hello. this is the composite of my boyfriend and i. ive had quite a few composite readings done and basically end up with all the same information. nobody addresses the grand trine, grand cross, grand kite.
most of our aspects seem to be positive, ie...sun in 5th house, venus in 7th (end of 6th), sun sextile mars and jupiter. moon in 11th, moon trine mars, moon trine jupiter etc. im sure you see them. the synastry is also very positive.
but we have 2 bad neputune squares to the sun and the moon. and this forms a t-square to neptune with a moon/sun opposition. in addition it seems we have a grand kite pointing to the sun and a grand cross. id like to know what effect these have on us in addition to the "obsticles" im already aware of.
we've been dating long distance for 2 years. hes in europe and im in the states. to me, the neptune squares have always represented "the ocean". neptune being the god of the sea, it always made sense to me, considering we loathe the atlantic ocean.
also ive read that the sun and moon tend to represent the lovers in the chart. that one tends to identify more with the sun and one with the moon. i feel like im the sun and hes the moon. im a sagittarius and hes a taurus. he feels deeply and quietly (moon virgo) and im passionate and showy (pisces)! this being the case could the composite tsquare indicate the ocean, distance (neptune) between the sun and the moon? will the moon/sun opposition work to help us overcome the obstacle?
we have quite a few aspects that indicate bridging distances (jupiter 3rd), postive saturn aspects (ps. ive never had a positive saturn aspect in any relationship), sun opposite moon (i think), sun trine uranus.
also i noticed chiron is in our composite 7th. ive heard that chiron falls in composite charts in areas that people are destined to work through? 7th house marriage? we do talk of getting married. venus opp asc.
so i guess what im asking is...im aware that we have an obstacle (the ocean). but is it surmountable? do the tsquare, kite and trine make it impossible? the distance seems unbearable sometimes.
also, i dont know if this means anything at all but i noticed our MC line runs from leo/cancer down to cap/aquarius. im a cap rising/aquarius venus. hes a leo rising cancer venus.
thanks in advance for your help.
me: sag sun, cap rising, libra moon, aquarius venus, aries mars.
him: taurus sun, leo rising, leo moon, cancer venus, gemini mars.