The last aspect of the Moon is to square his significator (Venus) so I do think a confrontation is possible. The chart is verging on later degrees, suggesting to me that you already know that the answer is yes, this person could harm you. He already has! You yourself described emotional abuse by saying that he is killing your self-respect and identity.
Horary aside (and I am speaking from experience here), the way to end a relationship with an abusive person is not
slowly. You have to do it abruptly and cut all ties. No more accepting his phonecalls or demands to see you, inform your family and friends of the situation, and if he doesn't stop then contact the police to make a report. that is the ONLY effective way to deal with these types. Here is more information: http://www.livestrong.com/article/91...-relationship/
. You have to be strong and make these choices if you truly want the abuse to stop.