Please help me reading my birth chart!

DesertQueen

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I'm happy to find this helpful site!
I'm worried about reading my birth chart, specially about (relationships and marriage)
My 7th house is empty and I know there are houses more than planets so there must be some empty houses. The structure of my chart scares me and I hope someone could help me reading it, the relationships part to be more specific, because I'm very weird when it comes to this part of my life, any advice along with the reading will be much appreciated : )

http://interactive.0800-horoscope.c...64&state=0&adjust=-3.00&long=-44.30&lat=33.20
 

Jamisyn

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I'm happy to find this helpful site!
I'm worried about reading my birth chart, specially about (relationships and marriage)
My 7th house is empty and I know there are houses more than planets so there must be some empty houses. The structure of my chart scares me and I hope someone could help me reading it, the relationships part to be more specific, because I'm very weird when it comes to this part of my life, any advice along with the reading will be much appreciated : )

http://interactive.0800-horoscope.c...64&state=0&adjust=-3.00&long=-44.30&lat=33.20


Not having planets in your 7th is not an indication of problems in relationships or lack of relationships. Actually people who have planets in the 7th are more likely to have those issues.

Indications of problems in relationships comes more from Venus & the moon, sometimes mars if it's a sexual relationship.

I glanced at your chart & you don't have any horrible relationship aspects or even any really bad chart configurations (take it from a girl who does! lol). I don't see anything that should worry you. If anything, with so much Scorpio, you may have trouble letting people in & with you trusting them & them trusting you, since Scorpios are known to be pretty secretive, or what many of you like to refer to as "private." Most the Scorpios I know, don't realize this about themselves though & how it makes others feel...or at least would never admitt it! Lol.
 
please could you repost using astro.com charts pref with progressions and transits.
You can get an immediate chart interpretation from astro.com. From ‘free horoscopes tab look for free 'personal portrait' interpretation of a natal chart in the free horoscope section, you simply put the cursor on a planet and it brings a pop up box to explain what it means to have a planet in that house and any other aspects it has to natal planets. plus a six month free transit report in 'short report' Robert Hand gives a valuable in depth explanation of transits here – only slight objection I have with astro, is they use orbs of upto maybe 10' approaching, exact and departing. So most transits seem very long in effect. I use more realistic orbs of 1' approaching, 1' exact and 1' departing.
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DesertQueen

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Thank you Jamisyn and astrologer50 you have helped me alot, I was on the verge of losing hope of finding someone good lol!

astrologer50, I was searching this site since last day and went to some of the links you posted here and went to astro.com I got this:
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?...&smon=10&syr=2011&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&ast=

And this: http://www.astro.com/cgi/atxgen.cgi?cid=6hyfileHOelCl-u1319114449&btyp=apx

Its a great site, too. I hope you read what it says about my chart and back to me with good news (fingers crossed)
I was born in Iraq, Baghdad on 30th- October-1985 time 10:20 A.M.

I also need advice about how to act toward men, it seems like I always want someone and when have him I stop wanting him and when I lose him I do whatever it takes to have him back and it goes on and on like this till the man tells me I'm not what he's searching for and I never blamed any of them because I'm really bad in this part of my life when I'm good at everything else.
Jamisyn, thanks for your help, I felt so good reading what you wrote about my charts, thanks again : )

Is it possible to know the job of the man you'll marry or anything could be "enough" sign to tell it is him?
And also wondering if my natal says I can be a good writer? Or what's the best career for me based on my birth chart?

Thank you so much, sorry for asking alot, but you're my only answers : )

Much love
Spread Love
 
well done for using the links

Is it possible to know the job of the man you'll marry or anything could be "enough" sign to tell it is him?
And also wondering if my natal says I can be a good writer? Or what's the best career for me based on my birth chart?

Could be anything from a salesman, communicator, teacher anything geminian. BUT the main problem for me is having ruler of 7th mercury in 12th

Karen Hamaker for instance says that our need and attitude towards a partner is connected with our need for privacy and total merging with the partner on a soul level and a rich inner life instead of worldly needs, (like the sexual side of love I presume.)

