Confused by many astrologers analysis of relationship

Hello, I am very much confused with the analysis some astrologers have provided as per my relationship. I was in a 4 year long relationship which ended in Jan of 2011 as our horoscopes did not match. The astrologers said that due to my horoscope, i will have an unhappy married life and it will affect my husband's life. MY DOB is 10-06-1984 and TOB is 17:09 place is delhi, india. My ex's DOB is 31-12-1983, TOB - 8:47 am and POB is calcutta west bengal. Post which i went to many astrologers who said this was not right and i have no issues post marriage and that i will lead a happy married life. Then about 5 astrologers told me that my ex will return and the other 7 told me that he will not. I am very worried about my future, if anyone can help please assist. Thanks