LeadLeftHand
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Which placements, influences, and configurations can suggest passive-aggressive behavior? Does anyone have a few details of a passive aggressive person's chart to share?
A Libra Mars is like a slow burning, inactive but seething volcano of massive destruction. lol!
Mars isn't "home" in Libra, it's home in Aries - the exact opposite of Libra.
Some characteristics I have with this placement are:
Choosing battles carefully or wisely.
Detest arguing over BS and nonsense that doesn't even matter, triviality.
Arguing with someone who doesn't matter to me.
Ability to ignore situations that are not deemed "worthy" of my anger.
If I care about someone and something they've done is bothering me, I weigh all possible angles, maybe they didn't mean it - I tell them really calmly what my issue is (even if I'm angry as hell), and just see what they have to say.
If I see they start getting angry, I tell them to chill and we'll talk later
My mars is almost in Libra... 29 of virgo
I have much of that characteristics
the charming sweet social butterfly one moment, and then some small thing angers her, so she flies into a rage, slamming doors, cursing people out, throwing things at you, etc.
Many of my friends who are passive aggressive often have north node in aries, which means that self assertion is a life long lesson to master. Many of them also have Libra sun or moon (or both combined!) which can make it rather challenging. My hopes and prayers for everyone to master their life path lessons.