Like ruler of 12 in 7, it can show extremes of course. Because the vague, formless 12th house has to give direction to a relationship which can cause confusion no doubt. The result of this combi usually is unrealistic, very idealistic views of how a relationship should function and we know how unrealistic that is

Also the self sacrificing side of the 12th house creeps in of course and often you see the person with this placement marry someone out of pity (I have seen this with someone marrying a disabled person) or because they know subconsciously that their partner needs them, so the relation to the partner can be like a nurse instead of a real partner on the same level.

Even if this is not the case, then the person with this placement still needs occasional retreat from the relationship which will be very beneficial to the relationship. Danger again is, that the partner might not understand this, confusing this attitude for "she/he is not really in love with me".

So all in all it is difficult to give form to a relationship, avoiding to fall in the over romanticized view of a relationship.

Very positive sides are the fact that the relationship is incredibly deep and there is often strong telepathy between the two people involved. The person often does not know where this strong bond comes from. I guess the 12th house, being the house of karma, maybe suggests that the bond is from a former life. It is an ideal placement for people who want to live a relationship whereby inner life and strong spiritual level is the most important thing.

The same situation we can see of course also when we have Neptune in the 7th or ruling the 7th house.

Hope this is of help to you.


Ruler of the Seventh House in the Twelfth House
With regards to marriage and other close partnerships, you could find yourself playing a supportive role from behind-the-scenes in some way. Your partner may have past life issues to finish up with you this time around. At some point, you may involve yourself in a partnership that has a hidden quality about it, or you could become involved with someone who is not free in the usual sense
http://www.skyviewzone.com/astrology/houserulerships.htm#hr7
mars square Neptune
Mars‑Neptune Square Mars‑Neptune Opposition
Painful things either ignored ie self‑deception, or hypochondriac type, imaginary things (Neptune) Deceive or be deceived
http://www.astrologyindepth.com/Mars_square_Neptune
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=13104&page=2
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=11521
http://astrology.astrozoom.com/index.php?title=NEPTUNE_PARALLEL%2C_CONJUNCTION%2C_SQUARE_OR_OPPOSITION_TO_MARS

mars ruler of 5th would be in 10th Equal house system (mine) and is afflicted by square to mars, but also has two easy aspects to help mitigate things.
 

DesertQueen

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Thank you so much for your reply,

My chart picture says I have Mercury in Scorpio and in my 11th house... Is it a bad sign, still? Or am I wrong, it is in my 12th house?

And to be honest 90% of what you explained is accurate.

I will check the links you posted. many thanks and heaps of love.
Updated: I went through the links and they were very very helpful and you too, thank you so much, if anyone come across this *see the links* very helpful

Thanks : )
 
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Thank you so much for your reply,

My chart picture says I have Mercury in Scorpio and in my 11th house... Is it a bad sign, still? Or am I wrong, it is in my 12th house?

And to be honest 90% of what you explained is accurate.

I will check the links you posted. many thanks and heaps of love.
Updated: I went through the links and they were very very helpful and you too, thank you so much, if anyone come across this *see the links* very helpful

Thanks : )

that's why you need to repost using astro.com charts. Anything within 5' of house cusp going anti clockwise is said to be more effective in the next house along. mercury ruler of 7th is further afflicted by conjunction to Saturn which hampers your communication skills..
 

Jamisyn

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Thank you Jamisyn and astrologer50 you have helped me alot, I was on the verge of losing hope of finding someone good lol!

I also need advice about how to act toward men, it seems like I always want someone and when have him I stop wanting him and when I lose him I do whatever it takes to have him back and it goes on and on like this till the man tells me I'm not what he's searching for and I never blamed any of them because I'm really bad in this part of my life when I'm good at everything else.

