Question asked at11h29AM,June 2nd 2008, in Tires,Portugal.
I've been wanting to have a boyfriend for a long time,but I surely wasn't desperate to find one.I was just ready to wait and see what the future would bring me,while enjoying some casual flirting in the meantime.Then,about two weeks ago,came this guy,who is close to perfection-cute,great smile,sweet,caring,fun to hang out with and easy to talk to...needless to say,I was immediatly atracted to him,and so was he.We went out one day and we got along really well and ended up making out bla bla bla
.Then came the downfall-he told that kissing me made him remember of his ex-girlfriend...
You can imagine how it feels when a guy says such a thing...He and his ex-girlfriend are still friends and I have met the girl and she is just adorable,and he says he feels nothing when he sees her and he has even seen her making out with another and it didn't hurt him or anything,but it's just not normal that kissing another girl makes him remember of her.He says he really likes me and that I'm special to him and he wants to be with me but doesn't feel good about himself being with me while thinking of her and I agree.I feel like stepping away from the situation and going back to where I was before,moving away from him and giving him some time to think things through,but he says he couldn't stand such a thing and neither could I-I just feel like I'm in too deep.
It's been a really long time since I've laid my eyes on an horary chart,so I'm taking baby steps.I usually use the 7th house when I ask love questions,so that would make him Saturn,in my house,so he's defintely into me.And,correct me if I'm wrong,but Saturn also receives the Sun,my significator,by triplicity and it also receives the Moon by term and face,all good indicators that yeah,he does like me.The Sun,me,also receives Saturn by face and Mars by triplicity,so there is definitly a good amount of atraction here(thank God!)(Or maybe I'm getting the receptions wrong,like I said it's been a long time since I last used horary and I'm not too sure about this).However,I have no clue what house I would use for his past-maybe the turned12th,the house of sorrow?
As for the end of the matter-Mars,in Leo in the12th.Venus applies a sextile to Mars so I'm getting a yes.The Moon also applies a square to Neptune,a planet in his house,and the Moon is exalted and in his end of the matter,so I'm taking a yes.And the Sun,me,applies a sextile to Mars,he.
I'm thinking yes,he will let go of his past and come to me-eventually...