Okay guys, I think I am finally getting a hold of how these question/discussions in these forums work.
By the way, thank you Astrologer50, I guess my other posts looked like I was just trying to juice out information from this place but I actually had researched all the major astrology sites with different aspects and topics in such. (I just wanted to test the waters and see if I would get any responses other than the clear cut defintions on the web, which I did. There are some pretty skilled self taught astrologers lurking around this forum!!!)Thank you, I have appreciated your guidance.
Now to the topic...
I was wondering how different aspects in the chart create a balance even if they are metaphorically on two sides of the coin.
For example, in my chart I have, Sun trine neptune giving me strong empathetic qualities, however, I also have neptune square venus which initially gives me confusion on how to handle the empathy. Then, I have mercury trine neptune which exhibits more empathetic awareness.
I also have saturn square ascendant, saturn opposition midheaven and saturn trine sun.
I understand both my saturn square ascendant and saturn opposition aspects give me troubles in relating with people and even working, while at the same time, my Saturn trine sun shows potential for discipline and hardwork.
On another note--If empathy is the ability to connect with anothers soul on an intuitive level and feel what they are feeling and relate to them with the emotions that you are sharing with them, how is it possible for that empathy to be balanced when their are hard aspects in the chart with saturn at the same time.(difficulty relating to people)
I have heard somewhere that hard aspects are initially felt while they soften with age, maturity and growth of wisdom.
What I am saying is, with aspect balances in the chart, how do you form a general conclusion while combining the likes of both sides of the soft and hard aspects. (I guess my black and white scale attitude is showing with my taurus sun opposition scopio moon) Is it just a matter of weighing the soft aspets with the hard aspects?
Concluding my speel,
Does anyone else have aspects which counter each other like the example I gave in my chart?
If so how does it intially affect you and what balance does it bring, if any?
Just include you birth chart and the countering/balancing aspects.
P.S. I am still getting the hang of the terminology in astrology. If I had any confusing statements that were not understood, please show me how I can correctly word them. Thanks.