Any chance of marriage and children ?

[happyface]

In this period in my life I am concerned with the more personal aspects, like marriage and family. I tried to read about this and came to the conclusion that my planets are not helping me at all. Some examples:
-lilith in libra in the 12th house;
-an empty 7 house; ruler of the 7th, Mars, in Virgo, a barren sign, in hard aspects with Sun and Moon;
- an empty fifth house, in a barren sign, Aquarius
- Sun in Gemini, Moon in Sagittarius - all barren signs and in cadent houses ( 3, 9, 11 )
From what I could understand from my chart, it is all about studies, thinking, mind traveling..nothing about love or family.
So, be honest with me, what do you think and is any possibility for this ?

[katydid]

Originally Posted by happyface

In this period in my life I am concerned with the more personal aspects, like marriage and family. I tried to read about this and came to the conclusion that my planets are not helping me at all. Some examples:
-lilith in libra in the 12th house;
-an empty 7 house; ruler of the 7th, Mars, in Virgo, a barren sign, in hard aspects with Sun and Moon;
- an empty fifth house, in a barren sign, Aquarius
- Sun in Gemini, Moon in Sagittarius - all barren signs and in cadent houses ( 3, 9, 11 )
From what I could understand from my chart, it is all about studies, thinking, mind traveling..nothing about love or family.
So, be honest with me, what do you think and is any possibility for this ?

With all of those goddesses in your 7th I bet you do eventually marry. You may not see it coming , with Aries on the 7th it may be a quick impulsive decision. The ruler of the 7th, Mars, sits alongside Jupiter in the 11th. You may marry an older, more established man and have a readymade family too.

[astrologer50]

~As you are experiencing your first Saturn return I'm not surprised you are wanting to put down roots, marry and have kids.

When looking at a womans chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.

If you want to research more into synastry try here
http://cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html

Predicting marriage and/or having children can be done, but it is not easy, time consuming and intricate. There are lots of things to take into consideration like, secondary progressions, what interaspects one chart makes to another, Solar arcs, Solar returns, Transits etc

My way of helping newbies is for them to do more research and learning rather than just ‘drop the answer in your lap’ and not necessarily to provide professional readings and forecast future events. If you are truly interested in astrology, I and most others here will help you…..
Having a Sagittarius MC is the sign of the teacher and I do indeed teach astrology. This forum is a wonderful community of all mixed levels. So instead of dropping the answer in your lap I may provide links to encourage you in the hope that if you are sincerely interested enough you will do the research and enlighten yourself….

T Saturn will be crossing your Asc fairly soon, to read about this try here...
http://www.cafeastrology.com/saturnt...inghouses.html

Looking at your marriage house ruled by Mars and placed in 12th Equal house system does suggest some problems and delays

When looking at children we look at 5th house and 8th for conception. Ruler of 8th is placed in 9th conj MC, may be involved with foreigner, live abroad

Moon Quincunx (Inconjunct) Venus

The frustration you experience in life often comes because you get what you ask for from other people (and life in general). Unfortunately, what you ask for isn't what you want. Partly, you are slowly learning better communication skills, and partly you are learning to understand your own deeper cravings as they are. You see the unacknowledged and undigested parts of your sensitivity and creativity present in others, but, these are really projections that you have to own within your self if you are to change for the better.
http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/q...retations.html

Venus is cancer is very family orientated but Saggi Moon wants freedom and independence and is usually rather late for settling down.

Mercury Quincunx (Inconjunct) Uranus

The new and unusual things that occur to you may carry you far from the basic needs of your everyday life. Good ideas do not necessarily require you to act immediately to bring them about. Positive innovation will require you to alter yourself and your basic habits before you will see much change in the world or your environment.
http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/q...retations.html

Good news is T Jupiter is at present going through your 5th house of love affairs, creativity, children etc for a 12month stay so make the best of it while it lasts.

You could always ask a Horary question in their GLounge also