Lissa,
You wrote:
First thing that caught my eye was his Moon trining your Mercury-this aspect can be helpful with communication matters,making it easier for you to put your feelings out to one another.And your Mercury falls on his Ascendant-another aspect that should be helpful when it comes to communicating:when you talk,he can identificate to what you are saying.Even if I can't-with his Moon trining your Mercury he should easily understand where you're coming from and accept your opinions.With his Mercury/Neptune in sextile to your Mars you can have lots of fun together,maybe lots of exciting discussions too-with Neptune's involvement here,maybe you could engage together in matters of spirituality or humanitarian things?His Mercury/Neptune squares your Moon,there can be misunderstandings on your part,and you may not always agree with what he says but well you don't always need to agree on everything,you should be fine as long as you respect each other's point of view.Not only does your Moon square his Neptune,his Moon squares your Neptune too-careful with msunderstandings,when things go wrong you may feel you were 'deceived' by the other.
You described us very well, in our conversations we fit together like a dream. It's almost like we're the same person sometimes, we understand each other so well. Even if you can't.
(Just what was that supposed to mean? Hmmm?)
We are both very metaphysically inclined and have travelled similair paths in life, so that adds to our understanding and gives us alot to talk about!
I have had problems with men in my past relationships not wanting to hear what I had to say, didn't want to listen to a woman, etc. - and I was so shocked with him..... He takes my advice, and will bring it up the next time we talked how he had been thinking about what I said. It obviously didn't go "in one ear and out the other", like I'm so used to having men do.
And I could just sit and listen to him talk for hours! He's very interesting and intelligent and has that cute Southern drawl.
Very accurate! Thanks again, Lissa!
JJJ,
You wrote:
I looked at the report and I just wanted to comment on some aspects...
out of context.
1) Composite Sun square Uranus... I have Sun opp Uranus with the person I love and the relationship is still stagnating bc we just cannot come together, there are too many obstacles - outside and inside. They say that with this aspect you can never relax in a "normal", "stable" relationship.
2) Composite Mars opp Saturn- the same thing, there are many obstacles and it seems to take a century before it works out... if it works...
3) In synastry you have Sun square Pluto (you are the Sun person). This seems a powerful aspect, I interprete it that your Sweetie has come to change you in a radical way. I would like to know if you have some subconsious fears towards her? Does she seem too dominating to you? Are you afraid of her? (We have the same aspect and I am the Pluto person and I have the impression that my beloved one fears me a lot...).
As to 1) and 2): Yes, we have had some
huge obstacles to overcome - in just even getting in the same geographic location. We were at one time, but twists and turns of life kept separating us. It's like he keeps showing up out of the blue, and there my heart goes again! I would have lost faith a long time ago and moved on completely, had it not been for lots of dreams and synchronicities about him, and things that have happened on his end and things he has said. It just seems like I'm being counseled to hang in there and it will eventually work out. We are currently in another of our separation phases. Sigh.....
As to 3) Sweetie has changed me in a radical way. He has a definite transformative pull on me - in a good way. (And I think I have the same effect on him.) I have had some subconscious fears about him, mostly due to unresolved baggage from past relationships. Our connection has caused me to delve in deeper than I ever have before to try to resolve these, because I know it would interfere with out relationship. For instance, I was abused sexually most of my life, and I have always found him sexually magnetic - so I would fear him for that reason until I let go of all that old baggage. Not that he is abusive or anything like that -in fact, he has been celibate for 10 years. It's just that the thought of being that attracted to a man is a little scary for me. As to the dominating..... No, I don't find him to be dominating - just very bold and straightforward. I think has some issues with being dominating, simply because of the way his father was. But he, too, has worked for years on letting go of baggage, and is very aware of his childhood family dynamics, so I think he's transformed much in that area.
Thanks so much for replying, JJJ! You brought up some very good points!