Pluto opposition moon in 11th house...what does it mean?

[Daisyd]

Ever since I found out I have Pluto opposite Moon transit coming up this month for a couple of months and throughout 2011, I've been scared. I haven't had good transits in recent years and this BIG DADDY transit seems to be one many people would rather not experience including me!


The moon will be in my 11th house of friendships. I'm keen to know how this transit will affect this house as I haven't been able to find anything online. Should I be wary of people who want to be my friend? Should I keep myself to myself, or go out and make more friends? I don't actually have many close friends.

This week for some weird reason, I've been inundated with friend requests from people on Facebook. This is very unusual as I don't normally have people requesting my friendship; it's normally the other way round. However I haven't accepted any of these people as friends because I hardly know them and a few of them were insincere to me in the past.

I'd be grateful for your comments. Also what affect do you think Pluto opp Moon will this have on my transits Uranus trine Mars and Uranus trine Venus? So far these supposedly fun Uranus transits have been disappointing. At the moment I feel quite empty and unexcited.

Thanks
Daisy

[Quetzlcoatl]

I wouldn't worry about it. Try to set boundaries. Your chart shows you to be a very young soul, with only your Moon and Jupiter having risen above the horizon. The Leo Jupiter should be your guide: you should be outgoing and not afraid. Just don't be stupid, set boundaries. Treat relationships like chess games, but be a fairly aggressive player, trust your intuition with your moves and your skills will rapidly develop. You mentioned people who wanted to be your friends on Facebook but who had treated you dishonestly in the past. ***** them! They blew their chance, you're moving on! You're already developing the ability to distinguish between those who will help you versus those who want to suck your energy.

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[allie_b]

I agree not to worry about it. It's Pluto. Things will happen. You will learn from it.

It's transiting at the end of your 5th house, opposing your moon. So, just be very aware of making friends, especially female friends and perhaps dating as well (5th house).

Don't be worried but just be *aware*.

As far as transiting Uranus making trines, personally, I don't feel the trines much at all. Conjunctions, squares and oppositions are felt much more, IMHO.

[Ekim86]

Hello. I just checked Planets in Transit by Robert Hand for this aspect and when I was reading it I remembered that my girlfriend went threw this transit about 9 months ago. I'll comment about that after I write somethings about it according to Hand. "This Transit can denote a period of extreme emotional confrontations with others in which you or they attempt to manipulate each other emotionally." Either you or your partner could use guilt, jealousy or threats of abandonment to force the other into acting a particular way. You may be invloved in a possessive relationship in which you or ur partner doesn't allow any freedom to relate to other people or to be an individual. This transit can affect any emotionally based relationship not just lovers. It says to just be honest with everyone and ask that they be honest to you so you can get the pressures and tensions out in the open. Childhood programs that you thought you outgrown may surface now and disturb your adult ways of dealing with the world. When I first became invloved with my girl she was going threw this aspect. I heard storys of her last boyfriend and figured that the guilt, abandonment, jealousy thing had manifested with that relationship. Maybe. But I begain to notice myself using them agaisnt her and vice versa. HAHA and I had read what was going on to during the time Its kinda hard to escape this, at least for me (got some scorpion in me) Any who. We broke up about 4 months into the relationship. It was a little bit of a power struggle. Fighting to see who wheres the pants pretty much. But we werent done with each other and continued to be "friends" Then things became better and about a month ago we became a couple again. There is still some traces of this behavior but not too bad. Also during this transit she moved out of her father house and and started living with her friend. I suppose your home life could be alittle transformed as well. All and all I don't think this transit is too bad maybe just alittle ruff. Good thing its not conjuncting ur moon

[Lin]

Hi Daisy,
Yeh, what EKIM said....
basically you are better off not trying to "connect" while Pluto opposes your moon. You are liable to get into trouble, and end up hurt... in any of a number of ways. Also, the Moon represents the past..... feelings, people, mother, any number of emotional issues, and Pluto anihilates them in some way. After this transit if finished, you will be "different." Your friends will change, what you seek from friends will change, your goals will change, your feelings will change. Pluto transits metamorphosize.

You said, "I haven't had good transits in recent years"
You just had your Saturn return.... and that was in the 2nd house of "values" what you value as important in your life. It was supposed to be a "life lesson." I have a feeling you didn't learn all you could from your Saturn return.

Pluto will drive home anything that you missed during your Saturn return.

YOu need to be WAY more discerning and critical of what is coming your way. Neptune squares your Saturn, and that makes you Neptunian. Someone above said you are a "new soul", and that may be true, because you have been slow to grow and and learn... learn what is good for you, who can be trusted, what it means to discriminate between that which is good (for you) and that which is destructive.

Your Libra sun and Scorpio planets can make to too needy. You need to learn "detachment" and discrimination. That's the short answer.
LIN