Worst thing:feeling unloved...

[Yasmine]

Hey i'm very interested in studying astrology,but this takes time and i'm just at beginning(i'm only 18 ;D) so maybe i can't decode my chart as well as many of people from this forum...So i'm begging you to take a look at my chart.I had a normal,joyful life as a kid,i was a very good student but something strange happend to me at the age of 15 : i fall in love(for the first time),of course the affair wasn't nothin serious for him(we are not in the same town so...the relationship was impossible).Now i'm almost 18 but i still feel somethin for him.The problem is that i'm too shy :-[,i blame saturn R in 5 house for my bad luck in love.I don't know what to do i'm just feelnin miserable,why nobody want's me?I never ever had a boyfriend and now it became awkward...I must get accustomed with my solitude?(i don't have many friends...but i don't wish to have as much i need to have a lover...).What do you think i should do...i will be loved by someone in this life?I was born on 25 june 1991 at 12:53 p.m in braila,Romania.


[Moderator edit - Thread moved here, as threads posted outside the Greenhorns' Lounge need for the posters to give their own astro reading in their opening post. This particular thread will help to acquaint you with this forum and provide links to other educative threads at the Education board].

[Virinchi]

Yasmine
Jun 25,1991
Time: 12:53PM Zone: 3:00 DST: 0
Braila, Romania
Longitude: 27E58 Latitude: 45N16
Lahiri Ayanamsa: 23:45 365.25 Day Year
Current Period: Ke/Me/Ve

As 05:41 Vi U.Phalguni Su
Su 09:37 Ge Ardra Ra
Mo 20:59 Sc Jyeshtha Me
Ma 24:01 Cn Aslesha Me
Me 19:24 Ge Ardra Ra
Ju 19:32 Cn Aslesha Me
Ve 24:27 Cn Aslesha Me
SaR 11:55 Cp Shravana Mo
Ra 25:13 Sg P.Shadya Ve
Ke 25:13 Ge Punarvasu Ju

Vimshottari Dashas
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Me Jun-25-1991
Ke Dec-23-2002
Ve Dec-23-2009
Su Dec-23-2029
Mo Dec-24-2035
Ma Dec-23-2045
Ra Dec-23-2052
Ju Dec-23-2070
Sa Dec-23-2086

Rashi Chart
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System's Approach Analysis
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Sun: Good Placement, Afflicts house 10 MEP 21%
Moon: Good Placement, Debilated in Rashi, Bright,
Aspected by functional benefic(s): Ju 71%,
Mars: Good Placement, Debilated in Rashi, weak dispositor,
Conjunct functional benefic(s): Ju 10%, Ve 91%,
Mercury: Good Placement, Combust, Debilated in Navamsa, own sign,
Jupiter: Good Placement, weak dispositor,
Conjunct functional malefic(s): Ma 10%,
Conjunct functional benefic(s): Ve 1%,
Venus: Good Placement, weak dispositor,
Conjunct functional malefic(s): Ma 91%,
Conjunct functional benefic(s): Ju 1%,
Saturn: Good Placement, Debilated in Navamsa, own sign,

