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11-26-2009, 05:04 AM
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Is this a chart of a potential sex addict?
A previous ex of mine complained from me for always wanting to have sex. Please, this is a serious question. What is it in my chart that indicates this? I just cannot! help my self when I see some one I am attracted to. I have slept with my cousin for example. And does having a "relaxed" chart like this one make it harder for myself to have self control. Also, do you see anything that raises a red-flag when it comes to STDs lol? Just curious.
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11-26-2009, 06:20 AM
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Re: Is this a chart of a potential sex addict?
Strange in that your chart is quite the opposite. Venus is definately exalted in Taurus, in the seventh house(of which it rules). But it's squaring your Leo Moon.(Which is in the midst of a Grand Fire Trine).
I would note Chiron in the 8th house(In gemini) Chiron is our wounds, both what wounds us and what can heal our wounds. So perhaps you may need sex to heal a part of yourself. Also Gemini(Mercury) is communication, so that may be where you get the energy to always want sex.
Here's another reason when I had a first glimpse of your chart is Mars, it's in the 8th but in Cancer(It's detriment). But the aspects tell a different story. It's trining the 12th house Pluto in it's sign of rulership of Scorpio. The Mars-Pluto trine in the 8th-12th house may indicate a secret need of sex. We also see that Mercury(ruler of Chiron Gemini) is conjunct Mars. Also, Cancer is the ruler of the Moon and deals with the home(inner structure).
So your chart indicates a clear pattern that your sexual needs are to build yourself up. Something happened that led up to the wound that frees itself through sex.
Here's the unique thing about Astrology: Yes, the Outer Planets are moving in a slower motion and so many traditional astrologers don't put the value in them that they do the Inner planets. Here's where the rule is proven wrong: Houses and aspects give these outer planets an identity. They give them a purpose in a chart. Pluto/Uranus/Saturn(even Chiron) aren't there for show and tell. Except to show and tell the aspects of the life of the Native.
I'll note the aspects for my fellow astrologers to see if they agree with my thesis:
Seventh House Sun(In Gemini, ruled by Mercury that's conjunct the 8th house Mars)
is opposing Saggitarius Saturn.
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Eighth House Mars-Mercury is opposing Second House Neptune Capricorn.
These two aspects tell me the same story. But first let's take a look at the ruler of the 2nd house: Saggitarius(Whose ruler is Jupiter). Saggitarius is a benevolent sign that wants to expand, to learn, and to grow(hence the ruler is Jupiter). Saturn in this sign isn't quite happy, but it may teach you how to grow within limits.
So here we see it opposing your 7th house Gemini Sun. The very easy(and since it's backed up by the following aspect IMO the correct deduction) is that romance is a limitation. It holds you back from expanding in the way you'd like.
Neptune is a planet that is described in many fashions, fitting as water can reflect anything it sees. Many have credited Neptune to delusion, but it's also credited to dreaming and to spiritual understanding. Here in Capricorn, we see that there's a little bit of earth to give balance to Neptune. You have a firm spiritual conviction and/or belief.(Since Saggitarius is the ruler, perhaps you like to travel?). However here Mars-Mercury is opposing Neptune.
To me, this indicates that what you use to heal your wound(Mars-Mercury: The desire for sex) doesn't fit your material desires. The final piece of evidence is that Moon-Venus square I alluded to earlier.
So it's pretty clear to me(through the chart) that you feel that romance and overall lovemaking perhaps doesn't fit into what you want.
So, what do you want(what will truly make you happy). The Grand Trine gives us a clear answer. The Grand Trine consists of:
Moon in House 10(Leo)
Uranus in House 2(Saggitarius)
Jupiter in House 6(Aries)
Jupiter rules the 2nd house BTW. So your material values are based off that Jupiter.
The Sixth House is the House of Work and Health, daily duty ETC. Jupiter in here is really something to behold. And I really like it in Aries. You'll definately be energentic in the workfield and for the greater good(Saggitarius).
Uranus is the disruptive planet, the planet of rebellion and of energy. In that Second House of Mateiral values. Your always evolving, always growing. You truly crave for and desire for independence and freedom(Uranus=ruled by Aquarius which is the ruler of your IC). You may also teach these values to others through a Saggitarian means of giving.
I like how the center of the grand-trine is Moon. Moon is your personal feelings. And Leo is a generous, love-warming sign, no one can resist the smile of a Leo. So you may feel very strongly for your own independence and your freedom and others freedom and independence.
This strong feeling of rebellion and independence and of your values of life are being curtailed by romance and responsibilities for others. You attempt to fill your high spiritual needs with sex, but it's only proving to be empty deep down inside.
