My synastry thoughts

Adriana

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Hello:)

When I look at synastry charts, and how compatible 2 people are, there are some things I consider.

For example, firstly I would look at Sun, Moon and Ascendant in each chart and how they relate to each other. If there is no good sign or aspect relationship between them there could be some basic personality crash between the people involved, but it might have been the differences that brought them together in the first place, but those very same differences may cause them to break up.
- So lets say 2 people have their Moons in semi- sextile, but their Moon sign rulers are located in the other persons Moon sign, would you go so far to say they have compatible Moons (given aspects to Moons and rulers are neutral to positive)?
I know for myself that in my own chart I have a Sag stellium, but I feel Jupiter in Scorpio is important, and Scorpio affects all the planets in the stellium, so I would think this should be relevant in synastry too? Just want to know others view on this:)

Another variety of this could be that the Moons that are semi-sextile in the synastry both are located in 4th house in each persons natal charts. In a way they are "house conjuncting", and both would have a need for a secure home where they can express their feelings easily.

- What asteroids do you put in a synastry chart? I feel asteroids are important too, sometimes. I can relate to what is said about my natal Juno and Vesta and Pallas placements f ex .. So I use Chiron, Juno, Ceres, Vesta, Eros, Amor, Psyche in synastry, but do you use others?

- Do you also look at composite charts? I do, I find it to give valuable extra info about the relationship.

- What orbs do you use in synastry and composites? I know some people use a very strict orb, not more than 3 degrees even for the Sun and Moon. I find that to be too strict. I have seen aspects in synastry that have a 7-8 degrees orb, but still very much influental. Of course it's possible to argue that there could be other aspects etc that are more exact in orb that could explain the tendencies described..
 
I would consider a 'semi sextile' a weak aspect in natal and in synastry. We are all visual people here and needs to see charts, natals & synastry bi wheel -- that way more members will respond....

Composite charts
If you go to www.astro.com click on free horoscopes, go to Interactive horoscopes, go down to Astroclick partner, that will bring up a composite chart and when you put the mouse over a planet will bring up a pop up box with the interpretation......

But you do need both times of birth to be accurate though.. enjoy.

Composites describe the relationship, not either one of you, but what you came together to learn or to do and how the 'pair of you' function when together....


http://books.google.com/books?id=dUulSwQoEC4C&pg=PR16&dq=robert+hand+composites&ei=r8HRSsXNEJvmygSIsP3eCQ#v=onepage&q=&f=false

The Book ---Planets in Composite: Analyzing Human Relationships By Robert Hand-- is greatly recommended

Regarding orbs for synastry I use max of 3' orb. Vertex and maybe Juno and N Node are high on my list in synastry

Below are some links for further research
When looking at a woman’s chart the type of man she would look for is her sun sign and mars traits, plus 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.
When looking at a mans chart for the type of woman he would look for is his venus and moon sign and then 7th house planets and house cusp ruler and where that ruler was deposited.

Although synastry is a valuable tool with astrology it cannot 'make things happen' even if you have the best synastry in the world unfortunately..

If you want to research more into synastry try here
http://cafeastrology.com/astrology_of_relationships.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry/interchartaspects.html
http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry_house_overlays.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry-houses.html
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastryaspects.html
http://www.cosmitec-astrological-compatibility-advice.com/astrology-marriage.html
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17513
http://www.astrotheme.com/synastry_advice.php


Predicting marriage and/or having children can be done, but it is not easy, time consuming and intricate. There are lots of things to take into consideration like, secondary progressions, what interaspects one chart makes to another, Solar arcs, Solar returns, Transits etc

http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3192
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=3179
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=14255
 
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