Thank you EJ for the clarification and my apologies.
Well I'm learning... I know my chart pretty well and how with myself it's pretty accurate however, synastry and not relying on computer interpretations is what I'm trying to learn. From understanding how charts works and aspect energy has been enlightening on my quest to deeper understand personality and relationship patterns with respect to this awesome science.
That is the whole point of me joining the forum and figured using myself as an example would be a good way to start.
The story is this... it's a long one.
I met this person 8 years ago, randomly in an NYC subway. I happened to walk into them shooting a movie without realizing it and was almost knocked over by him when he was running. I was rather rambuncious and got in an argument with him with my friends looking on at me like I was a mad woman. Then suddenly I hear, cut... A camera crew pops out and we found out that they were shooting an independent film. I felt bad about my outburst and walked up to him to apologize but he picked me up swung me around in a big hug to my surprise and said all good. First meeting... My friends and I then went and talked with him and he was a musician and dj.
At the time I was in transition, and I was dating someone who was there as well. My transition was that I was a dancer but decided to retire from dance due to injuries and was contemplating getting back into music via djing. After talking with him, I was inspired by his story to finally give it a try. Amongst the both of us blatantly flirting with another infront of our friends, my boyfriend at the time being one of them. Which I did get a lot of **** for. We kept in contact with them briefly for about 4 months and then I never heard of him again nor being caught up in my life thought about it...
Fast forward to 2 years ago, I went to a party in NYC and was with the guy I was dating at the time for a weekend of being on the town... I was standing on the wall next to the guy I was dating when he said, these two dudes keep checking you out really hard. I didn't notice until he told me and when i saw the guy my heart dropped. There was a familiarity about him but I couldn't place it. I didn't remember him from years earlier but I knew there was a certain something...
So at some point in the night, my date wanted to stay on the wall but I wanted to dance which he was fine with. He even said, I know you can handle those guys, I'm not worried about you. So I'm on the dancefloor and next to me is the guy, we'll call him D that was staring at me before... We started to talk, flirting kind of (this always happened between us) and he acknowledged that I was with a date, but wanted to let me know how beautiful I was. We talked further about music and he found I was a dj... He almost ran away from me when he found out we were into the same kind of music... I was surprised because it seemed as though while I was with my date and I was happy, I couldn't resist the attraction with this person. I also found out that he was married. But somehow because I am very involved in music where I live we talked and I told him if whenever he was interested to contact me about shows. We exchanged emails that night.
But never heard from him...
In June of this year I was on facebook talking with a friend about serious mysticism stuff, an open conversation that was going on and I got a request from a mysterious person followed with a message... A voice inside me told me to accept and talk with them about the subject matter further. We exchanged deep esoteric texts in that first conversation and at the time we were both going through significant life changes. My best friend had passed away a month prior and he was going through a divorce.
It didn't hit me yet or him who we were talking to. And I didn't look at pictures of him either... Don't know why but something said not to just yet. Weird, maybe but I always listen to my inner voice (Pisces Moon)
So things began to shift about a month later and then through us talking, sharing things that we knew about another, we then realized that this has been going on off and on for 8 years...
He has been overseas for sometime and is returning in a few weeks where we decided to reunite and see if there is more than just a re-apperance in each others lives.
Now, I guess I'm trying to make sense of the synastry between us as there seems to be a big karmic and psychic connection.
I would be able to at least get an idea of our synastry however, the thing which throws me off are the Trines and Kite which appear in our combined chart.
I'm not fully affluent in what Trines and Kites mean... I have one in my own respective chart as does he. He has an air trine, I have a fire trine with a t-square making a kite... Combined chart we have a water trine which kind of makes sense as we seem to have this deep emotional and psychic connection. Being apart from another it's strange because we can really sense what the other feels, and we are pretty open with our feelings towards another.
Also with me being so 11th house influenced which plays into my music network and he being an artist we really think one of the things that will happen between us is that we will work together in deep ways which is great considering my fire trine and his air trine, both of us being Aries it could be a fire storm but I wanna get another perspective on what could be going on here.
I also have strong neptune influences as does he which is the fear on my part. That we could get so caught up in a "rose color glasses" effect which would make this useless and I also read that this seems to be the issue in many strong trine connections, resulting in one not being able to let the other go. A lot of passion exists between us and that could be true given the history between us seems that when we are around another, we can't keep away from each other.
I'm also interested in any reccomended online and book resources to help me understand synastry and composite astrology. I've already checked cafeastrology and I frequent astro.com but I feel need more (my Gemini rising inquisitiveness)... I don't fully understand certain aspects just yet and not only for myself but other people I feel that learning how these energies can influence i feel it can bring great insight to many facets of life.
I hope this was somewhat helpful and I appreciate someone at least taking the time to respond to me.
So again what I'm looking for is (Thank you and sorry for "jumping in" headfirst without knowing the rules fully... That's my Aries over-enthusiasm at times...)
But I'm looking for feedback and also if anyone knows of where I can get info on Magi Astrology in relation to my synastry so that I may learn that as well, that would be great.