Vimshottari Dasha/Buktis
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Me/Ve Jun 25,1991
Me/Su Mar 18,1992
Me/Mo Jan 22,1993
Me/Ma Jun 24,1994
Me/Ra Jun 21,1995
Me/Ju Jan 7,1998
Me/Sa Apr 14,2000
Ke/Ke Dec 23,2002
Ke/Ve May 22,2003
Ke/Su Jul 21,2004
Ke/Mo Nov 26,2004
Ke/Ma Jun 27,2005
Ke/Ra Nov 23,2005
Ke/Ju Dec 11,2006
Ke/Sa Nov 17,2007
Ke/Me Dec 26,2008
Ve/Ve Dec 23,2009
Ve/Su Apr 24,2013
Ve/Mo Apr 24,2014
Ve/Ma Dec 24,2015
Ve/Ra Feb 22,2017
Ve/Ju Feb 23,2020
Ve/Sa Oct 24,2022
Ve/Me Dec 23,2025
Ve/Ke Oct 23,2028
Su/Su Dec 23,2029
Su/Mo Apr 12,2030
Su/Ma Oct 11,2030
Su/Ra Feb 16,2031
Su/Ju Jan 11,2032
Su/Sa Oct 29,2032
Su/Me Oct 11,2033
Su/Ke Aug 18,2034
Su/Ve Dec 23,2034
Mo/Mo Dec 24,2035
Mo/Ma Oct 23,2036
Mo/Ra May 24,2037
Mo/Ju Nov 23,2038
Mo/Sa Mar 24,2040
Mo/Me Oct 23,2041
Mo/Ke Mar 25,2043
Mo/Ve Oct 24,2043
Mo/Su Jun 24,2045
Ma/Ma Dec 23,2045
Ma/Ra May 21,2046
Ma/Ju Jun 9,2047
Ma/Sa May 15,2048
Ma/Me Jun 24,2049
Ma/Ke Jun 21,2050
Ma/Ve Nov 17,2050
Ma/Su Jan 17,2052
Ma/Mo May 24,2052
Ra/Ra Dec 23,2052
Ra/Ju Sep 5,2055
Ra/Sa Jan 29,2058
Ra/Me Dec 5,2060
Ra/Ke Jun 24,2063
Ra/Ve Jul 12,2064
Ra/Su Jul 12,2067
Ra/Mo Jun 5,2068
Ra/Ma Dec 5,2069
Ju/Ju Dec 23,2070
Ju/Sa Feb 10,2073
Ju/Me Aug 24,2075
Ju/Ke Nov 29,2077
Ju/Ve Nov 5,2078
Ju/Su Jul 6,2081
Ju/Mo Apr 24,2082
Ju/Ma Aug 24,2083
Ju/Ra Jul 30,2084
Sa/Sa Dec 23,2086
Sa/Me Dec 26,2089
Sa/Ke Sep 4,2092
Sa/Ve Oct 14,2093
Sa/Su Dec 14,2096
Sa/Mo Nov 26,2097
Sa/Ma Jun 27,2099
Sa/Ra Aug 6,2100
Sa/Ju Jun 13,2103

[Virinchi]

your KETU period ends by the end of 2009 which will bring you out of depression

venus in 11th house conjunct with jupiter and mars will drag you into a new relation after 2010 during which you will feel that you are lovable

[astrologer50]

It be most helpful to ‘post’ their charts (rather than data), for others to comment on as we are all visual. For help on how to do this, go here http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=12126

[Yasmine]

This is my chart

[astrologer50]

Welcome,

I'm a modern astrologer that uses Equal house system. I have never seen a chart with so many quincunxs, 6 in all but 8 if you include Node. People with 3 or more quincunxs always seem to be searching lifelong to answers and the meaning of life, so perhaps some research....

There has been some great threads recently here on AW
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum...ad.php?t=15271

My way of helping newbies is for them to do more research and learning rather than just ‘drop the answer in your lap’ and not necessarily to provide professional readings and forecast future events.
Having a Sagittarius MC is the sign of the teacher and I do indeed teach astrology. This forum is a wonderful community of all mixed levels. So instead of dropping the answer in your lap I may provide links and dangle carrots in the hope that if you are sincerely interested enough you will do the research and enlighten yourself….

Moon Quincunx (Inconjunct) Mercury

You end up confused at times because you read more into communications than are there. It's good to be able to read between the lines - just make sure you are also reading what is on the lines. Your expectations and imagination are assets as soon as you are able to develop a method for expressing your true feelings. Since many of your feelings are hidden from you, self expression becomes a path of self discovery.
http://cafeastrology.com/natal/quinc...retations.html
You will find all your quincunxed here...

Are you sure of your time of birth? It is crucial and about to change signs. Make a diary note for end July next year 2010 cos it takes T mars 2.5years to go through all the signs and houses. This is a great way to rectify your time of birth. You will prob find yourself doing lots of running about activity, sports even, energy very high. Alternatively, around 25 August this year T mercury will be going over your Asc, SO lots and lots of letters communications short distance trips etc etc...

