I'm dating the a guy with the same exact BD as a recent ex

[floralpisces]

I decided to divorce my husband last year one week after I started seeing a guy (who was recently divorced) i used to date back in 1999. I had actually dug him up from my memory as I was unhappy in my marriage to my Taurus sun husband. But it didn't work out after 3 mths. 1 mth ago, I met aquarius sun and when we told each other our birthdates, I was shocked that he shared the same exact date and year as the short lived ex. His birthtime is only 2 hrs later than the previous guy. We have amazing synastry at first glance as I am pisces sun, scorpio moon, aquarius mercury and venus, aquarius descendent. Some revelations would be welcomed.

[floralpisces]

anyone has an opinion/insight?

[astrologer50]

His pisces moon is squaring his and your neptune, so this could be very spiritual, over idealising, fantasising aspect. Natally is emotional disilusionment aspect and confusion around mother, women,females.

His and your Uranus square his venus (the divorce aspect) so he will need lots of freedom and independence within relationships. His moon aslo square your mars -- so the way you act with him is assertive and quite bossy to his emotions.

You could have the best synastry in the world, but unless you have good communications, are honest with each other about your needs, wishes and desires and 'both' of you want the same things...........then nothing will happen. It cannot make anyone change, or love you more. Some challenging squares, oppositions in synastry can be healthy, and may require one or both of you to grow in some way. Astrological natal charts cannot explain environmental factors, financial handicaps/ restraints and what position you hold in society, neither can it tell you if you are of ‘Royalty’ or beggar.

I am of the belief that people come in and out of our lives for a reason, either we have to teach them something or we have to learn something from them. There is Always an exchange, good or bad.

Good luck with your journey

[gemini59]

You know it is a bit odd but I have this thing about dating people with the same birth date too ...not on purpose but it just seems to happen for some odd reason.

As an example I have been dating someone for a long time. We broke up temporarily a few years back and I started back in the dating scene. I really liked a guy not knowing his birth date. It was not until we had communicated and dated a bit before his birthday was presented to me. Sept. 29th It was the same lack one year as the one I had dated a while.
That is not the first time either. I had a thing for guys birth date July 28th for awhile..it was kind of really weird.
Well now that my former and I are history I wonder what date it will be this time

[kaminari]

I think when people come into your life with the same birthday, planetary placements, etc it's significant. I think of people being in our lives for a reason, to teach us & we teach them.

Ok, so with the same b-day, it means the same degree of the Sun. So I was trying to think what is his (their) Sun / composite Sun doing? At 6 Aqu, the Sun is in the 7th house, conjunct your Descendant & Venus. This is significant. But why 6 degrees?

6 Aqu squares your MC/IC axis. Any close aspects with the MC/IC in synastry are significant:

"In synastry, it shows how these things interact with the partner. If, for example, the partner's Sun is square the other's MC, the Sun person may find themselves uncomfortable with the career the MC person has, or uncomfortable with how much time they devote to their public life."

(from http://en.allexperts.com/q/Astrology...n-synastry.htm)

Does this make sense? The MC/IC is a very personal axis. I imagine their solar energy squaring yours would create some feelings of tension in how you feel about yourself deep down & also your aspirations. There must be some kind of lesson here.

The composite Sun at 29 Aqu sits at your Mercury-Jupiter midpoint. I just think of how there would be a lot of communication in the relationship, perhaps both relationships based on a lot of mental activity.

The question is: why all the talking? What is being worked out by it?? What needs to be worked out by it?

[floralpisces]

yes kaminari, you are right on the MC aspect with the first same BD guy. !).

[floralpisces]

I was just looking at the 9th Harmonics chart..and D's AC is 22.21 deg pisces, his sun is 25 deg scorpio. My natal sun is pisces 22.21 pisces and my moon is 24 deg scorpio. My 9th Harmonics AC is 11 deg Aquarius. Good soul connection?

[Vista]

Originally Posted by floralpisces

I decided to divorce my husband last year one week after I started seeing a guy (who was recently divorced) i used to date back in 1999. I had actually dug him up from my memory as I was unhappy in my marriage to my Taurus sun husband. But it didn't work out after 3 mths. 1 mth ago, I met DL aquarius sun mercury venus pisces moon and descendent and when we told each other our birthdates, I was shocked that he shared the same exact date and year as the short lived ex. His birthtime is only 2 hrs later than the previous guy. We have amazing synastry at first glance as I am pisces sun, scorpio moon, aquarius mercury and venus, aquarius descendent. He is married (6 yrs with a 5 yr old) to DW a Leo sun moon mercury 12th house stellium and extremely unhappy, emotionally hurt by her temper over the years. He's thought of divorce but his family is against it for the family reputation and I'm sure it's due to his virgo rising also. He's even had suicide run across his mind when their arguments and her temper gets too out of control. We are seeing each other and the passion and feelings are intense. He's told me he doesn't love his wife nor have anymore feelings for her for the last few yrs and knows one party will be hurt ultimately. He feels really loved with me and is also able to feel my emotions deeply, admitting it must be his pisces moon (he also reads up on astrology). Uranus is transitting both he and his wife's 7th house but I'm not sure how he will consider it ultimately. Should I take it slow with him and give this soulmate feeling a chance or cut it off right now and just be friends (we have talked about this openly too). On one hand the connection and the feeling that no guy has ever accepted me for all my emotional & mental quirks is too out of this world while on the other, I feel that if this relationship stood any chance, I'd rather it started the right way should he decide to leave his wife for his own happiness instead of continuing as an affair. Synastries, composites and natals attached. Is there something karmic in the coincidence of similar birthdate. I've travelled a long emotional route in my relationships and yet this is the strongest I've ever felt about if you love him, set him free. My life is full of drama and deep experiences that have really explore my pisces 8th house/scorpio 4th house self. I have been searching for my soulmate/twin soul to finally live my life. Some revelations would be welcomed. Thank you, WF

I definitely think there is something Karmic about it. My recent ex boyfriend's last girlfriend and the exact same birthday and year as I did. Tell me that is just coincidental? I don't think so.

[floralpisces]

yes an ex bf of mine also married a girl with the same BD as me (1 yr apart).