Howl
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This is the chart of a good friend of mine. We were together for a few years, a good few years ago You might have met his chart before in a thread about forseeing accidents - he had a dramatic one. He's still on my mind, and I am hoping you wonderful astrologers can help me see in his chart what I can't see, perhaps due to lack of objectivity.
There are two themes that I hear from him over and over.
One is that he wants to be in love. He wants to 'fall' in love, he wants to have that feeling with someone, that no holds barred head-first 'falling' experience. He is more often than not involved with people, but tends to "hang around" the periphery of these relationships. He likes these people, cares for them, even loves them, but doesn't "fall in love" with them. He questions his lack of that "falling in love" feeling, and then feels foolish for doubting the relationship because of it, and so as I see it, neither moves forward or backs off. He doesn't want to break up with them to be alone, especially since he truly does like/love/care for the people, but he doesn't feel "enough", or in the way he hoped for??
We were talking about this last night. Neither of us have "fallen in love" (I feel silly describing it that way - but do you know what I mean?) since we fell in love with eachother. While this doesn't bother me so much - I think that "falling" part of love is just one (very intense!) part of the whole array of loves that one can feel - he really misses its existence in his life. He wants to be part of one of those cute, mushy, glowing couples. Interesting!! I can't think of, or see, why he seems to want this feeling so much and yet is unable to feel it. He's starting to secretly worry that he has "broken" his ability to fall in love. Hah, that sounds terrible doesn't it? The thing is, I think you probably can disable your own capacity to fall in love.
Can anybody see what he is on about in his chart? I have included transits, although I can't see anything particularly relevant myself.
With a Cancer ascendant and 4H Moon, I guess he could rely on intimate partners to help him "feel" or "express" his deepest feelings. Then again, he does tend to keep his current partners more at the "companion" level, and doesn't feel comfortable letting them close enough for this. Sexual companionship on a friends kind of level of intimacy? I think this has something to do with an unaspected (or loosely aspected - by Uranus in 12H) Mars in 2H Aqua. Especially since Mars disposits the 5H . Does that make sense? Since we broke up, he has appeared to me to be exceptionally rational about relationships, and to analyse and "jusitfy" how and why he is in them.
What do you think? Does anything about relationships stand out in his chart?
There are two themes that I hear from him over and over.
One is that he wants to be in love. He wants to 'fall' in love, he wants to have that feeling with someone, that no holds barred head-first 'falling' experience. He is more often than not involved with people, but tends to "hang around" the periphery of these relationships. He likes these people, cares for them, even loves them, but doesn't "fall in love" with them. He questions his lack of that "falling in love" feeling, and then feels foolish for doubting the relationship because of it, and so as I see it, neither moves forward or backs off. He doesn't want to break up with them to be alone, especially since he truly does like/love/care for the people, but he doesn't feel "enough", or in the way he hoped for??
We were talking about this last night. Neither of us have "fallen in love" (I feel silly describing it that way - but do you know what I mean?) since we fell in love with eachother. While this doesn't bother me so much - I think that "falling" part of love is just one (very intense!) part of the whole array of loves that one can feel - he really misses its existence in his life. He wants to be part of one of those cute, mushy, glowing couples. Interesting!! I can't think of, or see, why he seems to want this feeling so much and yet is unable to feel it. He's starting to secretly worry that he has "broken" his ability to fall in love. Hah, that sounds terrible doesn't it? The thing is, I think you probably can disable your own capacity to fall in love.
Can anybody see what he is on about in his chart? I have included transits, although I can't see anything particularly relevant myself.
With a Cancer ascendant and 4H Moon, I guess he could rely on intimate partners to help him "feel" or "express" his deepest feelings. Then again, he does tend to keep his current partners more at the "companion" level, and doesn't feel comfortable letting them close enough for this. Sexual companionship on a friends kind of level of intimacy? I think this has something to do with an unaspected (or loosely aspected - by Uranus in 12H) Mars in 2H Aqua. Especially since Mars disposits the 5H . Does that make sense? Since we broke up, he has appeared to me to be exceptionally rational about relationships, and to analyse and "jusitfy" how and why he is in them.
What do you think? Does anything about relationships stand out in his chart?
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