Miss Saturn
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I have been afraid of looking at my babys Natal Chart, I have seen his chart and read a few planetary aspects, and positions in his chart. I have never fully examined it. I think the reason being as his mum I am going to be protective and if I see Pluto or Saturn making hard contacts in his chart, I begin to worry.
When proffessional Astrologers, do a childs Astrological Report, they probably tone down the harsher issues within in the chart, they have to be a lot more sensitive and consider it is a childs chart, and you wouldn't want to frighten the parents.
Perhaps I need to take the view that these are his energies, he has come here to learn how to handle his energies, he chose me and his father to be his parents. We are all learning and growing in this world together. It is easier to look at my parents or my partners chart, because they are grown adults and I can see how the energy is being handled.
My son has Pluto in the 4th, squaring his Sun in the 1st house. I get worried because my partner works very long hours, and the bond has been broken. My son crys all the time when my boyfriend tries to spend time with him.
I talked it through with my partner yesterday, because he was feeling hurt and rejected. I explained to him because when the baby was born he had his mum and dad there constantly together, because my partner wasn't working then. Now there has been a big loss to him because he hardly sees his father, and he clings to me because I am the main person in his life, I am his world. Maybe he clings to me because he is afraid I will leave also. I joked with my partner, I said as soon as he's walking he will want to be outside with his dad playing football, he won't want to be with boring mummy all day. It will be mum who.
I don't want the bond between them broken, I said to my partner with all the priority you give to work, you need to balance it out, you do overtime in work, you can do overtime here at home, the reward will far outweigh money.
My son feels rejected, so he rejects his father and the cycle will continue. Maybe this is a wake up call to my boyfriend, you don't want to lose out on the valuable relationship. I feel my son feeling it all emotionally I can sense the difference in him. It hurts me to see him and his father feeling this pain.
I will be brave and work out the difficulties in his chart, a birth chart represents his potential for personal growth, and the challenges to overcome.
I read a lovely book and it shows how to nurture your childrens spirits, how to guide your children, I won't type the whole chapters out, but I feel it is really valuble advice for anyone with children, trying to do your best to create the most safe and secure world for them, here are a few pointers.
1, Encourage and Nurture Self esteem
2, Get to know your child
3,Be a Best Friend
4,Teach Self- respect and Responsibility
5,Be Open-minded and Spiritually Aware
6,Remember that children are watching You
7,Teach your child Self-reliance
8,Celebrate Individuality
I am not giving a parent class here, I am learning how to be Mother myself, energies I have never been comfortable with, If anyone handed me a baby I would be terrified, handed the child back quickly . I have never felt nurturing, although I am a very sensitive caring person could never hurt a single creature on this planet. Mothering has never come easy to me.
Anyone looking at their New babys Birth chart, try not to worry and think the worst, everyone of us has bad aspects in our charts. Try not to take it as a reflection of your parenting, if you care for your children and guide them and follow the steps above, you are doing the best job you can do. Your child may percieve the world a certain way, but inside your child is a beautiful soul, here to learn how to handle his own energies. As you the parent are learning in this world how to face your challenges too.
If anyone would like to help me with his chart it would nice to hear a view from a different perspective, but be gentle he's only young.
14th September 2005
06.48am
Liverpool, England
Miss S
When proffessional Astrologers, do a childs Astrological Report, they probably tone down the harsher issues within in the chart, they have to be a lot more sensitive and consider it is a childs chart, and you wouldn't want to frighten the parents.
Perhaps I need to take the view that these are his energies, he has come here to learn how to handle his energies, he chose me and his father to be his parents. We are all learning and growing in this world together. It is easier to look at my parents or my partners chart, because they are grown adults and I can see how the energy is being handled.
My son has Pluto in the 4th, squaring his Sun in the 1st house. I get worried because my partner works very long hours, and the bond has been broken. My son crys all the time when my boyfriend tries to spend time with him.
I talked it through with my partner yesterday, because he was feeling hurt and rejected. I explained to him because when the baby was born he had his mum and dad there constantly together, because my partner wasn't working then. Now there has been a big loss to him because he hardly sees his father, and he clings to me because I am the main person in his life, I am his world. Maybe he clings to me because he is afraid I will leave also. I joked with my partner, I said as soon as he's walking he will want to be outside with his dad playing football, he won't want to be with boring mummy all day. It will be mum who.
I don't want the bond between them broken, I said to my partner with all the priority you give to work, you need to balance it out, you do overtime in work, you can do overtime here at home, the reward will far outweigh money.
My son feels rejected, so he rejects his father and the cycle will continue. Maybe this is a wake up call to my boyfriend, you don't want to lose out on the valuable relationship. I feel my son feeling it all emotionally I can sense the difference in him. It hurts me to see him and his father feeling this pain.
I will be brave and work out the difficulties in his chart, a birth chart represents his potential for personal growth, and the challenges to overcome.
I read a lovely book and it shows how to nurture your childrens spirits, how to guide your children, I won't type the whole chapters out, but I feel it is really valuble advice for anyone with children, trying to do your best to create the most safe and secure world for them, here are a few pointers.
1, Encourage and Nurture Self esteem
2, Get to know your child
3,Be a Best Friend
4,Teach Self- respect and Responsibility
5,Be Open-minded and Spiritually Aware
6,Remember that children are watching You
7,Teach your child Self-reliance
8,Celebrate Individuality
I am not giving a parent class here, I am learning how to be Mother myself, energies I have never been comfortable with, If anyone handed me a baby I would be terrified, handed the child back quickly . I have never felt nurturing, although I am a very sensitive caring person could never hurt a single creature on this planet. Mothering has never come easy to me.
Anyone looking at their New babys Birth chart, try not to worry and think the worst, everyone of us has bad aspects in our charts. Try not to take it as a reflection of your parenting, if you care for your children and guide them and follow the steps above, you are doing the best job you can do. Your child may percieve the world a certain way, but inside your child is a beautiful soul, here to learn how to handle his own energies. As you the parent are learning in this world how to face your challenges too.
If anyone would like to help me with his chart it would nice to hear a view from a different perspective, but be gentle he's only young.
14th September 2005
06.48am
Liverpool, England
Miss S
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