I fell for a Scropio Lady

[Haizea]

Originally Posted by Kam

Haizea: What my friend said? well this how she put it "Why do you even bother, ditch the *****, you dont' need this kind of flaky chicks" My friend is a Caner by the way.

I didn't ask you what she said, but what do you think she'd do.

Originally Posted by Kam

One thing i didn't mentioned or if this had to do with anything is that she asked me "when are we going to hang out at your place one of these days" couple days after our first and only date. So twice on different occasions, I asked her to hang out at my place, both times she cant cause she had plans.

There may be other reasons for that question, but I see it as typical of mistrusting Scorpios to see your reaction. If you had not seemed willing to take her to your house, she'd have known you are engaged with someone else.

Then, when you tell her to meet at your house, she should go...if Scorpios were rational and followed their minds, but they are not rational, they follow their instincts, and she was probably too happy making you fall for her and was not sure it was the right moment to get physical (which is what is supposed to happen if she goes to your house, I guess).

If she was with someone else, she would have already had sex with you instead of wasting her time with so much talking.

She might be working on setting the base for a stable relation with you. You seem to think of you as very much in love, willing to do anything for her...but at the minimum wind against, you are not so sure. Maybe you just unconsciously wanted sex with her and she somehow knew?

Ok, some of the theories might be nonsensical, but it is at least a different viewpoint...I truly believe there has to be more reasons to reject a date than plainly being with someone else.

[Vista]

Originally Posted by Haizea

I didn't ask you what she said, but what do you think she'd do.



There may be other reasons for that question, but I see it as typical of mistrusting Scorpios to see your reaction. If you had not seemed willing to take her to your house, she'd have known you are engaged with someone else.

Then, when you tell her to meet at your house, she should go...if Scorpios were rational and followed their minds, but they are not rational, they follow their instincts, and she was probably too happy making you fall for her and was not sure it was the right moment to get physical (which is what is supposed to happen if she goes to your house, I guess).

If she was with someone else, she would have already had sex with you instead of wasting her time with so much talking.

She might be working on setting the base for a stable relation with you. You seem to think of you as very much in love, willing to do anything for her...but at the minimum wind against, you are not so sure. Maybe you just unconsciously wanted sex with her and she somehow knew?

Ok, some of the theories might be nonsensical, but it is at least a different viewpoint...I truly believe there has to be more reasons to reject a date than plainly being with someone else.

I don't think the fact that she didn't have sex with him has anything to do with it. Maybe she's the type that will take it to a certain level, but won't cross that line because she is involved with someone else. Maybe she is keeping Kam on the side as a back up plan or she has other men that she is doing the same thing to because she likes the attention. Who knows.

Kam - The next time she text or calls you, tell her that when she is ready to commit to getting together somewhere other than your appartment let you know, otherwise don't bother calling/texting because you are not interested in wasting time on a text/phone relationship. Then stick to it. That should help you get to the bottom of things.

[Haizea]

Another point is, if she didn't go to the date because she has a date, why would she say "Oh, I've remembered I had another date"? She could have perfectly said that she had a headache.

Anything could be possible, but I've known Scorpio girls who would try to make a boy jealous at any cost. I have never understood why.

[smilingsteph]

Originally Posted by Haizea

Another point is, if she didn't go to the date because she has a date, why would she say "Oh, I've remembered I had another date"? She could have perfectly said that she had a headache.

Anything could be possible, but I've known Scorpio girls who would try to make a boy jealous at any cost. I have never understood why.

If a girl is married or with someone else, she is not going to tell you. She will tell you stories...she is busy...and so forth

Personally, if someone really likes another person (as you do Kam) then you want to be with that person all of the time. You would cancel things to be with this person.
I dont care if you are a Scorpio with a scorpio moon.
It comes down to chemistry.
I think that this girl may either be dating someone else, or isnt interested for whatever reason.
I think she would probably rather keep as friends, and this is why she seems to talk about lighthearted things like music and of that nature. She probably has no intention of going out again, because if she did she would.

Bottom line I dont think it has anything to do with her sign at this point. Plus we dont even have a chart....
I once asked this guy what his sign was and he said he was an Aries, until it came to his birthday in August, up until then he thought he was an Aries....

So it just comes down to what Vista said....

Personally I would call her and ask her if she was interested and really wants to begin a relationship, then see where that goes...

[Kam]

Hi everyone,
Miss Scorpio just called me and we've made plan to hang out at her house Wednesday. I mentioned the fact that we don't hang out frustrate me and she asked me why. I was a little taken back for a second. Scorpios supposedly are very insightful and intuitive. Its pretty obvious i have feeling for her, plus I even told her im into her in one of your convo. So I told her cause i wanna see you and spend quality time with you. Before we said good night, she told me to give her a call tomorrow. I don't know and I don't really care where we stand, I just wanna know her better and be close to her. Like I said, I really fell for her.

[Awakened_Pisces]

Although I'm a Pisces in Western, in Sidereal(Ignore this) I'm an Aquarius. And quite frankly, I identify with the Aquarius. So consider me an Aquarius. And like yourself, I dated a Scorpio for some time. What attracts us to them is the depth and the emotion.
Detached as we Aquarius's are, we see this emotionally deep and powerful woman. And most likely, very sexy. A Scorpio Woman just signifies the sign in of itself.

How'd it go for me? That depth and that emotion filled my heart with joy, the Scorpio Woman understood my pain, my frustrations and my sorrow. And I made all of the commitment to that woman.

