starting backwards, the dispositors of the significators are in triplicity and term, BUT the significators themselves are in each other’s fall. Which means they are rather bad for each other. He is disposited by mars and she by Venus. I think maybe she is a bit idealistic. I agree that he doesn’t think as much of her as she does for him. However, Saturn and the sun are both in their own exaltation, therefore I think they both think more than enough of themselves and have somewhat of a selfish interest at heart.
As far as the 3rd/9th I was wondering if perhaps this is a long distance relationship? But, either way there is a definite strain to communication here. Saturn is her significator, but it also means restriction and limitation and its in your 3rd house of communication, but it also rules her 12th house, like someone said above. Secrets? Is there something she doesn’t want you to know, maybe?
The mars conj merc RX opp. Saturn, I think means you guys are going to fight about something either you have already fought about before, or something that happened in the past.
Sun is in semi-sextile to Venus…did you have another woman? One that is irritating you now? Maybe she knew the woman. But that idea is only by the concept that Venus is used as a significator for the “other-woman” sometimes. If you look to which houses that Venus rules, it would be 3rd, and 10th. So again, communications, short journeys, early education etc. 10th would be career, ambitions, authority figures etc. Neither which seem to apply much on first glance, unless there is something of that which would make sense to the querant but not someone who doesn’t know the situation. I don’t think the relationship is going to go much further in terms of growing harmony. But if you look at the moon, (your co-sig and the “weather” of the situation) there are still going to be lingering emotional ties because the moon is latitude conj (parallel) to Saturn.
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