Did I get her pregnant?

[Mel D.]

So I have been seeing girl for about a week or so. we foolishly had intercourse without my wearing condom but she told me she was on birth control pill. i know it was foolish but for some reason i trusted her that night.

anyway, i wonder now if the foolishness will result in a little surprise later on. i drew a chart about it. she is not girlfriend really, more of a romantic fling. if that is the case, is she represented by 5th house?

here is chart and analysis--

I am mercury and in 5th house. if she is indeed ruled by 5th then she is also in same house as Venus. we are joined here in the house of fertility and romance! And moon is exalted in 12th house taurus. that tells me positivity in this chart overall.

now i am confused here but lets say she is 7th house Sag. then she is jupiter in 8th house making good contact to moon in 12. if 5th house ruler of fertility is venus, venus makes no strong contact while mercury and jupiter are not receiving each other. this tells me 'no.'

foolish for me to do sex without condom, this I know. so maybe its dumb question because she said she was on birth control but I just want to be safe and sure...this time

thank you for all insights

[Night Sky]

5th house ruler would be pregnancy right? Where is the 5th house ruler?

[Mel D.]

5th house ruler Venus is in 5th house! and conjunct Mercury who is me Other than that venus makes no other aspect except to mars ruler of 6th and 11th house.

(sorry forgot to upload chart first time)

[Night Sky]

I don't know if there is a sure way of telling with Astrology about pregnancy. A lot of people get it wrong a lot of the time.

You might want to look at the eighth ruler for pro-creation.

Look at the fourth house ruler for "fatherhood".

There are so many variables it is hard to make heads or tails with it.


It might help to look at the synastry between you. That might give you some clues, along with heavy transits or the lack of. Can you do a synastry with transits to both charts.

[Mel D.]

i see
well looking at 8th ruler Saturn he is in 4th house of fatherhood as you put it

but Saturn receives no planet and in fact both 5th house ruler and my planet mercury are moving away from Saturn father.

i am probably just being paranoid over nothing but it was no my mind

thank you

[Night Sky]

It is an interesting question. I am sure if you posted a chart up, you would definitely get a more informed commentry from other people on here.

[Mel D.]

I added chart to first post. yeah funny question and in studying horary i see this more from women asking if themselves are pregnant

[DiDi]

hi mel D
NO she is not pregnant

you are merc in 5th house showing the concern of the question about pregnancy.
she is venus in 5th house .. showing both of you in a 5th house style romance.

you cant be pregnant so you dont look the the 5th
her being pregnant is in the 5th from the 5th
aquarius ruler saturn in virgo ( a non fertile sign)
looking at the moon placememnt also.. i see a big fat NO

but i sugest the idea of you questioning this has more to do with your guard being let down, and your wishing you took precautions for it.
both of you will be fine...

[archergirl]

DiDi is right. She's not pregnant. There is no aspect between Jupiter, Mars, or the Moon.

I would suggest that you concern yourself more with the issues of STIs in the future. Especially if she's just a fling. She may be on the pill, but pills don't stop chlamydia, which is on the increase again, and generally shows few symptoms until it is far too late. Or herpes simplex, or gonorrhoea, or HIV. She might have something she doesn't even know about...so might you. Trust me on this; one time without a condom is all you need to catch something nasty.

AG

[tikana]

Hi all

I dont think she is pregnant but you shouldnt be having sex without a condom.. ever heard of AIDS?

you are Mercury
she is Jupiter
no aspect
moon/jupiter no aspect - that is 2 No's
moving on to 5th house *hers*
mars/jupiter - square past - no not pregnant

cheers
be safe

Tik

[Mel D.]

Thanks to all for kind response. you are right I should not be so dangerous. we date now but I dont think it will be serious. i will be more careful in future.

thanks
Mel