Juno and your marriage partner

[ume]

I read that Juno indicate what kind of marriage partner you need and get.

My Juno is in Aquarius and in the 1st house.

It is said that Aquarius needs indepedence and partners are comfortable if they are far from each other. Non traditional marriages, or when they not live together. And that Aquaris in this plante will choose somebody very non-traditional and "insane".

Honestly, even the thought of this is scary for me. I doubt that i need that, especially since i was always somebody who needs cuddling and hugging and craving love. How can my natal chart say that i need this???

My parents both have Juno in Aquarius. They are two lonely people even if they are in the same room. So it means they need that kind of partner? But it's evidently cause loneliness and unhappiness.

People, what's your opinion on Juno? Is it really that significant? Because i would rather be happy with somebody passionate and emotional, than independent and far away.

Please tell me your thoughts and experiences.
Thank you.

[estrella]

It's hard to say without seeing your chart. There are literally hundreds of different factors that come into play.
Also, something to consider.....are you sure that the birthtime you have been using is accurate? Sometimes the time listed on birth certificates is wrong, or the mother may not remember accurately. Just an idea.

[bluemascara]

personally, i have juno in aquarius in the seventh house, and my descendant is also aquarius. I don't tink that juno or other signs of attraction in aquarius necessarily indicate a distant relationship or lack of closenss. I think rather, and speaking from experience, they point towards a unique relationship. Something out of the ordinary. YOu can still have plenty of closness and passon but perhaps your partner will just be weird of different in some way. Having a descendant and juno in aqua i know i always tend to fall for people who don't fit the mold. My first love was a straight up psycho sun/ascenant/mercury aquarius. My current boyfriend is much more sane, and has nothing in aqua but he still stands out from all the other guys i know. Also, for me anyway, i feel like i need to relate to partners on a friendly level too, i have to be friends with the person i'm with. Don't you feel that also?

[ume]

Originally Posted by bluemascara

personally, i have juno in aquarius in the seventh house, and my descendant is also aquarius. I don't tink that juno or other signs of attraction in aquarius necessarily indicate a distant relationship or lack of closenss. I think rather, and speaking from experience, they point towards a unique relationship. Something out of the ordinary. YOu can still have plenty of closness and passon but perhaps your partner will just be weird of different in some way. Having a descendant and juno in aqua i know i always tend to fall for people who don't fit the mold. My first love was a straight up psycho sun/ascenant/mercury aquarius. My current boyfriend is much more sane, and has nothing in aqua but he still stands out from all the other guys i know. Also, for me anyway, i feel like i need to relate to partners on a friendly level too, i have to be friends with the person i'm with. Don't you feel that also?

Yes, i do feel that my future husband also needs to be my friend. But i also want passion and closeness with it. We can say i don't dare to believe in love, but in the bottom of my heart i want to experience it, and i want to marry a man who is not only my friend+sex partner, but also my lover.

I had relationships where the other party was interesting at first sigh, but was irresponsible, and selfish, emotionally and sometimes sexually abusive. So i want somebody down to earth and responsible, who also an interesting person and has dreams. Actually though i have no problem speaking with crazy people, but i feel very comfortable with sensible persons. I also has many friends from every cathegory, but all of my close and long time friends are sensible, rather pure not agressive. Am i have high expectations?

If it's not too personal can i have questions?
How close are you and your boyfriend in everyday life. Are you in touch everyday? And how "weird" is he?

And thank you for your answer. It was kinda relaxing to read. I can be very easily stimulated by what i read, and i alsmot felt like frozen when i read that i may get a far away and not passionate husband.

[bluemascara]

about the passion and lover part. One of my best friends is an aquarius, with Sun, Mercury, and Venus in Aqua. And yet she's all about crazy passion. She can't stay in a relationship if she doesn't have some drama going on. She just gets bored. That's because her Venus squares both Mars AND pluto. Does yours? That will influence your selection of partners too, besides the Juno. Hers is in practical virgo, but none of the guys she's ever been with have been too practical. House position of mars, venus and juno also plays a part. For example, if your mars is in aquarius but lets say its in the fourth house, you might still be attracted to and attract people with nurturing qualities that you want.

As for me with the aquarius, to answer your question. My boyfriend and I are in touch everyday and we're pretty close. But we are friends and I wouldn't say that we're crazy passionate. I like that though. But then, my mars is in libra, so that's better for me. I feel that my boyfriend stands out from the other guys that I know. He's not an outcast weirdo, but I was definitely drawn to him for his 'different' qualities. I can't even describe it really. I guess its like when you live in certain areas guys tend to be a certain way and he's just not that way and that's a big reason why i like him. Also, my boyfriend is very group oriented in the aquarius sense which is strange because he doesn't have any aqua and I can't get his birthtime so don't know more details. Moon in gemini though. I go for air people.

