jag
Well-known member
hi guys
i recently asked a horary and the person who answered that had said go ahead and contact himbut that's not what the horary specifically asked so i'm asking a specific question for this.
i've been in and out of a rel for the 6 years i've known him. think i'mthe longest he's had and belive he truly wants us tobe together but things aren't "in place" for him exactly to commitand i believe he really does want to commitbut is afraid of commitment and afraid of agruments where his parent's divorced at an early age so whenever there isan argument there is a "breakup" which we all know isn't true but his thinking is sometimes limited. so everything points to an interest in a major way still on both parts. so my question is do i call him and i'm hesitant because i have to call him at work. i found number on the internet and then called him so he never gave it to me and said use itbut the heartwrenching, sometimes not nice voicemails, didn't prompt him to do his ever famous"don't contact me anymore" neither did he do that with a letter i sent over three weeks ago asking him to get back to me in two weeks if he wanted me to be involved with another man and if i didn't hear from him i'd assume i wasn't cheating onhim and it was okay to be involved with another man like i was with him. him not getting back to me didn't indicate he didn't want me to be with him because ofpast actions on his part is how i could come to that conclusion; and horary indicated the same thing that he was still much thinking about me in a loving way and that goes against what he would have me thinking. but he has yet to say don't contact me anymore and i sent letters to his work (as his home address has changed and there was no forwarding information so maybe he's finally gotten a house which would be more stability and him able to be in a commited relationship but he doesn't know how to go about it or maybe the house is overwhelming in it's upkeep, idon't know his situation really just yet) and his mom's and neither came back "return to sender" which one could have after reading the first. and insteadof throwing it out "return to sender"would have been really effective on saying don't contact me anymore so there is a real caring but i'mnot sure if i should contact by phone and be in direct communication with him instead of letters, at the moment or maybe i should wait a certain amount of time and i suck at timing on horaries. so maybe someone could help me out, pleaaasseee?????????
march 10, 2007
8:37p.m.
bradford,ma (71w05 42n46)
asc 24lib 26
regio house used
i'm signified by venus and the moon and he's signified by mars. third house of commun is jupiter and end ofmatter is sigifiedby saturn, mars,neptune and mercury/
mercury in the end of matter ispositiveto calling him as a yes,but when?
no aspects between marsand venus but alot with the moon that is my cosignificator. pllus two mercury good aspects due to mercury being the end of house matter. and other aspects that say yes do call him.they are asfollows:
separating aspects first:
venus trine saturn
venus trine jupiter
venus con 7th
appying aspects
moon sex part of fortune
moonsex mars
moon con pluto is the last moon aspect so this is positive
where pluto isinthe third house of communication
jupier con third house of comm
juno is con ascendant
jupiter trine saturn
mercury sex pluto
mercury sex venus
mostofthe aspects were indeedpositive even though there was no aspect to the twomain signifcators.
opposing aspects to planets taht weren't strong or importatnt to consider:
saturn opp neptuen
mercury opp saturn
those were the only two that matched and even the rest of the aspects regarding the other planets not involvedwere positive in this chart; so 90% of the charts entire aspects are positive so i can'timagine i got it wrong but i don't know about my analyzation and whether there is a correct timeframeto initiatethe call.any input would greatly be appreciated where i've nevergotten a chart with mostly positive aspects and mine could be a no answer and not the yes i have derived.
so can anyonetell mewhether this is a yes contact with him and maybe an extra added when where mercury is not retrograde so there should be an open line of communicaqtion if i did getthis translation right and i may not have by a long shot.... :-( only thing i'm courius about is pluto being in the third house and if that cancels out the positive aspects to pluto or if it "evens them out"a bit? that's why i ask ifmaybe not contacting him just yet is the answer and when ishould contact him. or do i have to ask a when do i contact him because this chart can't answer that? i think it can but i'm not sure. if the chart says contact him, maybe it doesn'tmatter if i do it now or three weeks from now.i don't think he will call mebut maybe hewill i didn't ask that question and i know you can't get two answers from the chart.
can anyone take a few minutes to please look at this horary and let me know if the yes answer i got is on target ornot at least if nothing else like timing of the placed call to him???????
thanks for any assistance anyone can provide to this imporant question for me.
