StarNur
Well-known member
HI,
I'm an Aqua and sharing an appartment with a Taurus, who was not my choice to live because we were paired to live together by the company we work for.
I cant seem to get along with her. She even has an Aqua moon, Gem merc, Libra mars, and Aries venus that all postively aspect my Aqua sun,mars,merc stellium, ascendant and jupiter. Her Taurus sun doesnt even touch any of my aqua planets.
In synastry, however, her sun opposes my uranus, and her mercury is involved in a t-square with my moon and saturn. Also her jupiter makes a number of squares to my stellium.
I find her very arrogant and boastful. She talks as if everyone loves her, and that shes a leader and ppl follow her every move because they love her, as if shes the first person to think of such and such ideas or projects... and it seems to me she "tries" to make me jealous...instead I end up gettin mad inside and freezing up and not talking to her. We stopped talking for 4 months which was the last and longest bout because of a petty argument in which she was being selfish and unfair with our grocery fund...blah im not gonna bother getting into it...but that fight was buiding over time and was finally released into something petty.
Every time we come around to getting along we seem to go back to square one, start an argument and then stop talking. Maybe its her mercury square my saturn? I dont think shes as genius and popular as she thinks she is, and as much as she thinks other ppl thinks she is. Shes always bragging in front of me...with other people she doesnt live with shes more humble.
At times I really cant stand her...like right now i feel another fight coming on and thats why im typing this...I dont want to have to go thru this anymore...
How can an Aquarian with synastry aspects like ours get along with a Taurus? How can I stop reacting this way to, in my eye, her naive and arrogant personality??
I'm an Aqua and sharing an appartment with a Taurus, who was not my choice to live because we were paired to live together by the company we work for.
I cant seem to get along with her. She even has an Aqua moon, Gem merc, Libra mars, and Aries venus that all postively aspect my Aqua sun,mars,merc stellium, ascendant and jupiter. Her Taurus sun doesnt even touch any of my aqua planets.
In synastry, however, her sun opposes my uranus, and her mercury is involved in a t-square with my moon and saturn. Also her jupiter makes a number of squares to my stellium.
I find her very arrogant and boastful. She talks as if everyone loves her, and that shes a leader and ppl follow her every move because they love her, as if shes the first person to think of such and such ideas or projects... and it seems to me she "tries" to make me jealous...instead I end up gettin mad inside and freezing up and not talking to her. We stopped talking for 4 months which was the last and longest bout because of a petty argument in which she was being selfish and unfair with our grocery fund...blah im not gonna bother getting into it...but that fight was buiding over time and was finally released into something petty.
Every time we come around to getting along we seem to go back to square one, start an argument and then stop talking. Maybe its her mercury square my saturn? I dont think shes as genius and popular as she thinks she is, and as much as she thinks other ppl thinks she is. Shes always bragging in front of me...with other people she doesnt live with shes more humble.
At times I really cant stand her...like right now i feel another fight coming on and thats why im typing this...I dont want to have to go thru this anymore...
How can an Aquarian with synastry aspects like ours get along with a Taurus? How can I stop reacting this way to, in my eye, her naive and arrogant personality??