Arijana
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Ok,so,I have a new boyfriend,well, he is almost my boyfriend. To cut a long story short it all happened last night,he is from the gym I work in,he was my friend before that. He is nine years older than me and was number one champion in kick boxing in my country until he ''retired''. Physically,he is more than perfect,exactly my type right down to the last detail,we are both kinda crazy as well,but heres the thing....He says he wants to be my boyfriend, that he's my bodyguard ( we joke like that ) etc..but I don't really trust him. at all,even though he is very honest and sincere but I'm sorry in men I just don't have any trust. Nothing happened so far,we did go to his house but only kissing happened and he did want more but I was very hesistant and didn't want to.... I also don't like that he is...forceful...He has that champion winner mentality so,for instance,when we kiss and if I don't want to kiss him he would take my head and position it how he wants to,and just he's a little....forceful even though he doesn't do it intentionally that's just his nature. so,my question is, is he telling the truth when he says he wants me to be his girlfriend? my main doubt is that he somehow took me for some naive little girl and that he only wants to ***** me,despite him telling me otherwise.
Not only that,but my boss ( gym trainer ) I think has feelings for me as well, and he is beginning to show little signs of possesiveness when it comes to me ( forbiding other guys to hit on me at work even though when it's other girls he will gladly introduce them to his friends ) etc there are a lot of examples, even last night when I was leaving with my friend, I was outside the gym ,it was night and waiting for him to pick me up,and when his car stopped and I got in,my friend ( soon to be boyfriend ) said '' is that ( insert my bosse's name ) standing there? '' and when we both looked and in the dark there,there was a guy standing there next to the entrance of the gym staring at us and when he saw that we were looking we went back in ,and that was my boss and he didn't look happy...there is a lot more to this story than this but I don't have the time now to write it down nor to interpret the chart ( and I will when I get back ) but I'd really appreciate some feedback to this,I don't want to loose face here or be played for a fool.
Ok,so,I have a new boyfriend,well, he is almost my boyfriend. To cut a long story short it all happened last night,he is from the gym I work in,he was my friend before that. He is nine years older than me and was number one champion in kick boxing in my country until he ''retired''. Physically,he is more than perfect,exactly my type right down to the last detail,we are both kinda crazy as well,but heres the thing....He says he wants to be my boyfriend, that he's my bodyguard ( we joke like that ) etc..but I don't really trust him. at all,even though he is very honest and sincere but I'm sorry in men I just don't have any trust. Nothing happened so far,we did go to his house but only kissing happened and he did want more but I was very hesistant and didn't want to.... I also don't like that he is...forceful...He has that champion winner mentality so,for instance,when we kiss and if I don't want to kiss him he would take my head and position it how he wants to,and just he's a little....forceful even though he doesn't do it intentionally that's just his nature. so,my question is, is he telling the truth when he says he wants me to be his girlfriend? my main doubt is that he somehow took me for some naive little girl and that he only wants to ***** me,despite him telling me otherwise.
Not only that,but my boss ( gym trainer ) I think has feelings for me as well, and he is beginning to show little signs of possesiveness when it comes to me ( forbiding other guys to hit on me at work even though when it's other girls he will gladly introduce them to his friends ) etc there are a lot of examples, even last night when I was leaving with my friend, I was outside the gym ,it was night and waiting for him to pick me up,and when his car stopped and I got in,my friend ( soon to be boyfriend ) said '' is that ( insert my bosse's name ) standing there? '' and when we both looked and in the dark there,there was a guy standing there next to the entrance of the gym staring at us and when he saw that we were looking we went back in ,and that was my boss and he didn't look happy...there is a lot more to this story than this but I don't have the time now to write it down nor to interpret the chart ( and I will when I get back ) but I'd really appreciate some feedback to this,I don't want to loose face here or be played for a fool.