You should express those spiritual needs of yours, your desire for freedom and love and to share those things on a bigger stage(Leo MC). I think you were meant for great things. I like this chart.
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11-26-2009, 12:22 PM
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Re: Is this a chart of a potential sex addict?
Enrico, what I see is that the traditional ruler of your Ascendant (Mars) is in your 8th house, closely conjunct the ruler of the 8th house, dealing with sexual matters a.o.- These two are trining the modern ruler of your Ascendant Pluto in the 12th.
Everything is tied together. The modern 5th house ruler of romance and self expression is Neptune and the Mars/Mercury conjunction opposes that Neptune. This can show the confusion you experience between love and sex matters. See how that Neptune exactly sextiles your Pluto.
The Moon rules that conjunction in the 8th house and the grand trine which Moon forms with Saturn/Uranus and Jupiter only cause things to become more uncontrollable. Saturn who usually should control us, is conjunct Uranus and opposes your Sun who also can be counted as being in the 8th house. Uranus is stronger in sign than Saturn is so the selfcontrol is diminished. You could almost say that your interest in sex is like a career for you and who knows, maybe your career could involve matters related to sex (like the guy from Penthouse magazine) lateron .
Awakened Pisces is right in saying that this could have to do with bolstering your selfimage or selfworth.
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11-26-2009, 01:07 PM
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Re: Is this a chart of a potential sex addict?
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Venus is definately exalted in Taurus
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Venus rules Taurus but is not exalted in Taurus. Venus is exalted in Pisces.
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11-26-2009, 02:20 PM
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Re: Is this a chart of a potential sex addict?
Agree with all above. Pluto in the 12th describes some inner part of you hidden to yourself. Its polarity point is in the 6th house of Taurus indicating health issues related to love or details + material matters + stability. North node in the 5th tells of love affairs but we find its ruler, mars in the 8th house of psychoanalysis. Thus you will descover self and your most hidden secrets through action in communication and psychoanaylsis or therapy. Thus your karmic path is connected to these themes and your destiny is to discover the deeper truths.
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11-26-2009, 02:28 PM
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Re: Is this a chart of a potential sex addict?
It is curious the grande fire trine as we see a theme of moon=women, mother, emtion rules 9th or state of mind to saturn=restriction, authority rules communication to uranus=rebellion rules home environment to jupiter=expansion rules self-worth. This energy flows too easilty making your emotions to generate this constant flow to saturn and uranus. restriction vs rebellion. The inconjunct of venus to saturn/uranus shows a certain need for adjustment and illness. Venus rules the 12th of unconscious and imprisonment to saturn and uranus.
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11-28-2009, 09:45 AM
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Re: Is this a chart of a potential sex addict?
Hi Enrico,
Welcome to the World of Astrology!
Am a bit on the run, but looks like you are already headed for where your N-node is placed - the 5th house  . If you are considering the traditional school of Astrology, and so Mars as the ruler of your Asc, then take the 5th house for signifying sex (instead of the 8th). Also, one of the most common constellations associated with strong sexual needs/urges is that of Plu-Mars, and you have it, in fact that seems to be the tightest aspect in your chart. This same aspect, or basically any personal planet in an aspect with Pluto, often indicates delving into the depths of things, but also a compulsive/obsessive behaviour of some sort, which can sometimes also be a bit destructive in some way. In your case, your Mars is located in the 8th, so perhaps there could be some compulsive behaviour/thoughts attached to it. Also, ruler of your 5th house (of sexual pleasures), Jupiter, is ruled by Mars, and both Mars and Jupiter receive eachother through exaltation and dignity. This makes both the planets rather strong and in a close relationship to eachother (even if they do not aspect eachother here).
Then you have your Moon (inner security, emotional well-being), which also plays a big role when considering something as intimate as sex and sexual habits, in the fire sign of Leo (which naturally rules the 5th house), which also points at strong desires, even some self-gratification perhaps. Further, this Moon is in a trine to the ruler of your 5th house, Jupiter, thus completing the circle. So, considering all this, it could be that you draw your inner security through physical intimacy. Another thing, your Ven and Sun being placed in 7th house, relating with others and relationships are quite important to you making you rather focused on others (typical of a 7th-house Sun). You also have a strong Ven (another planet very important when considering physical relationships, or relationships at all) in Tau, where it is dignified. Tau is an earth sign that needs earthy, physical and material pleasures (particularly likes the touch-feel sense). In my opinion, these are the key points around the subject.
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