will i have a convo with him?

[tikana]

hey guys
i need a bit of a help with significators here
i need to talk to someone about one particular person about something that happened where everyone who was ever involved suffered (family friends and litterally EVERYONE) no, they were not married.

so i phrased a question .. wil i have a conversaion with this dude about the her?
so i am 1st
this block is 7th
should i take the woman into a question? = his xfriend?
anyway
the chart seems to be radical cause merc is the same planet as triplicity of asce
jupiter in 1st house good news.. Neptune in 1st ahhh makes sense.. i am very fuzzy about this and shakey.. where to start where to end.
anyway...
saturn is about to go direct.. it sits in 7th .. yeah i am interested in this...Saturn is VOID! nothing comes near it ...
so i have to look at the moon
1st aspect from the moon is sextiel to venus... it rules 3rd and 8th
okay... moon is very weak.. in 12th house its hidden... no essential dignities in either saturn or sun... sun receives saturn by term and face.. i guess this person is kinda okay with me talking about it . other wise he would have been receing me in fall or detriment...

moon/venus - looks like there is something going on .. a talk.. but it is not good sextile... maybe the conversation will be painful to both of us, and i do not want to cross and start blame game, who did what to whom.
last aspect of the moon is square sun .. and sun is peregrine.
eeek not liking this at all!
interestingly enough if i use modern rulers then sun/uranus do sextile 1 something .. 1 year?!
who wants to take?!


thanks
T

[barbh]

Yes, you will. Mercury is applying to conjunct the Sun, him, in your 3rd house. Merc to Sun in about 5 degrees, which in days is the 20th, or in real time the 18th, or maybe 5 weeks.

Oh! Wait a sec.....Sun squares Jup before Merc gets to it. This could be seen as frustration. What the heck is Jupiter, as its rising. Its ruling your 10th, 11th and co rules the 1st. Well, since its a planet in your house, I'm going to take it as a yes still. 1 degree. Moon in the terms of Venus and applying to sextile Venus, ruler of your 3rd, shows that you're talking. Venus also exalts the Sun, this dude, so you do want to talk to him. Moon will then translate from Venus, your 3rd ruler, to Mars, his 3rd ruler.

I say its a yes...moon to venus in 8 degrees
2 months maybe

barbh

[tikana]

Barb

2 months is a bit too soon.. there are a lot of problems going on currently.. he does not have time even to breathe. the talk is too heavy.. and there is not a day when i dont think about it .. what to say, how to start it without triggering a negative reaction or automatic shut off.

that Jupiter.. i have a feeling that i will have to talk to his friend about this first...i need to come in with clean pure heart as far as intentions... crazy!

we will see.. thanks dear!

Tik

[Lions215]

Tikana,
This doesn't have to do with your question but I really like your Horary Chart Program.I would like to buy it ,It has everything.What program is it?And where can I get it?
As far as your queation .Will you have a convo with him?I don't know when you will,but I believe you will.There's so much Saturn in the chart ruling Pluto through Uranus,It really gives the impression of something very heavy on your heart.With Saturn retrograde in the 7th Ruler Mercury,It feels like your worried about coming across overly critical and maybe there are too many details you want to point out and you don't know where to start.Also you asked about the girlfriend and she is conjoining Mars in the 2nd.Mars being his second significator.He's strong in his own sign and he makes a strong mutual reception to her through the Sun.So however he hurt you and yours they seem to be partners in crime.So I don't think you can talk about the situation without bringing her up.With Uranus in the First you may experience alot of anxiety,maybe its like should I shouldn't I?With Part of Fortune in the 4th house you and your family are your primary concern.I find it hard to believe that you will let this thing rest,it hits you at your heart.I know someone with experience here at the forum will help you sort this out.And I wish you peace in your endeavor and I hope that you'll get the closure you and your family deserve.Blessings.

[Lions215]

A question I would ask in regard to the chart is should the chart even be interpreted with saturn in the 7th and being Retrograde on top of that.I know it means the Astrologer will have a hard time interpreting the chart correctly.But since the Astrologer is not interpreting the chart and another is would that make the chart valid?I know they say a 7th house Saturn is Ok if the question Has to do with the 7th house.Marriage and committed partners,buisness contracts and open enemies.I'm not sure but it seems like it is about an open enemy,not sure.Tikana am I right assuming this?

[tikana]

Lion

NOT exactly the situation .. this is not about gf and bf.... they were NEVER dating.. they are growing up together literally... conversation will be painful I know it cause he explodes and implodes and he explodes when everything cave up to him then shot everything out... and he does it with brutal force, there is no other way to describe it. She is no angel and her other half did a lot wrong as well. that is what happend. I wanted to start talking to him a few months ago but i noticed that he has other problems that are growing like mushrooms, as soon as that calms down first opportunity i am talking but i need that opportunity. Will it hurt me? NO, their problems have nothing to do with me. it would benefit me big time if i accomplish what i am after.

the program is solar fire but i edited the chart layout

thanks
T