Originally Posted by drakhel
i just read about karmic relationships, for example between a mum and a child, when the mum cant let go of his son and thats why she always tries to kill his relationships with girls, she wants to know all his secrets, tries to manipulate him emotionally etc. i feel like my mums doing the same, i just wondered if anyone can tell me something about it? i was born september 24, 1989 in budapest (hungary) at 12:40, and she aws born december 21 1962 00:42 in nyiregyhaza (hungary). thanks in advance!
Your mom has her neptune conjunct your venus/pluto conjunction in the 11th in scorpio. That may feel very invasive, and she may seem to be lurking about your personal emotional relationships. Her Neptune is squaring her saturn in aquarius, so it seems that she thinks she is doing the right thing by keeping an eye on your social life. She may feel guilty about things from the past in her own life, and be trying to make sure you do not follow in her footsteps.
Your chart is based around a big, cardinal, angular tsquare to your conjunction of sun/mercury/mars in libra in the 9th. Right now transiting pluto is joining forces with your squares from the 1st house stellium in Capricorn. This is a very important time in your life.
You will be empowered in many ways to forge your own path, find your own way in the world. The anger you are feeling towards your mom right now MIGHT be what you need to motivate you to get on with it. But I think in the long run she is not the enemy.