see anything in the 7th house of relationships so maybe he won't interfere with this idea.

This might be natal; she is very creative and artistic and use to love being with and doing things with her friends. I know she doesn't get to do any of those things anymore because of the choices she has made in being with this boyfriend and things she is doing. Venus is square Jupiter in the 11th house (friends) square Saturn in the 5th house (creativity) if this has anything to do with it. I think if she spent those few days here at home with me she would have a chance to refresh some of those things in her life.

All in all, I still don't know what I'm doing

and it could go either way, yes or no.

Any help greatly appreciated.

Ebenia · #2 05-10-2010, 03:24 PM

Well, first of all the chart is so early, that I don't know if it can be read. Usually early ascendant, especially THIS early, means that outcome cannot be known yet.

But, if we want to read this chart, you are Mercury retrograde in 12th house, which is placed pretty badly, being retrograde and in the 12th house. You are not in a great place right now with your mind. Your thinking is not clear and you maybe feeling some martyrdom feelings and feelings of being alone, but also you could be in illusions about the time that your daughter could actually spend with you, because the truth is that her boyfriend is having a huge surgery with difficult treatments, so I guess she would also want to be with him (Moon, Uranus and Jupiter in her turned 5th house).

Your daughter is Mars in the 4th house making a sextile to Venus in 1st and Moon, so I think that this could be yes. But then Moon is making a opposition to Saturn, so I am not sure about that...

But because the ascendant is so early, I am not sure about this...

KayBug · #3 05-10-2010, 03:30 PM

Ebenia......Thank you for your reply. Should I ask this question and make a new chart for this closer to the date of surgery, perhaps on the 13th?

KayBug · #4 05-10-2010, 03:36 PM

I know this is a big surgery, as just this past December, I had the upper lobe of my right lung removed because of cancer. His doctor said his stay in the hospital would be 5-7 days. He believes he will get out in 5, which is possible, as they told me the same thing and I was out in 5 days. I know she will be with him all the time when he gets home from the hospital. They live with his Father and I thought perhaps she would like to stay the nights he in the hospital with me instead of over there when I asked the question.