Can't Meet the Right Guy. Un-rectified Natal Data.

SagiCap · #1 07-08-2009, 07:12 AM

I have trouble with bad luck in relationships. I'm posting basic natal chart in the hopes of discovering why.

I haven't been in a relationship for 5 years now and I can't figure out why I'm so unlucky. Any help?

Thank you.

FedorFan · #2 07-08-2009, 07:20 PM

The best relationships usually revolve around a trine. Marriages usually revolve around an opposition.

The question is do you want to love or be loved?

Choose a guy that your Sun, Moon, or Jupiter trines their respective Sun, Moon, or Jupiter.

If you want to love
Sun (Aries)
Moon (Gemini)
Jupiter (Pisces)

If you want to be loved
Sun (Leo)
Moon (Libra)
Jupiter (Cancer)

SagiCap · #3 07-08-2009, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by FedorFan

The best relationships usually revolve around a trine. Marriages usually revolve around an opposition.

The question is do you want to love or be loved?

Choose a guy that your Sun, Moon, or Jupiter trines their respective Sun, Moon, or Jupiter.

If you want to love
Sun (Aries)
Moon (Gemini)
Jupiter (Pisces)

If you want to be loved
Sun (Leo)
Moon (Libra)
Jupiter (Cancer)

I want both! Does that mean I look for all of that?

FedorFan · #4 07-08-2009, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by SagiCap

I want both! Does that mean I look for all of that?

If you want both go for

Sun (Gemini)
Moon (Leo)
Jupiter (Taurus)

These make oppositions, however. Opposites attract, but then they attack. They are the best aspect for marriages, IMO.

Beware, it requires ALOT of hard work, but the payoff is worth it.

astrologer50 · #5 07-09-2009, 12:50 PM

It be most helpful to ‘post’ their charts (rather than data), for others to comment on as we are all visual. For help on how to do this, go here http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=12126

SagiCap · #6 07-09-2009, 06:25 PM

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Originally Posted by astrologer50

It be most helpful to ‘post’ their charts (rather than data), for others to comment on as we are all visual. For help on how to do this, go here http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=12126

I will definately do that - when I meet the next guy. Thank you. For now, I just kind of meant in general.

katydid · #7 07-09-2009, 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by FedorFan

The best relationships usually revolve around a trine. Marriages usually revolve around an opposition.

The question is do you want to love or be loved?

Choose a guy that your Sun, Moon, or Jupiter trines their respective Sun, Moon, or Jupiter.

If you want to love
Sun (Aries)
Moon (Gemini)
Jupiter (Pisces)

If you want to be loved
Sun (Leo)
Moon (Libra)
Jupiter (Cancer)

I agree with you astrologically and theoretically, but the OP is hardly in a position at this time to pick and choose the 'right' signs. She is asking more about why she has had NO relationships to speak of-and how to jump start that process.

katydid · #8 07-09-2009, 09:24 PM

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Originally Posted by SagiCap

I will definately do that - when I meet the next guy. Thank you. For now, I just kind of meant in general.

The overall chart pattern is a bucket with the handle to Saturn in Taurus . We do not know which house it falls in, but it is a singleton, thus will have a lot of power in your chart. Saturn in Venus ruled Taurus can be insecure about one's feminine energy. In your chart Saturn is retrograde and opposing Venus, and likely to square the Moon as well. There seem to be issues for you concerning your feelings of femininity and insecurities concerning your appearance. But i think you are way more attractive than you think you are.

I think you 'distance' yourself from potential situations out of fear or even misjudging the others. With moon in Aquarius, you could perhaps rely more upon some friends or even a community based organization to help you to meet potential partners. It is too stressful perhaps for you to try and manage it on your own because your t-square to the Moon shuts you down emotionally when you first meet a potential date.

Venus in Scorpio is very magnetic and sexy, but you have challenging aspects to your sexy side, so something blocks it at times. When you feel that zingy, scorpio rush, be okay with it, WELCOME IT,

and let it lead the way out of your t-square.

astrologer50 · #9 07-10-2009, 05:06 PM

again, the chart you posted has 'expired' you need to download the chart from astro and upload as attachement here.

SagiCap · #10 07-11-2009, 01:08 AM

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Originally Posted by katydid

The overall chart pattern is a bucket with the handle to Saturn in Taurus . We do not know which house it falls in, but it is a singleton, thus will have a lot of power in your chart. Saturn in Venus ruled Taurus can be insecure about one's feminine energy. In your chart Saturn is retrograde and opposing Venus, and likely to square the Moon as well. There seem to be issues for you concerning your feelings of femininity and insecurities concerning your appearance. But i think you are way more attractive than you think you are.

I think you 'distance' yourself from potential situations out of fear or even misjudging the others. With moon in Aquarius, you could perhaps rely more upon some friends or even a community based organization to help you to meet potential partners. It is too stressful perhaps for you to try and manage it on your own because your t-square to the Moon shuts you down emotionally when you first meet a potential date.

Venus in Scorpio is very magnetic and sexy, but you have challenging aspects to your sexy side, so something blocks it at times. When you feel that zingy, scorpio rush, be okay with it, WELCOME IT,

and let it lead the way out of your t-square.

Thank you for this. I think it mostly rings true. I was a pageant winner and model, but I've (oddly) still never relied on looks. Sound funny? Well, I don't think looks determine relationship status, that's what I mean.

But anyway, I don't seem to meet guys that want relationships, they want "other things"

Thanks for the advice too!

katydid · #11 07-11-2009, 01:28 AM

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Originally Posted by SagiCap

Thank you for this. I think it mostly rings true. I was a pageant winner and model, but I've (oddly) still never relied on looks. Sound funny? Well, I don't think looks determine relationship status, that's what I mean.

But anyway, I don't seem to meet guys that want relationships, they want "other things"

Thanks for the advice too!

Well, that is the perfect description of your Venus in Scorpio being opposed by Saturn in Taurus. There are going to be plenty of Mars energy guys sniffing around your Venus, but do not count them all out just because they are looking at you in a sexual manner. Plenty of relationships start out where the girl refuses the guy his chance a that, but then he stays interested in pursuing it further.

SagiCap · #12 07-11-2009, 01:57 AM

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Originally Posted by katydid

Well, that is the perfect description of your Venus in Scorpio being opposed by Saturn in Taurus. There are going to be plenty of Mars energy guys sniffing around your Venus, but do not count them all out just because they are looking at you in a sexual manner. Plenty of relationships start out where the girl refuses the guy his chance a that, but then he stays interested in pursuing it further.

LOL @ "sniffing around your Venus" I can't stop laughing! I can see your logic.