As you requested, here is the synastry and composite charts of myself and my best friend. There's no romantic interest between us - we are both female and have been friends for over 25 years. I met her at work when she came to pick up her husband - an unusual way for a friendship to start! She was never threatened by me being a coworker of her husband (and she had no reason to be threatened as I had no interest in him at all.) Ironically, the marriage ended a few years ago and she is now involved with the man who was her ex husband's boss at this job!
I introduced her to the esoteric. She was very traditionally Catholic and I never had any use for organized religion. Over the years she moved away from traditional religion and I guess I must have planted a very potent seed in her mind because she is really into it now, although she is attracted to different esoteric subjects than I am. We live about 1500 miles apart and have been for about 12 years now but the friendship remains. She recently helped me out last November when I really needed her but she seemed distant to me. I don't think she wanted to be there because it took her away from her boyfriend and children. She also seemed a bit inconsiderate but again, she really helped me out when (I think) she really didn't want to. Also, and maybe this is because of all the distance between us, I get the feeling she really doesn't 'get' me. Because of this I no longer tell her certain things going on with me. But she has always been very kind to me and I don't take that for granted. There are few people that have been kind to me in this life so I value it whenever I find it.
Now I do have a coworker whom I've known for almost 6 years and she is the most annoying, obnoxious woman I have ever met (besides my mother.) Her mere presence drains the life out of me. I'd post her chart if I knew her time of birth.
a lot of positive aspects
moon trine uranus
uranus trine sun, venus and mars
sun, venus and pluto trine sun
venus trine mercury
pluto conjunct sun, venus and pluto
mars conjunct moon
neptune sextile venus, sun and pluto
you have uranus square mars and mercury in composite and uranus trine moon,sun, venus and mars in synastry(distance between you and change,she was very catholic)
her mercury square mars and venus
your mercury square her jupiter
her mars square your saturn
her moon square your saturn
moon opposition moon
she may not sensitive to your feelings of inadequacy and tease you for being inept or withdrawn. you don't want to face up your feelings of inadequacy, you control, undermine, criticize her and limit her expression.
you need to communicate rather than arguing over which of you is right.