Hi i hope that someone can help me about this question. Before a year i lost my son on delivery

after that I was very depressed and at the end I divorced. My question is When I will have another baby and will that be pregnancy with man Im in love in this moment?????
at first look i was happy because POF in 5th house, but problem is (I am amateur) in significators : HE is VE in 7th, and I am MA in 8th !!! I dont know what actually represent baby because it will be my second child so should I look in 5th or in 7th house????
Hope someone can tell me more