I have been visiting these forums for 3 yrs, but this is my second horary here.
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I am asking this question because I have been without a major relationship for yrs. Recently I had a relationship with a gemini influenced Taurus that lasted for 8 months and that I ended because it looked like Friend With Benefits (a very strong phys attraction).
Now Im seeing someone I fell infatuated with (he is an aries and quite a sunny person). It is just dating, but moving forward at a very very slow pace (if at all).
So I ask "Will I have a relationship with one of these 2 men?"
I have still some feelings for my ex and I´d like to rekindle, even though it would be a challenge. Im not sure of my feelings for the Aries man, but Id like to get to know him better. The situation makes me impatient and Im already asking "should I forget them both"?. My ex has a new gf (yeah I know shame on me, dreamer!), the man Im seeing is divorced, but maybe seeing other girls besides me, I dont know, we are not exclusive or anything, we have no relship still.
looks like Im Saturn and Jupiter and Moon, cold, cold, cold! The Aries Im seeing seems to be Sun and my ex Mercury (ruler of my 5th). Saturn is in Virgo, thus I have still feelings for my ex, but Im in the house of the Aries man (7th), thus liking him too.
They both are in my 5th house, so harbouring both romantic feelings for me? My Ex approaching the sun, so he will be burnt by Sun. They are both in sensitive Cancer.
The next aspect of Moon (me) is an opposition to mr Aries (Sun), so we will separate? After that an invigorating trine to Saturn (myself) and finally a trine to Mars in Taurus in the 3rd house. I cannot figure out what Mars stands for.
Looks like it will go bad with both of them... I still see Mercury conjuncting sun... while Im opposing it. Will the separation from Sun bring me and Mercury (ex) back together?
I still have feelings for Mercury, but he hurt me with his emotional unavailability, we had tough saturn ties in synastry (sun-saturn double whammy).
Thanks for reading and eventual help