Has he tried to email me

rocme · #1 10-11-2009, 05:59 AM

This is a long lost love who led me a merry dance(no reference to previous posts) so I ended it and blocked him.As it's been a while now and my heart has healed I was thinking of unblocking him.
So my question was "Has he tried to email me?"
Venus and Mars show an incoming sextile but both are in fall The 3rd house significator is saturn but saturn the email is peregrine.Mars shows an incoming sextile to Saturn and an incoming conjunction to venus.
So I'd say yes he's tried to email me but I didn't get it and if I unblock him I will get a message from him.
What do you think?

Sanaqua · #2 10-17-2009, 05:43 PM

Hi rocme,
i have tried to see this chart but all the planets and the chart is appearing so small in my computer screen that in trying to read it, i'm getting only eyesache. wouldn't it be more cool if you can post the data here??

Else, look what aspects his third are making with your third house..

rocme · #3 10-17-2009, 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Sanaqua

Hi rocme,
i have tried to see this chart but all the planets and the chart is appearing so small in my computer screen that in trying to read it, i'm getting only eyesache. wouldn't it be more cool if you can post the data here??

Else, look what aspects his third are making with your third house..

Yes of course;I've reposted the chart as I'd love to hear you take on it ;after all we're here to learn.
I did ask the question in Horary technique entitled "significators aspecting but in fall" and I've copied & pasted my interpretation below.
Saturn (the email is debilitated, being peregrine) The north node is conjunct the star ‘terebellium’ in the 4th house also ruled by Saturn. My co significator is in the 8th house of death & destruction also passion( I don’t think that applies here).The 8th house is in Gemini ;Saturn’s natural ruler by day and Mercury the natural ruler of communications .My significator mars conjuncts the malefic south node in his 4th from 7th My program says that Mars & Venus are both triplicity ruler of their sign; so now I’m more confused as Mars is in cancer 10th house (cardinal /water & angular) and Venus (and Saturn)are in Virgo 12th house(earth mutable & cadent)
So Mars & Venus (me and him) show incoming sextile
Mars & Saturn (me and email) show incoming sextile
Venus &Saturn (him and email) show incoming conjunction
Moon & Venus (me & him) show incoming square and in “bad houses” according to Lily.
So in the chart I posted I interpreted as a yes that he has tried to email me but looking again at this chart I now think it could still be a YES but lucky for me that I’ve blocked him or that this is a positive NO and don’t consider unblocking him just in case as emotionally (for me) it would be a bad move.
Both my significators are mutual receptions by face

eripetra · #4 10-18-2009, 06:10 AM

Dear Rocme,
I am still learning. But I will try

I would that the answer is YES, he did. And your significator is Mars, and Mars is in your 10th. Moon is your cosignificator, located in your 8th house shows your worries about this issues.
Regards, Eripetra

lillyjgc · #5 10-18-2009, 06:15 AM

Hi-I think yes too-there's a separating sextile between your significators.As you are asking about a past event, you need to look at aspects that have already happened (separating).
Cheers
lillyjgc

rocme · #6 10-18-2009, 11:10 AM

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Originally Posted by lillyjgc

Hi-I think yes too-there's a separating sextile between your significators.As you are asking about a past event, you need to look at aspects that have already happened (separating).
Cheers
lillyjgc

Yes I asked about this is my previous post in the Horary Technique section and was told to still look at applying aspects

rocme · #7 10-18-2009, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by eripetra

Dear Rocme,
I am still learning. But I will try

I would that the answer is YES, he did. And your significator is Mars, and Mars is in your 10th. Moon is your cosignificator, located in your 8th house shows your worries about this issues.
Regards, Eripetra

Ummmm..I agree.I thought I was over what happened between us but it's been two years and here I am asking an Horary question about him.

lillyjgc · #8 10-23-2009, 04:26 AM

Olivia, I'm curious. the question relates to something the quesited has already done or not done.Just wondering why you'd consider an ingoing aspect which usually describes an event yet to happen.
Are you reading it as *what will I find when I check my emails*-which is a rephrasing of the question *Has he tried to email me*
BTW will we get an outcome on this question?
Cheers
Lillyjgc

lillyjgc · #9 10-23-2009, 06:11 AM

Olivia, If you have enough emotion to block someone from sending emails to you,then I think you can validly ask if they have tried to make contact. We don't have much background information to go on. I don't see any other *deniers of radicality* though. Am I missing something?
Rocme: Are you going to unblock him and tell us your findings? Do email accounts actually *show* who has communicarted while under a block? These are technical details I'm not sure about but relevant to the question.
Cheers
Lillyjgc

eripetra · #10 10-23-2009, 06:13 AM

My opinion is that the answer is YES. Because of the applying aspects, but also because of Saturn - ruler of 3rd that is in separating aspect with mercury – natural ruler of communication. Saturn signify limitation, so that could mean that mail was blocked - limited by the Querent (Saturn is ruler of the querent’s 3rd).

Applying aspects I use as a positive answer to the question.

lillyjgc · #11 10-23-2009, 08:09 AM

Hi-I just noticed that Venus contacts Saturn before it sextiles Mars. I like your interpretation above,Eripetra.
Cheers
Lilly

eripetra · #12 10-23-2009, 08:56 AM

Thank you Lilly

rocme · #13 10-23-2009, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Olivia

All I can see are an applying sextile between Venus and Mars (him and you), and an applying conjunction of Venus (him) and Saturn (your mailbox).

So no - he hasn't tried to e-mail you. Is the question radical, though? I mean, has the thought of whether he's tried to mail you kept you awake at night or is it a question of whether you'll get back together? Most people don't get anxious enough about a possible e-mail attempt to cast a horary about it.

My two cents.

Olivia you're absolutely right that most people would not get anxious about an email;but I felt the most heartache and pain that I have ever felt in my entire life and towards the end of our "relationship" I felt I was going insane.He moved through work and and I ended it through tears even though I was in pain.He is the most manipulative sweet talker and months later when I was starting to heal he sent me an email and there I was right back to square one this happened many times. I had to cut all contact dead in it's tracks which included blocking him and changing my cell phone number.
So to me the rationale behind unblocking him is that I've moved on;but maybe I haven't entirely.