Will I have a relationship with one of these 2 men?

[jjj]

Hi all,

I have been visiting these forums for 3 yrs, but this is my second horary here.

The link to the chart is here:

http://s671.photobucket.com/albums/v...rrent=2men.gif

I am asking this question because I have been without a major relationship for yrs. Recently I had a relationship with a gemini influenced Taurus that lasted for 8 months and that I ended because it looked like Friend With Benefits (a very strong phys attraction).

Now Im seeing someone I fell infatuated with (he is an aries and quite a sunny person). It is just dating, but moving forward at a very very slow pace (if at all).

So I ask "Will I have a relationship with one of these 2 men?"

I have still some feelings for my ex and I´d like to rekindle, even though it would be a challenge. Im not sure of my feelings for the Aries man, but Id like to get to know him better. The situation makes me impatient and Im already asking "should I forget them both"?. My ex has a new gf (yeah I know shame on me, dreamer!), the man Im seeing is divorced, but maybe seeing other girls besides me, I dont know, we are not exclusive or anything, we have no relship still.

My interpretation:

looks like Im Saturn and Jupiter and Moon, cold, cold, cold! The Aries Im seeing seems to be Sun and my ex Mercury (ruler of my 5th). Saturn is in Virgo, thus I have still feelings for my ex, but Im in the house of the Aries man (7th), thus liking him too.

They both are in my 5th house, so harbouring both romantic feelings for me? My Ex approaching the sun, so he will be burnt by Sun. They are both in sensitive Cancer.

The next aspect of Moon (me) is an opposition to mr Aries (Sun), so we will separate? After that an invigorating trine to Saturn (myself) and finally a trine to Mars in Taurus in the 3rd house. I cannot figure out what Mars stands for.

Looks like it will go bad with both of them... I still see Mercury conjuncting sun... while Im opposing it. Will the separation from Sun bring me and Mercury (ex) back together?

I still have feelings for Mercury, but he hurt me with his emotional unavailability, we had tough saturn ties in synastry (sun-saturn double whammy).

Thanks for reading and eventual help
JJJ

[katydid]

The next aspect of Moon (me) is an opposition to mr Aries (Sun), so we will separate? After that an invigorating trine to Saturn (myself) and finally a trine to Mars in Taurus in the 3rd house. I cannot figure out what Mars stands for.

So perhaps the Aries is your rebound guy, and then after you separate the trine to saturn, yourself, shows you getting 'right' with yourself somehow. Maybe feeling stronger and more self reliant. Then the trine to Mars in the 3rd might mean a NEW choice of relationships coming available to you. Hopefully.

In any case, if you and your ex have a double whammy of Sun'/Saturn , then going back might not be in your best interest. If as you say, he hurt you by being distant and withholding his feelings, you and I know it is not going to change. Saturn on the Sun is really heavy and not easy to work through to receive the light and warmth that you are craving.

[jjj]

Thank you Katy,

I dont think anything comes out with the Aries guy, we have had only 3 dates in three months. Maybe he has someone else, so why does he contact me? Dunno. But the contacts are rare, 2-3 times a week.

It´s true, there were many blocked feelings btw my ex and me, from my part also. We just couldnt completely relax with each other and share warm feelings.
I guess it was the Sun-Saturn thing. But Saturn is also very binding and I still feel the attraction.

Is there any hope somewhere in the chart, with mr Aries or my ex?