Re: how to calculate marriage time years
I am only looking at your chart...not doing a synastry chart for lack of time.
YOu have a good chart for marriage...in fact, you have a good chart for achieving your goals. You have Jupiter in the house of marriage...it is very well aspected.
I warn you about this, though. Don't allow your mother to dictate your life. Find your own values and goals. Make sure what you do is your idea. Live an authentic life and not one dictated by others. You have a very strong mother and most of the time, if you argue with her, she will win because she will sound "correct." She may BE correct, but her ideas and desires may not be yours or good for you, but what SHE wants for you.
You need to decide who you are, what you want and what you want your future to look like.
Make sure you know the man you marry. Make sure you and he have the same desires and goals, especially financial ones.
You'll probably be married within 2 years if that's what you want. It should go very smoothly....if it doesn't, it means it's wrong for you. Marriage for you, the process of the engagement, etc, till the wedding should be a smooth and trouble free time. If you have reservations and bad feelings about it, don't do it....even if it's near the time of the wedding.
Your chart promises you a very good marriage. And you will always have opportunities to get married.
But my real advice it, I would wait until the progressed moon reached your ascendant which would be between Feb. & March of 2012.