ALST123, Well I am a sun Libra (female)....I like to think something is my decision..In the short term, Librans can be persuaded/swayed etc...but in the long term they have to make the decision....librans find decision making very difficult, but once decided may not change their minds..(This is an often misunderstood aspect of Libra....seeing both sides of things complicates any decision.....I would make your feelings known to him, in a non-threatening way of course, then stand back and let him think it over...he may just need some time and space to find his balance....Venus in Sag is very space and freedom loving, and so is Libra.....I wish you well. Lillyjgc