Transiting Saturn going through the houses
http://cafeastrology.com/saturntransitinghouses.html
Transitingt Jupier is in your 5th house of Love affairs romance and recreations, so make the most of it. It takes Jupiter approx 12months to go through a sign and house.
http://cafeastrology.com/jupiter_transits_houses.html

Your natal Pluto is quite challenged by 3squares
http://cafeastrology.com/natal/venusplutoaspects.html

Mars conjunct Jupiter is a confidence aspect, so use it, in the house of friendships, group activities etc

Your chart does lack the element of mutability
Mutable Signs
This would indicate someone who had great difficulty in adapting
and making adjustments to changing circumstances in life. This kind of inflexibility could prove very troublesome in the pattern of ever changing conditions that prevail today. These people are not naturally group oriented; they tend to work better alone rather than as team players.

Plus 5 out of ten in fixed signs which suggests lots of stubborness.
Fixed Sign
This shows a natural surety of conviction, and possibly downright stubbornness! It's hard to change people with lots of Fixed signs. It offers stability, endurance and survival but when negative side emerges there is an unwillingness to change, to alter beliefs, to learn new things, or to LISTEN TO OTHERS' OPINIONS!

So instead of listening to others, develop your own and grow with confidence as I'm sure you will

[Yasmine]

I'm sure about my time of birth...unfortunatly i'm not a libra rising, (...but my ascendant been very close to libra i suppose i have some libra traits..?!If there are signs of love in my chart,the guy it should be an aquarius or a leo?I'm in love with an : gemini sun,libra moon and scorpio rising,with mars and venus in leo...but we can't be together,he is a sociable person,i'm too reserved so...i'm just sad and lonely livin a miserable life.

Originally Posted by astrologer50

Welcome,

I'm a modern astrologer that uses Equal house system. I have never seen a chart with so many quincunxs, 6 in all but 8 if you include Node. People with 3 or more quincunxs always seem to be searching lifelong to answers and the meaning of life, so perhaps some research....

There has been some great threads recently here on AW
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum...ad.php?t=15271

My way of helping newbies is for them to do more research and learning rather than just ‘drop the answer in your lap’ and not necessarily to provide professional readings and forecast future events.
Having a Sagittarius MC is the sign of the teacher and I do indeed teach astrology. This forum is a wonderful community of all mixed levels. So instead of dropping the answer in your lap I may provide links and dangle carrots in the hope that if you are sincerely interested enough you will do the research and enlighten yourself….

Moon Quincunx (Inconjunct) Mercury

You end up confused at times because you read more into communications than are there. It's good to be able to read between the lines - just make sure you are also reading what is on the lines. Your expectations and imagination are assets as soon as you are able to develop a method for expressing your true feelings. Since many of your feelings are hidden from you, self expression becomes a path of self discovery.
http://cafeastrology.com/natal/quinc...retations.html
You will find all your quincunxed here...

Are you sure of your time of birth? It is crucial and about to change signs. Make a diary note for end July next year 2010 cos it takes T mars 2.5years to go through all the signs and houses. This is a great way to rectify your time of birth. You will prob find yourself doing lots of running about activity, sports even, energy very high. Alternatively, around 25 August this year T mercury will be going over your Asc, SO lots and lots of letters communications short distance trips etc etc...

Transiting Saturn going through the houses
http://cafeastrology.com/saturntransitinghouses.html
Transitingt Jupier is in your 5th house of Love affairs romance and recreations, so make the most of it. It takes Jupiter approx 12months to go through a sign and house.
http://cafeastrology.com/jupiter_transits_houses.html

Your natal Pluto is quite challenged by 3squares
http://cafeastrology.com/natal/venusplutoaspects.html

Mars conjunct Jupiter is a confidence aspect, so use it, in the house of friendships, group activities etc

Your chart does lack the element of mutability
Mutable Signs
This would indicate someone who had great difficulty in adapting
and making adjustments to changing circumstances in life. This kind of inflexibility could prove very troublesome in the pattern of ever changing conditions that prevail today. These people are not naturally group oriented; they tend to work better alone rather than as team players.

Plus 5 out of ten in fixed signs which suggests lots of stubborness.
Fixed Sign
This shows a natural surety of conviction, and possibly downright stubbornness! It's hard to change people with lots of Fixed signs. It offers stability, endurance and survival but when negative side emerges there is an unwillingness to change, to alter beliefs, to learn new things, or to LISTEN TO OTHERS' OPINIONS!

So instead of listening to others, develop your own and grow with confidence as I'm sure you will

[Moderator edit - Moved the brief response above the long quote.]

