starrynight
Member
Okay, here's my story: I was friends with this guy for almost a year and then things started becoming more serious between us. We've been dating for 5 months now, and I feel like we're both moving toward marriage. So last week I asked, "Will I marry him?"
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2llhapk&s=7
I'm not sure if the chart is valid. I tried to do my reading before posting, and I think I'm supposed to check the ruler of the hour? The hour ruler of this chart is Venus, eventhough I am represented by Cancer on the ascendant and the Moon in Libra. Would it be enough to say that since the dispositor of the querent is Venus that the chart is valid?
Assuming it is...I am the Moon, he is Saturn. We are both in my 4th house, his 10th. The Moon is moving toward him without aspecting any other planet first (except Pluto, but I don't think that counts). He is exalted in Libra, but retrograde. I have very little essential dignity, only by face. Going by the connection between the two significators, it seems like a very straightforward answer. But I am concerned/confused about what his significator being retrograde could mean, and also the house placement...good?bad? I don't know. Also, the Moon's last aspect is to either Mars or the POF in the 8th house. I don't like the sound of that, but maybe it's not as ominous as I perceive it to be?
I really appreciate any and all comments about this. I really want to learn as much as possible.
Thank you!
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2llhapk&s=7
I'm not sure if the chart is valid. I tried to do my reading before posting, and I think I'm supposed to check the ruler of the hour? The hour ruler of this chart is Venus, eventhough I am represented by Cancer on the ascendant and the Moon in Libra. Would it be enough to say that since the dispositor of the querent is Venus that the chart is valid?
Assuming it is...I am the Moon, he is Saturn. We are both in my 4th house, his 10th. The Moon is moving toward him without aspecting any other planet first (except Pluto, but I don't think that counts). He is exalted in Libra, but retrograde. I have very little essential dignity, only by face. Going by the connection between the two significators, it seems like a very straightforward answer. But I am concerned/confused about what his significator being retrograde could mean, and also the house placement...good?bad? I don't know. Also, the Moon's last aspect is to either Mars or the POF in the 8th house. I don't like the sound of that, but maybe it's not as ominous as I perceive it to be?
I really appreciate any and all comments about this. I really want to learn as much as possible.
Thank you!