My other boyfriend, the aquarius one, was very aquarius. He has a completely strange way of looking and going about things. Very radical and out there at times. But we did have a lot of passion and it was a great love. Matter of fact, he still calls me when mercury goes retrograde and plays out some weird wanna-be "The Notebook" "It's not over" scenes.

I think you have nothing to worry about. Juno in aquarius does not mean your marriage partner will be distant or your relationship will be that way. Plus, there are many other important indicators.

[bluemascara]

i just looked at your chart and you do have the venus square pluto aspect. But also remember that juno doesn't predict what kind of marraige or marriage parnter you'll have but indicates what you're attracted to. It's an indicator, not a prediction.

here's more about juno in the first house:

Juno in the 1st House: The 1st house is you, how you approach the world. Juno placed here can make being a partner the centerpiece of your life. Juno in the first house can also give you an air of innocence, something like a newborn child. This is especially true if Juno is within 10 degrees of the Ascendant and in the same sign.

[piscesascendant]

Relax, not all Aquarians are like that. I'm an Aquarian and love to cuddle (Pisces rising, Cancer rules the 5th house, Scorpio rules the 8th). My Juno is in Aries in the 1st, and I know some Aries who are simply very direct (met online) and some that need diagnosis (locally), lol. So many factors are going to weigh into this, and although people of the same sign can be similar, no two of the same sign are exactly alike. I'm an Aquarian who loves lots of snuggle time with someone, preferably with warm, fluffy blankets and big, soft pillows, so don't get too much of the wrong impression.

[flea]

I have juno in aquarius too..... The longest relationship I had was with someone who had their venus conjunct my juno. His Juno was conjunct my mars in Capricorn. So I definitely feel there is something to learn from Juno in reagrds to relationships.

I do have a very independent character.....very much a person who needs to thinking things out from first principles, and come to my own understanding rather than adopt someone elses. Yet it was through relationship that I really understood how important that sense of myself was to relationship. If I molded myself to what I felt the other wanted me to be..... the relationship weakened. So though I am at core independent....within relationship I was not so clear about my boundaries. Call me a slow learner...that realtionship hit the dust.... but I learnt so much about what relationships need to be fed in order to be nutured, healthy, and passionate....that I swa it as successful in terms of pushing me to grow as a person.

So I think the lesson of aquarius is to be independent as in true to yourself, within a intimate relationship.... a kind of fusing of the polarities to encompass all.

FleaXXX

[divine g]

[quote=bluemascara]One of my best friends is an aquarius, with Sun, Mercury, and Venus in Aqua. And yet she's all about crazy passion. She can't stay in a relationship if she doesn't have some drama going on. She just gets bored. That's because her Venus squares both Mars AND pluto. Does yours?

That's ironic,my recent ex has the exact same thing..her venus is the focal point of a t-square with mars and pluto. plus her venus is conjunct juno and conjunct my juno, all in Aquarius.

She's very passionate and clingy though, with a huge water trine, sun pisces,moon in cancer, and pluto in scorpio. we lived together for a month after only a few months dating, and felt just like husband and wife.(and yes the sex was very passionate,she rules that area, with 8th house moon and scorpio rising)

Im the cool and detached type though, with an 11th house sun, capricorn moon and empty 7th house except for my juno in aqua. Shes one of a kind in that I've never lived with a woman before, I usually need alot of space.

The problem on her side is that the past two full moons in scorpio triggered her pluto in 12th, and boom, gone is the sensitive pisces/cancer, to just pure crazy rage and it hasn't been the same since. I researched and that mars opposite pluto looks like she may become violent one day.

Long story short, Juno is a very small part of the chart so focus more on the moon and sun aspects,then mars and venus. my experience with both our junos in aquarius is that we started out as friends, shacked up like we had been married in a past life, but uranus ruling aquarius made it totally unpredictable and unstable so it ended as suddenly as it started. we're still kind of friends which is very unusual for me and things are still kind of weird and up in the air with us, and this is all aquarian energy ruling here. She has the ability to "play it cool" when i dont calll, which I always admired in her, but i found out the hard way that she's really supressing all that rage and it can come out in a dangerous way.

So if you really want passion, look at pluto, and the 8th house, that's the kind of passion that can be a bit obsessive and scary, so be careful what you wish for!

