First house overlays with crush

Hi all, I am new here, and new to astrology as well.
I am just starting to study it, and it's both fascinating and confusing!
I wonder if someone has some experience with these particular house overlays with another person. You see, I have a crush on this guy and I find him
very attractive. But I don't know how he sees me or if the feeling is mutual.
His venus is in my first house, and my mars is in his first house.

Also, if this helps, his mars is in my 4th house, and my venus is in his 10th house.

Does this mean anything? I'm sorry if this is a stupid question, as I am just learning.
Is it the planet person that feels something, or the house person? Thats my
other question. I've heard it both ways.

Thank you in advance

Welcome to AW,

Please take a minute to introduce yourself in the proper forum from the main index. We are all visual people here and need to see charts....

For help on how to do this, go here. There is an option in Extended chart selection to ‘anonymised drawing (without name)’ box http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=12126

Attention new members
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=19968

What you are asking is 'synastry' questions

To start with it's best to look at the individual needs of each persons chart and how they relate and what they are looking for. Astro.com does have an option composite + natal midpoint method (2) which I find helpful. If you choose to post the synastry bi wheel from astro could you please select the 2nd synastry option as it will put the houses and degrees onto the wheel which is far better for us to evaluate matters....

If you post the synastry chart and realise it doesn’t show the degrees (which we need to look at) you can find the degrees and other information in a separate PDF on the synastry page of astro.com. Look for the link "View the additional tables (PDF)" and click on it to see the additional information. Reading a synastry chart is mainly about reading the aspects between the planets in the two charts. So once you find the PDF, scroll down to the bottom of the page and look in the synastry grid that is there. Unfortunately, you can only see/read these and not save/upload. That’s why I like to see both natal’s and composite. This grid (in my opinion) has too many minor aspects and the orbs are quite wide. I like to use + - max 3’

When looking at a woman’s chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.

Although synastry is a valuable tool with astrology it cannot 'make things happen' even if you have the best synastry in the world unfortunately..

If you want to research more into synastry try here
http://cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry_house_overlays.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html
http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/astrology-marriage.html

Here are mine and my crush's charts.
The first one is my crush's chart with the letter R
The second one is my chart with the letter P