How does she feel about me?

[Govind]

There is this girl I work with who I am absolutely crazy about. We are very good friends and I do sense some definite chemistry. But she has a boyfriend who treats her like **** but she is deeply in love with him. He's moving away, their relationship is shaky....so my question is 'How does she feel about me?'. Is it just friendship, or does she feel something more?

She flirts with me some days, then shes just friendly other days. It is driving me crazy. I asked this same question on this forum a few months ago and althougth ascendant was in early degrees so it was too early to tell. So if anyone could help me out with this it would be so much appreciated.

[aly007]

hello

you-mars and sun
she-venus and moon

mars and venus don't make any aspect yet.
mars is in her 1st house, so she is thinking about you.
mars conjunct moon.
mars likes venus(her).
venus likes moon and moon likes mars, so yes she likes you.
mars in in exile in libra and venus in cancer is peregrine.
Your actual position is not good, i think you should wait until mars is in scorpio, to make any moves.

saturn i think is her bf, who is in her 1st house-as she told you that she loves him, saturn conjunct her moon, and saturn is exalted in libra-he is in a good position.

As a conclusion i think she likes you.

[Vista]

Originally Posted by Govind

There is this girl I work with who I am absolutely crazy about. We are very good friends and I do sense some definite chemistry. But she has a boyfriend who treats her like **** but she is deeply in love with him. He's moving away, their relationship is shaky....so my question is 'How does she feel about me?'. Is it just friendship, or does she feel something more?

She flirts with me some days, then shes just friendly other days. It is driving me crazy. I asked this same question on this forum a few months ago and althougth ascendant was in early degrees so it was too early to tell. So if anyone could help me out with this it would be so much appreciated.

Saturn in the 7th is a little troublesome. Mars, you in the 7th in her sign of Venus shows you really like her a lot, but you are weak and in detriment being in the sign of Libra and also in her(Venus) Fall, however it's at a critical degree at 29 and about to enter into Scorpio where it becomes very strong. Moon is also Via Combusta and in its fall in Scorpio in the 7th and trining her, Venus. Venus will not leave Cancer before you change signs from Venus to Scorpio and will move away from Mars. I don't think at this time there are enough signs pointing to things working out for you. In fact, most of them sort of point to her not being that interested at the moment in my opinion but it will get better when you become stronger in Scorpio. Start acting a little more aloof with her and back way off. That will make her a little more interested I would think especially when her boyfriend leaves.

[Govind]

Thanks for your replies.

Ugh this is depressing. How come the good guy never gets the girl?

I'm a novice, so I have a few follow up questions that more relate to horary astrology in general:

- I don't understand how in the event chart I'm represented by two planets and so is she. What if for example, moon has a positive aspect and the sun has a negative aspect?

- My Mars is in detriment right now but will move to Scorpio where it is very strong. What does this mean in terms of a horary chart? Does it directly relate to the question, so it means right now she has no positive feeligns for me but in the near future when mars moves to scorpio she will? This always confuses me with horary charts because I don't know if everything shown in the chart is supposed to tie back to the EXACT question I asked, or if it just shows the whole situation broadly.

Thanks.

[Vista]

Originally Posted by Govind

Thanks for your replies.

Ugh this is depressing. How come the good guy never gets the girl?

I'm a novice, so I have a few follow up questions that more relate to horary astrology in general:

- I don't understand how in the event chart I'm represented by two planets and so is she. What if for example, moon has a positive aspect and the sun has a negative aspect?

- My Mars is in detriment right now but will move to Scorpio where it is very strong. What does this mean in terms of a horary chart? Does it directly relate to the question, so it means right now she has no positive feeligns for me but in the near future when mars moves to scorpio she will? This always confuses me with horary charts because I don't know if everything shown in the chart is supposed to tie back to the EXACT question I asked, or if it just shows the whole situation broadly.

Thanks.

Whatever your question THAT'S what the Horary chart shows. Your question, "How does she feel about me?" To me the chart suggests that while she likes you, it's not what you are hoping for. Clearly you like her more than she likes you. She is in love with someone else, not sure what more do you need to know? With Mars in a critical degree, when it moves into Scorpio you will be in a stronger position; whatever that turns out to be it means it will not be as painful for you. Out of all the women out there, why are you so interested in someone who is unavailable? Not trying to make you feel worse, but this is a sticky situation not only because she has a boyfriend but because you work together.

You might want to start another thread and ask when will you find love and then post your natal chart with transits and progressions.