butterflygirl
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My mom and I have been going through a rough patch this year. She said and did some stuff to me that was very hurtful so I decided to back away from the relationship to get some space. My mom was angry about it (my sister told me) but pretty much left me alone for a few months. Finally one day my mom called and said something to the effect of, “Well whatever I said or did I’m sorry, ok. Are you happy now!?” I explained that No, I wasn’t happy. I wanted her to acknowledge what she said and how much it hurt me. We went back and forth and the conversation turned to the period of time immediately following my separation with my ex-husband. During the course of the conversation she said that I was a burden (I had asked for a ride to the airport) and that she didn’t want to help me but felt forced to since I had just separated from my ex. The conversation continued to deteriorate and nothing was resolved. After our call the distance between us continued. This was early September .
So this past Sunday my mom came to my house, she had called me last week and said she is tired of the distance and wants to make amends. She wanted to talk to me in person and said she is willing to do whatever it takes to make things better between us. Naturally the conversation turned to the phone conversation back in September when she called me a burden. I’m a grown woman, a single mom. I work full time and take excellent care of my daughter. Aside from the ride to the airport last year I do not ask my mom for a single thing. So for her to call me a burden, or any other derogatory name is unacceptable. My mom owned up to everything else that was said in that phone conversation except calling me a burden. She maintains that she absolutely does not remember calling me that. I KNOW she said I was a burden but yet she refuses to admit to it. So now I’m confused. I don’t know what to think. So I decided to ask a horary, is my mom lying?
I’ve attached the chart and to be honest I’m very confused by it. I can’t even begin to decipher it hence the detailed back story. I’m hoping knowing the full story will help someone well versed in Horary read the chart for me.
Thank you in advance for anyone kind enough to respond.
So this past Sunday my mom came to my house, she had called me last week and said she is tired of the distance and wants to make amends. She wanted to talk to me in person and said she is willing to do whatever it takes to make things better between us. Naturally the conversation turned to the phone conversation back in September when she called me a burden. I’m a grown woman, a single mom. I work full time and take excellent care of my daughter. Aside from the ride to the airport last year I do not ask my mom for a single thing. So for her to call me a burden, or any other derogatory name is unacceptable. My mom owned up to everything else that was said in that phone conversation except calling me a burden. She maintains that she absolutely does not remember calling me that. I KNOW she said I was a burden but yet she refuses to admit to it. So now I’m confused. I don’t know what to think. So I decided to ask a horary, is my mom lying?
I’ve attached the chart and to be honest I’m very confused by it. I can’t even begin to decipher it hence the detailed back story. I’m hoping knowing the full story will help someone well versed in Horary read the chart for me.
Thank you in advance for anyone kind enough to respond.