Hi guys. I have a weird situation that I’ll try to explain. I’m going to contradict myself probably but that’s how I feel when it comes to this man. I’ve known this man who is 15 years older than me for a year and We met in a group setting. I can assure u that he is not my type at all physically. The weird thing is that when we met I thought that he liked me and we got a chance to talk outside of the restaurant but he has never been pursuant except that he does visit the events where our group will be along with his friends. It’s like I’m not attracted to him but personality wise that's the type of a man i'd like for myself.. I do not see myself with him physically as he is not a good looking man at all BUT the problem with this from day one, and we have met a few time again within a year in a group setting, is that I’m somehow drawn to him and I don’t get it. It’s like I want to be liked by him. I want to seduce him and I have an urge for him to fall for me lol and I’m not like this towards the men that I don’t find attractive.
For me to be with a man I need to be drawn to him physically too but there’s like this unexplained pull towards him that wants him to like me and wants attention from him, which I do get. I’ve been told that he likes me by his friend too. I saw him again at a party last night and this time he had lost weight and I found him a little ok than before physically. I don’t get myself honestly but maybe it’s just his personality that I’m attracted to and want someone like that next to me as an ideal. I never thought of him as anything more than an acquaintance and when I saw him last night I figured to ask a horary if he likes me romantically just to get a feel about how he sees me? There’s a probability that our group will be going on a 3-day trip and he will also be joining us next month.
I guess the late degree means that there’s nothing that will come out of it although I don’t see myself with him because of lack of attractiveness. I’m mars in Scorpio which tells u that I don't care about him, he is Venus in my own house but in saggy along with his male side, sun there too. Any idea what him as Venus represents in saggy in my 1st? Moon is in libra ruled by Venus so I guess this is where my liking of him lies then? I’m drawn to him emotionally as in what he represents as an idea type of a man for me character-wise? Moon will also sextile him as Venus and then his sun the male side. I really want to become a friend with him like I have this urge to get together with him to talk, to hang out and for that reason I invited him to join me and my gf at a jazz club tomorrow evening to hang out and enjoy an evening over drinks. My question is if he likes me romantically? I want to understand why I’m so platonically drawn towards this man.
For me to be with a man I need to be drawn to him physically too but there’s like this unexplained pull towards him that wants him to like me and wants attention from him, which I do get. I’ve been told that he likes me by his friend too. I saw him again at a party last night and this time he had lost weight and I found him a little ok than before physically. I don’t get myself honestly but maybe it’s just his personality that I’m attracted to and want someone like that next to me as an ideal. I never thought of him as anything more than an acquaintance and when I saw him last night I figured to ask a horary if he likes me romantically just to get a feel about how he sees me? There’s a probability that our group will be going on a 3-day trip and he will also be joining us next month.
I guess the late degree means that there’s nothing that will come out of it although I don’t see myself with him because of lack of attractiveness. I’m mars in Scorpio which tells u that I don't care about him, he is Venus in my own house but in saggy along with his male side, sun there too. Any idea what him as Venus represents in saggy in my 1st? Moon is in libra ruled by Venus so I guess this is where my liking of him lies then? I’m drawn to him emotionally as in what he represents as an idea type of a man for me character-wise? Moon will also sextile him as Venus and then his sun the male side. I really want to become a friend with him like I have this urge to get together with him to talk, to hang out and for that reason I invited him to join me and my gf at a jazz club tomorrow evening to hang out and enjoy an evening over drinks. My question is if he likes me romantically? I want to understand why I’m so platonically drawn towards this man.
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