I need help, any insight would be greatly appreciated. This has been a crazy year for me. I am going through a divorce, I have no feelings left for my husband, but unexpectedly met someone online around a month ago. We have not met in person. Right from the start I felt a strong connection to him. We have been talking almost every day, most of the time 2-3 hours each conversation. We don’t live too far apart, maybe a little over an hour but I have two kids and he has one that he takes care of on weekends.
He says he is ready to settle down and tired of games, but that he’s been burned in the past and is not very happy with where his life is financially as this point. Nevertheless, we really connect during our conversations. We have both sent each other numerous photos so we know what each other looks like. The problem is…. He keeps putting off meeting in person… and I find this very strange…
Many things have gone through my mind, l can’t imagine what the problem could be. I don’t believe he is with someone else because he talks freely to me in front of his daughter. I know he was adopted, he has self esteem issues but could they really make someone put off a face to face meeting forever? Anyway this past weekend I kind of pushed things because my ex was taking the kids. He backed off. I wrote a nice email explaining how much I feel I connect with him but he is confusing me because he keeps putting of meeting face to face. He wrote back and said he would be in touch with me. This is the longest we have gone without talking. Honestly, I have appreciated the break because the talking was getting to be too much. But what I’m wondering now is, could this really all have been for nothing? It’s driving me crazy because now I’m in the dark. I’m thinking my email chased him away for good? Will we ever meet or is this meant to be just a passing online experience?
Well I looked up our charts, I noticed a few things. I’m wondering if anyone could please shed some light on his personality and also our aspects together. I don’t know how to post charts. His birthtime is 7/25/71 11:23 am, Manhattan, NY, mine is 8/15/72 12:30 AM Paterson, NJ. I noticed a few aspects but not sure how to interpret much on these things. My sun conjunct his sun/moon midpoint, his sun conjunct my venus/mars midpoint, his venus conjunct my SN, my mercury conjunct his SN, his nodes conjunct my MC/IC, my sun oppose his mars, both venus are in cancer…my venus conjunct his MC, his mars is somewhat close to my MC. Those are just a few I noticed…. I very much appreciated any insight…. Thank you so much in advance…
He says he is ready to settle down and tired of games, but that he’s been burned in the past and is not very happy with where his life is financially as this point. Nevertheless, we really connect during our conversations. We have both sent each other numerous photos so we know what each other looks like. The problem is…. He keeps putting off meeting in person… and I find this very strange…
Many things have gone through my mind, l can’t imagine what the problem could be. I don’t believe he is with someone else because he talks freely to me in front of his daughter. I know he was adopted, he has self esteem issues but could they really make someone put off a face to face meeting forever? Anyway this past weekend I kind of pushed things because my ex was taking the kids. He backed off. I wrote a nice email explaining how much I feel I connect with him but he is confusing me because he keeps putting of meeting face to face. He wrote back and said he would be in touch with me. This is the longest we have gone without talking. Honestly, I have appreciated the break because the talking was getting to be too much. But what I’m wondering now is, could this really all have been for nothing? It’s driving me crazy because now I’m in the dark. I’m thinking my email chased him away for good? Will we ever meet or is this meant to be just a passing online experience?
Well I looked up our charts, I noticed a few things. I’m wondering if anyone could please shed some light on his personality and also our aspects together. I don’t know how to post charts. His birthtime is 7/25/71 11:23 am, Manhattan, NY, mine is 8/15/72 12:30 AM Paterson, NJ. I noticed a few aspects but not sure how to interpret much on these things. My sun conjunct his sun/moon midpoint, his sun conjunct my venus/mars midpoint, his venus conjunct my SN, my mercury conjunct his SN, his nodes conjunct my MC/IC, my sun oppose his mars, both venus are in cancer…my venus conjunct his MC, his mars is somewhat close to my MC. Those are just a few I noticed…. I very much appreciated any insight…. Thank you so much in advance…