In the end, the Scorpio Woman dissappeared. She said things were fine between us, but dissappeared. And I, never saw her again.

Deep down in my heart, I have never once forgotten that Scorpio for a moment. Even now, how can I forget about my first love?

Tragic. Ah, but oh well. Hopefully for you Kam, hopefully your much luckier in the Aquarius-Scorpio match.

[smilingsteph]

Well Kam keep us posted!!!
I hope she comes through and dosent leave you hanging!

[C0rnholio]

Haizea must have been right about Aquariuses not showing enough interest. A girl like that (a Scorpio with Mars and Venus conj in Virgo) once told me that if a guy is not showing a strong interest in her, then she it not interested. Those Venuses and Marses in Virgo love to be needed and also appreciated. Other Scorpio girls needed a proof that a guy is crazy enough about them before they allow themselves to be interested in return. Also, Scorpios do not like any drama or lightheartedness. She likes to be certain about you. So if there are any Sagittarius girls out there who love your for your easygoing aloofness, then there will be just as many Scorpio girls who will hate you for it.

[Kam]

She canceled our plan once again, this time she is hanging with her sister who she hadn't seen in a while. Ditched for the 2nd time. I've been reading up on Scorpio. They do place their love ones up top of the totem pole. I think she did it purposely to see how i would react. At this point i don't even know what to think or say.

[Haizea]

You can give yourself a rest to see what you want to do or if you have to do something...

Now at least you know you've done your best, don't you?


Love is very subjective. The way you see her, the way she sees you...we cannot know. At least I don't know. Here from your words we can't help but being a bit against her, but we only know a part of the story. If she would tell us her vision we might be against you.

I have never been in love with a Scorpio. I see them as interesting, but their tricks don't turn me on.
Or not enough.

[rafaella]

I'd say move on...

She is playing tricks. She doesn't seem to be quite interested and yet still wanting you around. I believe she knows how you feel about her and that gives her power... Power to make you feel vulnerable, desperate and upset. She is just pretending that she doesn't know how you feel, believe me Scorpios are very intuitive and they know when they have you around their little finger.

But I would also suggest that you leave astrology behind for now, you can't find all the answers in astrology, look at the reality. And when you look at reality and more so at her actions rather than words, you will get your answers.

I wish you all the best....

R

[smilingsteph]

Originally Posted by rafaella

I'd say move on...

She is playing tricks. She doesn't seem to be quite interested and yet still wanting you around.
But I would also suggest that you leave astrology behind for now
I wish you all the best....

R

I agree here!!
Kam how can we over-generalize the downfall of the Scorpio woman just based on a sun sign?

Again, like I said what Rafaella substantiates here, is her sun sign is not the culprit.

I think it was that your synastries were not connected and she isnt interested.
She may have lied to prevent hurting your feelings, prevent her from having to tell the truth or to prevent your online/phone friendship from being ruined.

I believe she will still call you. It seems that the only relationship you may have is over the phone or on the internet.

Go look for someone else. You deserve better!

[Kam]

Thanks everyone. It hurts but i have to let her go. True Haizea, Ive done my best. I did my best to show my interest and to let her know she is special to me. I had been making excuses for her behavior to make it seems ok. I did some thinking last night and realized this is not I want. I want a girl who wants to build a relationship with. Not someone who plays games and treats me like this. I wanted a happy ending so bad that I didn't see what exactly is going on. Im not bitter, angry or putting any blame toward any scorpios, even her. Im just really disappointed thats all.

[Vista]

Originally Posted by Kam

Thanks everyone. It hurts but i have to let her go. True Haizea, Ive done my best. I did my best to show my interest and to let her know she is special to me. I had been making excuses for her behavior to make it seems ok. I did some thinking last night and realized this is not I want. I want a girl who wants to build a relationship with. Not someone who plays games and treats me like this. I wanted a happy ending so bad that I didn't see what exactly is going on. Im not bitter, angry or putting any blame toward any scorpios, even her. Im just really disappointed thats all.

I kind of thought she would do that again. I think she liked you, but there is someone else who she is more interested in. Whether that means she's in a relationship or just pursuing another man, she is stringing you along. Don't beet yourself up over it. Just remember this if there is a next time a women comes along who is never available for dates. Be more logical and don't waste your time.
I would suggest you ignore her texts and phone calls from this point forward.

[smilingsteph]

I agree with Vista here.

I dont think accepting her phone calls after she has hurt you would be wise. You dont want her to hurt you anymore.

Good luck Kam

You will find a great girl out there! Keep on with astrology too!

[Kam]

Thank you all. You guys had been awesome. I already cut off all ties to her. Ill just have to keep on looking for that special girl to build a relationship with. Im just wonder how's my romance forecast this year, Im born in Feb 7, 80.

[Haizea]

Kam, I don't think anybody would tell you what you want in this forum. Try to ask in a tarot forum, there someone might give you an interpretation.

To know about your astrological chart, you need time (hour of day), day, year and place.

What you really have to do is to go to www.astro.com and get your chart. Then, one day you post it in the Greenlounge section to get some idea about yourself (if you are not scared, you can get all types of comments, both good and bad). On that same page I told you, if you go to the interactive portrait, you already get an interpretation of every planet and position.

[Vista]

Be sure and add your transits and progressions to your natal chart once you get it from astro.com.
Best of luck to you! You will find a nice gal in no time!