[ume]

Originally Posted by bluemascara

about the passion and lover part. One of my best friends is an aquarius, with Sun, Mercury, and Venus in Aqua. And yet she's all about crazy passion. She can't stay in a relationship if she doesn't have some drama going on. She just gets bored. That's because her Venus squares both Mars AND pluto. Does yours? That will influence your selection of partners too, besides the Juno. Hers is in practical virgo, but none of the guys she's ever been with have been too practical. House position of mars, venus and juno also plays a part. For example, if your mars is in aquarius but lets say its in the fourth house, you might still be attracted to and attract people with nurturing qualities that you want.

(Sorry for my late reply, but there is a time difference, and yesterday it was late, so i went to sleep.)

I have Venus square Pluto, Moon trine Mars, and Mars trine Pluto.
Actually i think i wrote the wrong thing. I meant passion in sex, but on the relationship-side i prefer romanticism. (Even if my mind know it's not that important, i am a very sexual person - Mars in the 1st House, Eros in 1st house and in Capricorn - full of energy on that area, and i tend to be u happy with a partner who doesn't want it as much as me.)

I don't feel safe in a relationship if it's full of drama. I can only conentrate on my professional life if the private is in harmony. Drama scares me, and i break up the relationship if it's occur too often. (I think it's the Libra Moon.)

Venus square Pluto, sounds really awful to me. I haven't experienced it in my character, and if i can i would try to not experience it in the future.

I think Venus square Pluto give some insecure feeling and unrealistic expectations, thought. I still don't know how to react to this, and be better person. I hope i can find the answers, because i don'T want to make my belovesd unhappy.

Thank you for taking the time and answer!

[ume]

Originally Posted by bluemascara

i just looked at your chart and you do have the venus square pluto aspect. But also remember that juno doesn't predict what kind of marraige or marriage parnter you'll have but indicates what you're attracted to. It's an indicator, not a prediction.

here's more about juno in the first house:

Juno in the 1st House: The 1st house is you, how you approach the world. Juno placed here can make being a partner the centerpiece of your life. Juno in the first house can also give you an air of innocence, something like a newborn child. This is especially true if Juno is within 10 degrees of the Ascendant and in the same sign.

Yes, Venus square Pluto. It's kin of scary and disturbing..... I hope i won't ever act on it. When i read what it means it was new to me that i have this side.

I know that site, i started this thread because i also read that on it:

"Juno in Aquarius: You need a partner that's - well - different. They may be a genius, eccentric, or just plain insane (maybe all of the above). It may be the partnership that is different. Aquarius is a sign that is fanatic about independence and having enough space. A bi-costal marriage where the two people spend a good deal of time apart is a good situation for the Pallas in Aquarius individual."


Now i was thinking about it. Maybe i really need independence in some areas, but i could only act upon it if i know that there is a devoted and loving partner next to me. If not i would feel really insecure.

[ume]

Originally Posted by piscesascendant

Relax, not all Aquarians are like that. I'm an Aquarian and love to cuddle (Pisces rising, Cancer rules the 5th house, Scorpio rules the 8th). My Juno is in Aries in the 1st, and I know some Aries who are simply very direct (met online) and some that need diagnosis (locally), lol. So many factors are going to weigh into this, and although people of the same sign can be similar, no two of the same sign are exactly alike. I'm an Aquarian who loves lots of snuggle time with someone, preferably with warm, fluffy blankets and big, soft pillows, so don't get too much of the wrong impression.

OK, thank you for telling!

[ume]

Originally Posted by flea

I have juno in aquarius too..... The longest relationship I had was with someone who had their venus conjunct my juno. His Juno was conjunct my mars in Capricorn. So I definitely feel there is something to learn from Juno in reagrds to relationships.

I do have a very independent character.....very much a person who needs to thinking things out from first principles, and come to my own understanding rather than adopt someone elses. Yet it was through relationship that I really understood how important that sense of myself was to relationship. If I molded myself to what I felt the other wanted me to be..... the relationship weakened. So though I am at core independent....within relationship I was not so clear about my boundaries. Call me a slow learner...that realtionship hit the dust.... but I learnt so much about what relationships need to be fed in order to be nutured, healthy, and passionate....that I swa it as successful in terms of pushing me to grow as a person.

So I think the lesson of aquarius is to be independent as in true to yourself, within a intimate relationship.... a kind of fusing of the polarities to encompass all.

FleaXXX

What you said is really inetersts me, though it's still not really clear. Please write more about what you learned.