[astrologer50]

We also have a 'Relational Forum' besides lots of others and these are very common questions so perhaps researching a while around there could pay dividends....Here is one of my post's with lots of info http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum...ad.php?t=13745


To start with it's best to look at the individual needs of each persons chart and how they relate and what they are looking for. Astro.com does have an option composite + natal midpoint method (2) which I find helpful.

When looking at a womans chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.

If you are late Virgo on the Asc, then late Pisces will be your marriage house. But something with late Aquarius conj your desc would do nicely. Astrology and synatry is a complicated business, perhaps you should study the basics first...

[Yasmine]

Originally Posted by astrologer50

We also have a 'Relational Forum' besides lots of others and these are very common questions so perhaps researching a while around there could pay dividends....Here is one of my post's with lots of info http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum...ad.php?t=13745


To start with it's best to look at the individual needs of each persons chart and how they relate and what they are looking for. Astro.com does have an option composite + natal midpoint method (2) which I find helpful.

When looking at a womans chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.

If you are late Virgo on the Asc, then late Pisces will be your marriage house. But something with late Aquarius conj your desc would do nicely. Astrology and synatry is a complicated business, perhaps you should study the basics first...

I will study,i really love astrology for 3 years,but now i'm too stressed so i can't think clearly,i'm very dissapointment that i don't have any love affair,and i'm affraid that i will be alone.I look outside and most of the people have someone to love and i came in my room and cry,blaming sat in 5...i want to do something,to understand why the guys i like are cold with me...and i'm extremly curious about what people who knows astrology and saw many charts,think about me.Uranus in the ruler of the 5 house in opposition with mercury my rising ruler.Neptune ruler of the seventh,same.Juno in aquarius in conjunct saturn.Just bad things.

[katydid]

I do not see anything in your chart that says you are destined to be all alone. And i am surprised to hear you say that you are living a lonely, miserable life.

Saturn in the 5th is not that bad of a placement, after all, it has to be somewhere. Yours is in a strong sign placement, and opposes Jupiter, which is a good aspect overall. It is a generational one, not a personal one, and Jupiter stands up to Saturn, and demands it makes some progress with your personal growth in the 5th.
'Open Your Heart' is one of the commandments made by the Jupiter in leo opposition to that 5th house Saturn. Find your passion and cultivate it.

If you are truly looking for more love in your life, then you need to find something you LOVE to do, and do it. Keep doing it, and your opportunities for LOVE wlll grow.:34:

[katydid]

Your ascendant is also a 'decoy' in your chart. Having the 29th degree can make one's early life feel awkward, or strange. it is kind of like having a mask on, because the ONLY part of your first house that is Virgo, is the ascendant, ITSELF. The remaining 29 degrees or so, is LIBRA. So at first look, you give off a mutable earth vibe, but below that is a huge gust of LIBRAN feminine air. I believe there is a beautiful young ingenue, waiting to break free. Perhaps your more critical, Virgo self is impeded that breakthrough.

Do you put a feminine, powerful beautiful Libran effort towards your outer appearance each day? Or is your Virgo routine nature, being comfy and practical, taking over. Afterall, what's the point, right? The only boy you love is distant and there is NO chance ....SEE MY POINT?
UNLOCK YOUR LIBRA AND LET HER REIGN.

Your venus is in Leo in the 11th. Get out more and join some clubs.That is how you will find more love, by making many friendships, in which boys get to know your fun, loving sweet nature. Your Mercury in Cancer is sensitive and alluring when given the chance to get to be known. You can't wait around for someone to try and work their way into your shell, you need to reach out yourself and allow them in. But they are not going to find you if you are sitting in your room, crying about how miserable and lonely you are.

[Yasmine]

Originally Posted by katydid

I do not see anything in your chart that says you are destined to be all alone. And i am surprised to hear you say that you are living a lonely, miserable life.

Saturn in the 5th is not that bad of a placement, after all, it has to be somewhere. Yours is in a strong sign placement, and opposes Jupiter, which is a good aspect overall. It is a generational one, not a personal one, and Jupiter stands up to Saturn, and demands it makes some progress with your personal growth in the 5th.
'Open Your Heart' is one of the commandments made by the Jupiter in leo opposition to that 5th house Saturn. Find your passion and cultivate it.

