Hello,
Could someone take a look at our charts, and tell me what you see as far as karma goes with this man? I am going through a lot of pain right now, and maybe it's just karma...maybe this isn't ever going to be a relationship. Here is the message I posted over on another topic area -
I am new here, so forgive me if I'm not in the right discussion thread. I am hoping someone can help me understand this man I'm seeing. I have been seeing him off and on for almost 18 months. I can't get him to pick it up to a "relationship" level where I see him on some kind of consistent basis. It's been weekends only, and then he drifts away for 3 months, where I will just get an occasional email from him. It just moved up to the level of "I would like to see you once a month" in September. There is always some reason why he has no time for me....work/travel, family obligations, etc. Basically he has no room in his life for me, no time for a real relationship. He's never actually said how he feels about me, it's more of what I feel when I am with him. And that is why I'm so confused, because when I am with him, it's so good. The physical chemistry is amazing, the intelligent conversations, the sense of humor, it just all clicks. It's all really comfortable and compatible. It seems so easy, like it fits. I feel this great sense of peace and belonging, like it's supposed to be. Like it's just meant to be. I guess that is why I am holding on to it. I won't see him for 3 months, and when I go back for a weekend, its like I've never been gone, it just fits like a glove. But then he's distant again. An email here and there, but no phone calls during that period. He keeps me at arm's length, at a distance. I want a life with this man, and I can't even get 2 weekends in a row. And I have cried over this man for 18 months, because he won't pick it up, but he won't let me go. And I haven't met anyone else that I feel this way about. I only know the basic stuff about our charts. I think a lot of this slow movement/ no movement is his Capricorn Moon, and his Saturn in Scorpio in the 5th house. His sun and venus are in my 7th house, so I guess that is why I feel more strongly than he does. The other thing I noticed is what looks like a triangle on the composite chart. Saturn/Sagitarius/3rd, Mars/Aries/7th, and Uranus/Leo/11th. Is that a Grand Fire Trine? Also, what are the indicators of karma, of our having a past life together? I think there is a Sun Trine Saturn in there somewhere, if that helps. He's got to be the Saturn, for all the pain this is causing me. Thanks for taking the time to help a newbie understand!
synastry chart
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?cid=ql0fileeqlf1R-u1142225429&lang=e&gm=a1&nhor=5&nho2=1&btyp=61&mth =gw&sday=15&smon=11&syr=2007&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&ast=
composite chart
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?cid=ql0fileeqlf1R-u1142225429&lang=e&gm=a1&nhor=5&nho2=1&btyp=621&mt h=gw&sday=15&smon=11&syr=2007&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&ast=
Could someone take a look at our charts, and tell me what you see as far as karma goes with this man? I am going through a lot of pain right now, and maybe it's just karma...maybe this isn't ever going to be a relationship. Here is the message I posted over on another topic area -
I am new here, so forgive me if I'm not in the right discussion thread. I am hoping someone can help me understand this man I'm seeing. I have been seeing him off and on for almost 18 months. I can't get him to pick it up to a "relationship" level where I see him on some kind of consistent basis. It's been weekends only, and then he drifts away for 3 months, where I will just get an occasional email from him. It just moved up to the level of "I would like to see you once a month" in September. There is always some reason why he has no time for me....work/travel, family obligations, etc. Basically he has no room in his life for me, no time for a real relationship. He's never actually said how he feels about me, it's more of what I feel when I am with him. And that is why I'm so confused, because when I am with him, it's so good. The physical chemistry is amazing, the intelligent conversations, the sense of humor, it just all clicks. It's all really comfortable and compatible. It seems so easy, like it fits. I feel this great sense of peace and belonging, like it's supposed to be. Like it's just meant to be. I guess that is why I am holding on to it. I won't see him for 3 months, and when I go back for a weekend, its like I've never been gone, it just fits like a glove. But then he's distant again. An email here and there, but no phone calls during that period. He keeps me at arm's length, at a distance. I want a life with this man, and I can't even get 2 weekends in a row. And I have cried over this man for 18 months, because he won't pick it up, but he won't let me go. And I haven't met anyone else that I feel this way about. I only know the basic stuff about our charts. I think a lot of this slow movement/ no movement is his Capricorn Moon, and his Saturn in Scorpio in the 5th house. His sun and venus are in my 7th house, so I guess that is why I feel more strongly than he does. The other thing I noticed is what looks like a triangle on the composite chart. Saturn/Sagitarius/3rd, Mars/Aries/7th, and Uranus/Leo/11th. Is that a Grand Fire Trine? Also, what are the indicators of karma, of our having a past life together? I think there is a Sun Trine Saturn in there somewhere, if that helps. He's got to be the Saturn, for all the pain this is causing me. Thanks for taking the time to help a newbie understand!
synastry chart
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?cid=ql0fileeqlf1R-u1142225429&lang=e&gm=a1&nhor=5&nho2=1&btyp=61&mth =gw&sday=15&smon=11&syr=2007&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&ast=
composite chart
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?cid=ql0fileeqlf1R-u1142225429&lang=e&gm=a1&nhor=5&nho2=1&btyp=621&mt h=gw&sday=15&smon=11&syr=2007&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&ast=