A question of the heart

[Kestrel]

Hey, would really appriciate anyones thoughts on if the guy I'm talking to is a good match for me and if there is a future.
I would love to know anything really that you can pick up in my chart as I am such a newbie with it and I am absolutely intrigued by it.

Thanks so much

[IleneK]

Originally Posted by Kestrel

Hey, would really appriciate anyones thoughts on if the guy I'm talking to is a good match for me and if there is a future.
I would love to know anything really that you can pick up in my chart as I am such a newbie with it and I am absolutely intrigued by it.

Thanks so much

Hi, Kestrel.

I don't believe that one can determine from one's natal chart alone if another is a good match. You might consider uploading his chart, or uploading what is called a composite chart. The composite is a combination of your two charts and you can create one at astro.com

[Vista]

Originally Posted by Kestrel

Hey, would really appriciate anyones thoughts on if the guy I'm talking to is a good match for me and if there is a future.
I would love to know anything really that you can pick up in my chart as I am such a newbie with it and I am absolutely intrigued by it.

Thanks so much

I found that even the best synastry in the world doesn't compensate for childhood experiences, baggage from past relationships, whether or not a person has evolved in life. I also think we follow patterns in relationship and sometimes don't always chose what's good for us.

With that said, you have some pretty amazing connections, Sun conjunct Moon, Moon sextile Sun, Venus conjunct Mars, just with those aspects there should be some attraction. I would love to have these connections with the man I date. I say go for it. Good luck!

[Sentient0ne]

I agree with Vista. We come into this world with potential. We can see that in the birth chart. But as soon as we're born, we are bombarded by energies that don't always support our own energies. The mother, the father, the siblings, frends, school, church, work....anything and everything will direct us down paths that may not coincide with who we truly are.
We need to understand the who and what we are, and astrology helps. We have to learn to get back on track, and astrology helps.
I agree that there are certain aspects that make a relationship a potentially good energy. But those energies may not have expression in real life due to our experiences. It doesn't mean they can't be expressed. it means we may have to work a little harder to achieve them. Working at something makes it more worthwhile, more valuable when achieved.
Use the tools that are available to you, discover the real you, and enjoy life to its fullest.

[Kestrel]

Thank you both for your posts. Yeah I certainly understand what you mean. I find it all so interesting, fascinates me