If you are truly looking for more love in your life, then you need to find something you LOVE to do, and do it. Keep doing it, and your opportunities for LOVE wlll grow.:34:

Thank you very much,for gettin an eye at my chart... .So jupiter(even in opossition)helps a lil,i was insecure what game to play,to be hard-worker and treat boys serious to make saturn happy,or to"open my heart",be myself like jupiter thinking.That was what i wanna know.So if i am more brave,and surpass my limits ,i will have what i wish.Saturn will bring me a long relationship,if will be?
About my rising,so i have some libra traits,i said so ).I care about other people thinking about me and compromises are not something strange to me,so the critical eye (but only for myself,in others i always see the good and beautifull parts...).Thanks again

[katydid]

Originally Posted by Yasmine

Thank you very much,for gettin an eye at my chart... .So jupiter(even in opossition)helps a lil,i was insecure what game to play,to be hard-worker and treat boys serious to make saturn happy,or to"open my heart",be myself like jupiter thinking.That was what i wanna know.So if i am more brave,and surpass my limits ,i will have what i wish.Saturn will bring me a long relationship,if will be?
About my rising,so i have some libra traits,i said so ).I care about other people thinking about me and compromises are not something strange to me,so the critical eye (but only for myself,in others i always see the good and beautifull parts...).Thanks again

Looking at others and 'always seeing the good and the beautiful parts' is your Libran 1st house. You ARE beautiful and need to know that to feel more loveable as well.
And yes, be brave, your Jupiter requires it of you. Saturn can be long lasting love affairs, after some delays. The best game for you is to find the balance between Jupiter and Saturn. So be playful and serious, at the appropriate times.

[Yasmine]

Thanks for your posts,i feel a bit relaxed now, If anybody can tell me more about my love area(what kind of boy i should look for,sign...),i will be more then happy and grateful

[Virinchi]

yeah i agree i shud have posted chart
but i dint coz
1. i'm too lazy to make charts
2. my chart method is vedic which many may not understand here

[Virinchi]

Originally Posted by Yasmine

Thanks for your posts,i feel a bit relaxed now, If anybody can tell me more about my love area(what kind of boy i should look for,sign...),i will be more then happy and grateful

you don't have to keep looking
just relax. practice meditation and concentrate on your other aspects of life for next 1 year and HE will find you himself

[katydid]

Originally Posted by Virinchi

you don't have to keep looking
just relax. practice meditation and concentrate on your other aspects of life for next 1 year and HE will find you himself

See, in many instances Vedic and Western Astrology agree.
She would benefit if she stopped trying to look for him, and like you say, looked for things to develop within herself. Then, as she became more joyful and productive, he would have an easier time finding her himself.

[estrella]

Yasmine

The feeling I get from looking at your chart is that you could have a very serious romance with someone that you meet through friends, organization, or a social group (Saturn in the 5th in aspect to Mars Venus Jupiter in the 11th). Also, I feel like there could be an unexpected pregnancy possible (ruler of the 5th Uranus in aspect to the moon conjunct ruler of the 7th-all in the 4th).

Saturn in the 5th isn't bad. It means that maybe you'll have to cultivate responsibility and maturity in 5th house matters, or that you could work in a 5th house related career that has to do with the arts, children, or speculative markets, or stocks. Perhaps you'll have to balance 5th house issues like creativity, romance, or parenting with your social life (Saturn in 5 opp 11th house planets)

[Yasmine]

Originally Posted by estrella

Yasmine

The feeling I get from looking at your chart is that you could have a very serious romance with someone that you meet through friends, organization, or a social group (Saturn in the 5th in aspect to Mars Venus Jupiter in the 11th). Also, I feel like there could be an unexpected pregnancy possible (ruler of the 5th Uranus in aspect to the moon conjunct ruler of the 7th-all in the 4th).

Saturn in the 5th isn't bad. It means that maybe you'll have to cultivate responsibility and maturity in 5th house matters, or that you could work in a 5th house related career that has to do with the arts, children, or speculative markets, or stocks. Perhaps you'll have to balance 5th house issues like creativity, romance, or parenting with your social life (Saturn in 5 opp 11th house planets)

Thanks :38: very much,i was very afraid of saturn..till now...What type of career is more indicate for me?Somethin in showbizz?or psychology(sun in cancer on MC:-??... I can be an actrice or i'm just dreaming?