2 Years dating-What's in the way of moving in together?

PeanutButter · #1 03-30-2009, 07:29 PM

Hi I've been dating this person for 2 years. We broke up for a little bit. Now he says Honey Im going to marry you. Watch! Haha I don't want anything less than that with him either. We've definately had our commitment issues in the past, but very much in love and lust with each other. LOL I want us to move in together soon. But somethings in the way and I dont know what. Should I just accept it's not ever going to happen? (build a life with him?)
His significator is Saturn. It makes no reception to me (the Moon) and that concerns me. The chart in itself looks scary!! All those squares and oppositions. Any insight would be appreciated. Thanks

archergirl · #2 03-30-2009, 08:19 PM

So are you actually asking about the living together, or are you asking with the longer-term picture in mind? It pays to be very clear about what you are asking.

AG

hermetic · #3 03-30-2009, 08:27 PM

ok, from what I see here you both have one thing connecting your significators, both are positioned in the rulership of Mercury, and Mercury is ruling 4th(home life, perhaps the future home) and 12th house(some hidden subconciuoss fear or enemies)
I see it as both of you are thinking about home-moving in togetherm but Mercury is combust by Sun, not good. Sun rules your 2nd house - Is money the possible problem? Or his 8th house-his fears?
How can you not know what's in the way? are you talking to him about it?
perhaps the answers you get from him will be more accurate than here

PeanutButter · #4 03-30-2009, 09:29 PM

AG- Yes living together, getting married, the whole nine yards. LOL
Also, How long do Horary charts "last"? How far in time?

Hermetic-Yeah we've both been talking about the WANTING to share and build a life together, move in together, etc. Its on our minds fer sure!
You are correct. Money is a big factor. He just is getting started taking over a small business, I do "alright"... He is struggling and he has 2 small boys from a previous relationship, which coincedentally I just had the pleasure of meeting this weekend.

This was a huge step for him! He's never introduced his kids to any other woman he's dated.
I just don't think money is the only issue and I think I just need to ask him point blank what those other fears may be. I have feeling it's related to his EX and his mom.

barbh · #5 04-01-2009, 04:27 PM

I find the question confusing. I think i could do it if the question was 'will we' move in together, but if its 'whats in the way' of us moving in together, well, that just completely throws me. That was your question, right?

barbh

PeanutButter · #6 04-01-2009, 04:32 PM

Yes. In the end that's the real question. Will we move in together? Sorry about that...

barbh · #7 04-01-2009, 04:43 PM

Probably. The next aspect of the moon, you, is to sextile Venus in his 4th, and Venus rules your 11th of hopes and wishes. Saturn, him, is in the sign that rules your 4th, and mercury, ruler of your 4th, is about to conjunct the Sun in his 4th. We could use the sun as his secondary ruler. Merc will then sextile Jup, ruler of his 4th. I'd say you will. Probably you moving in with him, it looks like. Plus, Uranus is right up there on the MC, cusp of his 4th, so it looks like some imminent change in his home sector.

barbh

PeanutButter · #8 04-01-2009, 05:00 PM

Fascinating...I'll definately keep you posted. You horary whizzes have been on the ball so far!

I have so much to learn still...but this platform helps tremendously! Here I was thinking the absolute worst because the chart "looked" angry and there was no receptions from him (Saturn) to me (Moon)...I have to remind myself of the house rulers, turning the charts, etc...Thank you!