Yennefer
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Hi all,
recently I´ve got my personal life sort of messed up and would really appreciate if someone more experienced in astrology would be willing to help me understand what is going on there.
I am in a long-term relationship for more than 4 years. With my boyfriend we are seriously discussing getting married but have also some serious problems at the same time - mostly it is linked to sex and sexual incompability. Don´t know how open should I be here about this - shortly, it is him being aroused by dominance/submission power play and seing it as kind of lifestyle. He discovered he cannot live without this and "normal" sex is just not appealing enough to him. I am very open and have no problems experimenting in bed so why not this but for me, it must have be also some fun - but he is really fixed to it and experiments are all linked to this as well. That is how I unwillingly became a "domina" that I don´t want to be. I just didn´t realize for a long time how important it is to him and saw it as a refreshing feature, not a lifestyle. we of course discuss that and tried to make an honest "deal" on this, that would satisfy both of us. But it doesn´t work so well so far.
Sorry it was a bit lenghty... my question is if you can help me with some insights from our synastry...
Info:
Me (Yennefer) born 27.3.1982 at 00:54 in Teschen, Czech Republic
my boyfriend (H.) born 24.4.1982 at 07:05 in Brno, Czech Republic
Any thoughts will be appreciated, thank you,
Yennefer
recently I´ve got my personal life sort of messed up and would really appreciate if someone more experienced in astrology would be willing to help me understand what is going on there.
I am in a long-term relationship for more than 4 years. With my boyfriend we are seriously discussing getting married but have also some serious problems at the same time - mostly it is linked to sex and sexual incompability. Don´t know how open should I be here about this - shortly, it is him being aroused by dominance/submission power play and seing it as kind of lifestyle. He discovered he cannot live without this and "normal" sex is just not appealing enough to him. I am very open and have no problems experimenting in bed so why not this but for me, it must have be also some fun - but he is really fixed to it and experiments are all linked to this as well. That is how I unwillingly became a "domina" that I don´t want to be. I just didn´t realize for a long time how important it is to him and saw it as a refreshing feature, not a lifestyle. we of course discuss that and tried to make an honest "deal" on this, that would satisfy both of us. But it doesn´t work so well so far.
Sorry it was a bit lenghty... my question is if you can help me with some insights from our synastry...
Info:
Me (Yennefer) born 27.3.1982 at 00:54 in Teschen, Czech Republic
my boyfriend (H.) born 24.4.1982 at 07:05 in Brno, Czech Republic
Any thoughts will be appreciated, thank you,
Yennefer
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