jag
i recently asked a horary and the person who answered that had said go ahead and contact himbut that's not what the horary specifically asked so i'm asking a specific question for this.
i've been in and out of a rel for the 6 years i've known him. think i'mthe longest he's had and belive he truly wants us tobe together but things aren't "in place" for him exactly to commitand i believe he really does want to commitbut is afraid of commitment and afraid of agruments where his parent's divorced at an early age so whenever there isan argument there is a "breakup" which we all know isn't true but his thinking is sometimes limited. so everything points to an interest in a major way still on both parts. so my question is do i call him and i'm hesitant because i have to call him at work. i found number on the internet and then called him so he never gave it to me and said use itbut the heartwrenching, sometimes not nice voicemails, didn't prompt him to do his ever famous"don't contact me anymore" neither did he do that with a letter i sent over three weeks ago asking him to get back to me in two weeks if he wanted me to be involved with another man and if i didn't hear from him i'd assume i wasn't cheating onhim and it was okay to be involved with another man like i was with him. him not getting back to me didn't indicate he didn't want me to be with him because ofpast actions on his part is how i could come to that conclusion; and horary indicated the same thing that he was still much thinking about me in a loving way and that goes against what he would have me thinking. but he has yet to say don't contact me anymore and i sent letters to his work (as his home address has changed and there was no forwarding information so maybe he's finally gotten a house which would be more stability and him able to be in a commited relationship but he doesn't know how to go about it or maybe the house is overwhelming in it's upkeep, idon't know his situation really just yet) and his mom's and neither came back "return to sender" which one could have after reading the first. and insteadof throwing it out "return to sender"would have been really effective on saying don't contact me anymore so there is a real caring but i'mnot sure if i should contact by phone and be in direct communication with him instead of letters, at the moment or maybe i should wait a certain amount of time and i suck at timing on horaries. so maybe someone could help me out, pleaaasseee?????????
march 10, 2007
8:37p.m.
bradford,ma (71w05 42n46)
asc 24lib 26
regio house used
i'm signified by venus and the moon and he's signified by mars. third house of commun is jupiter and end ofmatter is sigifiedby saturn, mars,neptune and mercury/
mercury in the end of matter ispositiveto calling him as a yes,but when?
no aspects between marsand venus but alot with the moon that is my cosignificator. pllus two mercury good aspects due to mercury being the end of house matter. and other aspects that say yes do call him.they are asfollows:
separating aspects first:
venus trine saturn
venus trine jupiter
venus con 7th
appying aspects
moon sex part of fortune
moonsex mars
moon con pluto is the last moon aspect so this is positive
where pluto isinthe third house of communication
jupier con third house of comm
juno is con ascendant
jupiter trine saturn
mercury sex pluto
mercury sex venus
mostofthe aspects were indeedpositive even though there was no aspect to the twomain signifcators.
opposing aspects to planets taht weren't strong or importatnt to consider:
saturn opp neptuen
mercury opp saturn
those were the only two that matched and even the rest of the aspects regarding the other planets not involvedwere positive in this chart; so 90% of the charts entire aspects are positive so i can'timagine i got it wrong but i don't know about my analyzation and whether there is a correct timeframeto initiatethe call.any input would greatly be appreciated where i've nevergotten a chart with mostly positive aspects and mine could be a no answer and not the yes i have derived.
so can anyonetell mewhether this is a yes contact with him and maybe an extra added when where mercury is not retrograde so there should be an open line of communicaqtion if i did getthis translation right and i may not have by a long shot.... :-( only thing i'm courius about is pluto being in the third house and if that cancels out the positive aspects to pluto or if it "evens them out"a bit? that's why i ask ifmaybe not contacting him just yet is the answer and when ishould contact him. or do i have to ask a when do i contact him because this chart can't answer that? i think it can but i'm not sure. if the chart says contact him, maybe it doesn'tmatter if i do it now or three weeks from now.i don't think he will call mebut maybe hewill i didn't ask that question and i know you can't get two answers from the chart.
can anyone take a few minutes to please look at this horary and let me know if the yes answer i got is on target ornot at least if nothing else like timing of the placed call to him???????
thanks for any assistance anyone can provide to this imporant question for me.
jag