This is all sounds like your Mars trine Jupiter! Jupiter is your chart ruler so any aspects to it are significant. This aspect makes you like a challenge, you don't want anything that comes too easy or you won't appreciate it. So once you know a man is yours you tend to get bored with him and want to move onto a new challenge, so you break up with him in order to win him back & get that feeling of worth & accomplishment again. And it doesnt help that your Jupiter is in Aqarius (Uranus ruled) a sign which is known for sudden change & rebelliousness, this will exaggerate all of the above. Also not helping is that Uranus is in the 12th house. So here you have a planet who already likes to go it's own way in a house that likes privacy & needs alone time.
This is not bad, it's just part of your nature. I think though, that you may find that the typical marriage may not suit you. You might be happiest with someone who is often gone on business trips, or maybe in the army or some other job that gives you each some space from one another. Have you ever had a long distance relationship? If not, you might want to try it. While for some people long distance relationships are their worst nightmare, for you, it may be perfect. I am the same way, so don't think something is wrong with you. Some people just aren't cut out for the typical, spend every waking moment together type of relationship that society tells you, you should have. It doesn't mean that your relationship will be any less meaningful or close, it may even be more so, since absence makes the heart grow fonder :love:
It actually, in my opinion, just means you're stronger than the average woman because you don't NEED a man around all the time to make you feel secure. Another thing to consider, is maybe the men you've been with just haven't been interesting enough for you? If the idea of a man who is away doesn't appeal to you, maybe you just need someone with a really exciting personality that keeps you guessing. Or an exciting job, like an athlete or a someone who works for SWAT, or a firefighter...etc. You need a man who challenges you to hold your interest & that's ok. Also you're a Scorpio & Scorpios love a good mystery, so if you think you have a person all figured out, that could also add to a feeling of restlessness. A detective could be a man that could be good for you too!
You may want to look for a man with a Aqarius, Gemini, Sag or Aries sun or Asc. Your Asc being Sag, you should still be able to get along with these signs so long as they have an earth or water Asc OR Moon to go with your Scorpio. For example, someone with an Aqarius Asc/Virgo Sun & Pisces moon, I think would go well with you. They'd be Uranus ruled, so prob unpredictable. The Virgo Sun (Mercury ruled) would satisfy your Gem DC need for mental stimulation, without driving you crazy as a Gem might, lol. And Pisces moon will go well with your Scorpio & Taurus qualities & will like time alone now & then as well. Of course there are lots of other cominations that could work, but my point is to look for someone with an element of unpredictability in their personality. I think this has probably been your biggest problem with your relationships so far. Find yourself an exciting guy to be with, who challenges you & you'll be all set ; )

The only other thing I'll note, is that your Moon is in opposition to Saturn. This may make you feel uneasy about expressing your feelings in close relationships, so be aware of that. Make an effort to open up when you like someone, so they know you like them. You don't have to be excessive, just be sure you're showing some of how you feel toward them in a demonstrative way.

Hope this helps. Don't worry so much! When someone worthwhile comes along, you'll know =)
 

Jamisyn

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Thank you so much for your reply,

My chart picture says I have Mercury in Scorpio and in my 11th house... Is it a bad sign, still? Or am I wrong, it is in my 12th house?

Thanks : )

It's in your 11th. Some of what she explained probably applies because of Uranus being in the 12th. Uranus rules Aquarius, and Jupiter (your chart ruler) is in Aquarius =)
 
that's why you need to repost using astro.com charts. Anything within 5' of house cusp going anti clockwise is said to be more effective in the next house along. mercury ruler of 7th is further afflicted by conjunction to Saturn which hampers your communication skills..

Firstly, for a proper evaluation you should consider posting your chart with progressions and transits on same wheel found in extended chart selection. Reduce the ratio of orbs to 80%, select smallest image size 63% on picture,then choose house system (my personal preference is for Equal house rather than the default of placidus), right mouse click and select 'save target pic as' and save to hard drive then upload here
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=24043
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=24042

the above threads are 'how to' get, select and post the correct charts.
 
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