Me (Juno, Venus and Mars in Aqua) so far was inrelationships, but they ended badly. First there were friendship, but he saw me as his mother, and with almost no intimacy.
Second relationship, i respected him and looked up to him to the point when i totally forgot myself. He was in the center of my life, and i submitted fot his every thought and desire. He used me to the point when i felt totally depressed, still happy. Kind of unhealthy. There were very violent sex (but the funny thing, it was still not enought for me i wanted more feelings in it, and more intimacy). But he only gave me violent and selfish sex.
At the end, i was at a point wehn despite all of that, i couldn't broke up with him. He left me, and for my recover i needed around 2 years.
After that i had one night stands, just to experience sex with different men and to see how i react.

I know, i somebody say to me it sounds totally wrong, unhealthy and awful, but that's the truth. I don't know why but physical please is always on my mind, though i am not a man. It's embarrassing.

Now i want t healthy relationmship, with an equal (not dominating partner). Me too, don't want to dominate him, but want his devoted love, of course.

So what i learned, that i need to be friends with my partner, but also need intimacy, i crave physical contact, and peace.
And i also can't give up myself. I want tomebody who i respect and who respect me.

[ume]

Long story short, Juno is a very small part of the chart so focus more on the moon and sun aspects,then mars and venus. my experience with both our junos in aquarius is that we started out as friends, shacked up like we had been married in a past life, but uranus ruling aquarius made it totally unpredictable and unstable so it ended as suddenly as it started. we're still kind of friends which is very unusual for me and things are still kind of weird and up in the air with us, and this is all aquarian energy ruling here. She has the ability to "play it cool" when i dont calll, which I always admired in her, but i found out the hard way that she's really supressing all that rage and it can come out in a dangerous way.

So if you really want passion, look at pluto, and the 8th house, that's the kind of passion that can be a bit obsessive and scary, so be careful what you wish for!

I don't have Mars opposite Pluto, and i am definitely not violent, but a calm person who rather gives herself up, than dominate others.

Actually i already read about my Venus and Mars planets, and that lead me to read about the others (Juno, Eros, Psyche etc.)

The passion i wrtoe about and would like to have is not at all agressive! I rather call it devoted love with intimacy. I didn't meant and wish for anything obsessive and scary. I am a calm person, and want harmony around me. If there is no harmony in my private life, i don't feel well. And i am a person who can't even sleep well if i hurt somebody. So i hope i will be like that in the future too.

My Pluto is in Libra 9th House, and the 8th house is in Leo. I read what it means, but i still don't know how these two can indicate Passion. Can you tell me?

[byjove]

Hi all, yep, I've Juno in Aqua, and I've mostly had short relationships...My Aqua Juno tells so much about how I really need us to be equal partners...definitely.

My Juno is also in my 8th house, which, I read just a moment ago means I need my partner to be a "sex machine" LOL. Oh how funny!

Venus in Pisces
Mars in Gemini
Capricorn DC
Pluto in 5th Scorpio trine 9th Pisces Venus

[ume]

Originally Posted by byjove

Hi all, yep, I've Juno in Aqua, and I've mostly had short relationships...My Aqua Juno tells so much about how I really need us to be equal partners...definitely.

My Juno is also in my 8th house, which, I read just a moment ago means I need my partner to be a "sex machine" LOL. Oh how funny!

Venus in Pisces
Mars in Gemini
Capricorn DC
Pluto in 5th Scorpio trine 9th Pisces Venus

I am thinking about this Juno pretty much in these days. Now i think maybe finding independence and friendship in a love relationship and mix it with good sex can be a solution.

Physical pleasure also important to me, so i understand you. (My Mars is in 1st house.) And it's many places in my chart, but if i interpret it well, in my case if it's not in harmony and mixed with friendship and respect it can be dangerous chasing physical pleasure 24/7.

[piscesascendant]

gee whiz (or is it jee whiz? lol).... sounds like people are experiencing the brunt of of Aquarius. We Aquarians can be fickle and individualistic, but my guess is, what Juno in Aquarius is telling you is to simply be in control of your relationship, rather than put someone else ahead of yourself. When I once asked an astrologer what one keyboard sums up Aquarius, she said "control", as in "being in control". So don't let that Aquarius keep you on too long a leash (so to speak) if your crave affection and intimacy.

For me, my Juno is in Aries, and the way that has helped isn't always in relationship to another person, but to my endeavors as well. I've been working on a lot of writing lately, and now more than ever have had the mentality of "do it!" rather than mull it over for hours, days, even weeks. It's paid off, and I've been productive. (A relationship to my work, you could say.)

