anyone see any big red flags i should be aware of ??

[double_frick]

i really really really really really really like this person....

and i don't know, i see good things in our 'scope...our composite isn't bad either...i'll post that too.

i was hoping to get some ideas...of the longevity and reality of this relationship...am i deluding myself?

are there very obvious problems seen in our charts that someone could help me with?
so far i am not thrilled with my mercury/venus opposite his moon(my moon too, tho, so maybe i'd be more comfortable with that energy going on than he would?)
not really thrilled with mars opposite mars.

other than those two things, i see a lot of good.

i guess, i shouldn't be a cynic, but i'm more looking for extra eyes to see the negative aspects of the relationship.

i have to honestly say that i'm in a relationship and not with this person...its not a good relationship i'm in, AT ALL. and this person is not the reason i am leaving my current relationship...just can't help how i feel.

like its fate, sort of. anyways...hoping for some help!!

[double_frick]

oh oh oh here is the COMPOSITE chart...

i notice Saturn in the 5th...ppoooooooooo! but, so far i can definitely see that effect because we have to be so restrained and calculating about the issue right now since i'm in a relationship and i don't fancy myself a cheater, ya know? i know its not right already...in a relationship...but i can't help how i feel. *shrugs* *sigh*

would this make it likely to have problems having children? because i *think* that will actually be pretty important in our relationship, if we are to truly have one.


anyways, maybe anyone see definite indications OF a relationship, synastry or composite?

it just feels so surreal right now...like really. in a dreamy way...and hopefully not in a harsh neptunian way. :/ i don't see a lot of bad neptune aspects, hoping that means we are both realistic about the relationship even though we are both obviously smitten, and there is a somewhat neptunian tinge to it, feels....more real? i dunno.


helllllpppp!!!!

[Vista]

Originally Posted by double_frick

i really really really really really really like this person....

and i don't know, i see good things in our 'scope...our composite isn't bad either...i'll post that too.

i was hoping to get some ideas...of the longevity and reality of this relationship...am i deluding myself?

are there very obvious problems seen in our charts that someone could help me with?
so far i am not thrilled with my mercury/venus opposite his moon(my moon too, tho, so maybe i'd be more comfortable with that energy going on than he would?)
not really thrilled with mars opposite mars.

other than those two things, i see a lot of good.

i guess, i shouldn't be a cynic, but i'm more looking for extra eyes to see the negative aspects of the relationship.

i have to honestly say that i'm in a relationship and not with this person...its not a good relationship i'm in, AT ALL. and this person is not the reason i am leaving my current relationship...just can't help how i feel.

like its fate, sort of. anyways...hoping for some help!!

This charts really almost worthless without the degree of the planets and angles. Post both charts separately with transits and progressions. Also, if you don't know the time of birth for this guy please disclose.

All relationships have difficult aspects in synastry, without them the relationships would become complacent and boring.

[double_frick]

thanks for responding, sorry it took so long for *me* to respond!
i agree about challenging aspects being important for a good relationship...i guess i just don't know which aspects are more challenging or just *seem* challenging.
like mars opposite mars, not sure exactly what to expect of that.
also curious about my saturn aspecting his chart with his saturn making no contacts with mine...

and i have to say that outside of astrology and in the actual relationship that is seemingly beginning (i'm really apprehensive, but feels real? and besides the apprehension i really really like him) but....and i don't know how stupid this is...but i don't really like his kissing! XD like, the chemistry is there...but the way he kisses...is THIS the mars opposition going on? is there any way around this?! everything else is so amazing, but that...i dunno why, but its kinda important to me and i don't know how to tell someone i feel that way about their kissing!! hahaha

anyways, posting the charts as you said i should, hope its not too late for a response! <3

[serafin5]

I know this is not the astrological answer you are looking for but I have always thought that if me and my partner were not compatible kissers than neither would the sex/relationship be completely 'right'. I know that the physical part of a relationship and/or love is a small component but it is a important one.

Just my 2 cents. Personally Ive always thought kissing to be more romantic and therefore most important. Blessings to you!

S5