If anything, I think Juno will simply guage what you could use in a partner, and see if those characteristics as a whole show up in your partner. Simply because you have Juno in Aquarius doesn't mean you need to be in a relationship with an Aquarian--unless of course you like to snuggle a lot, then let's stay in touch! LOL

[ume]

Originally Posted by piscesascendant

gee whiz (or is it jee whiz? lol).... sounds like people are experiencing the brunt of of Aquarius. We Aquarians can be fickle and individualistic, but my guess is, what Juno in Aquarius is telling you is to simply be in control of your relationship, rather than put someone else ahead of yourself. When I once asked an astrologer what one keyboard sums up Aquarius, she said "control", as in "being in control". So don't let that Aquarius keep you on too long a leash (so to speak) if your crave affection and intimacy.

For me, my Juno is in Aries, and the way that has helped isn't always in relationship to another person, but to my endeavors as well. I've been working on a lot of writing lately, and now more than ever have had the mentality of "do it!" rather than mull it over for hours, days, even weeks. It's paid off, and I've been productive. (A relationship to my work, you could say.)

If anything, I think Juno will simply guage what you could use in a partner, and see if those characteristics as a whole show up in your partner. Simply because you have Juno in Aquarius doesn't mean you need to be in a relationship with an Aquarian--unless of course you like to snuggle a lot, then let's stay in touch! LOL

Oh, nonono! I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with an Aquarian. Not at all. I feel very comfortable with Aqua people.

What scared me is the interpretation of Juno in Aquarius.

But since i am thinking more and more about it, now i think don't mind independence in a relationship if it doesn't mean loneliness. I also love intimacy and closesness and cuddling. Finding the balanc would be the more important.

It would be great if i could read from my chart if i can achieve this balance and the happiness with it.
Thank you for coming back, and writing down your thoughts!!

[piscesascendant]

What scared me is the interpretation of Juno in Aquarius.

Understandable. I didn't mean to confuse the two. I read a website that described Juno in each of the signs, and no matter what sign it was in, the descriptions seemed a little extreme. Made me think, "no wonder some people never want to get married!" LOL Just kidding.

[ume]

Piscesascendant, i felt the exact same thing! (The next scariest was the Chiron.)

[katydid]

Originally Posted by ume

Piscesascendant, i felt the exact same thing! (The next scariest was the Chiron.)

Juno is one of a gazillion asteroids. And they are not as powerful as planets usually. They need to be on an angle,or conjunct or opposed a planet to make a strong appearance in one's chart interpretation imo. just having Juno in aquarius does not automatically activate Juno as being a major influence in your relationships. First look and see if it contacts major points/aspects in your natal chart.

[piscesascendant]

Juno is one of a gazillion asteroids

So, the chances of finding the right one to marry are one in a gazillion? Sounds about right! (Sorry, that was too good to pass up! LOL!)

[katydid]

Originally Posted by piscesascendant

So, the chances of finding the right one to marry are one in a gazillion? Sounds about right! (Sorry, that was too good to pass up! LOL!)

Yea, Pretty much. It feels like it is nearly impossible until it finally happens.

[ume]

Originally Posted by katydid

Juno is one of a gazillion asteroids. And they are not as powerful as planets usually. They need to be on an angle,or conjunct or opposed a planet to make a strong appearance in one's chart interpretation imo. just having Juno in aquarius does not automatically activate Juno as being a major influence in your relationships. First look and see if it contacts major points/aspects in your natal chart.

My Aqua Juno is conjuct my Aqua Venus and Mars, and also square my Scorpio Saturn and Libra Pluto.

I don't know what it means, but maybe he gives more strenght to Venus and Mars?

I interpret as we need to be equal and friends too for a successfull relationship. Or it will be a power struggle. Also i interpret the independence as do not be in a relationship because one fear of loneliness. Am i get it right?

[DiDi]

hi ume
you said..."but on the relationship-side i prefer romanticism"
.... you have your moon in libra!!!

you are a person who would not like confrontation, deffintaly need romance and equlity in your relationships.

Iam aqu sun merc venus but with a cap juno, Iam attracted mentaly to men who are like capricorn qualities.. its connected as my dad was a capricorn to.
my partner has aqu juno with capricorn on his decendant..

we have that typical aquarius relationship, needeing frendship first, independance and freedom, we did have to establish a trusting mental and physical bond first.
we need to have our seperate lives to be free from influance or emotions to get on with things.
me haveing the cap juno in his decendant he sees me as his concept to his ideal of a wife.

Ive delved into juno to and i think like piscesassendant said

what Juno in Aquarius is telling you is to simply be in control of your relationship, rather than put someone else ahead of yourself.

its not the outcome of your marriage/ partnership just the qualities in it.
but your moon has a more powerfull influence especially in libra!