Did he cheat multiple times??

Psychotik · #1 07-24-2008, 02:40 PM

http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?r...6261092&nhor=2

This is the chart of my kind of ex. I am/ was totally in love with him. We can never be together due to issues outside our control. He told me around a year back that he cheated on me 5 times. I did not beleive him and thought he was just saying this so it would be easier for me to move on. He convinced me and I cut him out of my life. However we started talking months later and he continues to be a prominent figure in my life. We had an argument a few weeks back and he said that he did not cheat, and then he changed his mind again and said that he did. I know this is crazy and that I should let him go but there is some type of connection and I can't. I am working on phasing him out but the thing is I am still unsure whether he chated. Any idea on what all this rubbish is about? :34: Did he cheat? I am not sure if his chart signifies this at all and why cant I let him go???

Synastry chart - http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?cid=624filebvepBQ-u1106261092&lang=e&gm=a1&nhor=2&nho2=7&btyp=621&mt h=gw&sday=24&smon=7&syr=2008&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&ast=

Reposting here as I think I posted in wrong place originally

Psychotik · #2 07-25-2008, 04:16 PM

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anyone??

Lunatic · #3 07-26-2008, 09:29 AM

Dear Psychotik,
I think that the question really is "What does he want?" And I think that the answer is "He doesn't know." Looking at the Neptune aspects in Synastry, from the program you used, might help you understand what makes you so unable to "let go" and Saturn in Scorpio might explain the difficulties you have together. You might want to look at his planets in Sag and the fact that he is a Cap. Although, I realize that this site is strictly about astrology and learning about it, sometimes people write to just get an answer and after reading your question, looking over your charts individually and together.. this is what I get: He feels the same way you do, yet he is more practical. Did he "cheat" on you 5 times? Can't say for sure, but I doubt it, the story is a product of his moon in Pisces counteracting with all the Sag stuff. Bottom line...you are both very young and frustrating as this may all seem... My personal advice to you is this: If this is really driving you crazy, stand up for yourself and ask him what he wants from you/your relationship. If he can't answer then he's not ready and at least you will know that you have done all that you can do and taken responsibilty for your destiny. (I also wouldn't be surprised if you don't feel the same way about him if he "wimps" out on you again.) Good Luck to you.

Psychotik · #4 07-26-2008, 11:21 AM

hi lunatic!

thanks for your response. Actually I am the cap with the pisces moon... he is the taurus! thanks for your input

I am still a learner, and I am slowly beginning to understand charts a bit more... though synastry still confuses

Psychotik · #5 07-26-2008, 11:31 AM

http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi...BQ-u1106261092

MarieBrizard · #6 08-04-2008, 05:39 PM

sun sq neptune often points to deceit

Phact · #7 08-08-2008, 09:34 PM

I think I agree with Lunatic. There are strong differences in the characters, end even though you are both inclined to be together, you have to confront the differences. He is suspicius with relationships, (the opposition between his Venus and Saturn), but Venus is an a stable sign, so he doesnt look the type who changes women. I would like to see also your chart (except his and the composite) if it is possible...

Psychotik · #8 08-09-2008, 01:35 AM

thanks phact

http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi...BQ-u1106261092

heres my chart

Phact · #9 08-09-2008, 05:08 AM

Thanks for the details. Look now. You have a composite asc in Libra, and many many links between Saturn and personal planets in the synastry. The difficult is to not marry this man. But, you act in a very free manner, he can not reach your thoughts, and he is afraid of you I think. You are afraid of cheating because you saw that he has Neptune on your Mercury. It is not that he is cheating, it is that he confuses you, maybe because he is confused of you. Difficult situation. Dont use every detail in astrology to extract things, from exactly each detail. It is better at first to work with each chart separately, to understand the whole motive of each character, and then you will see what is happening with the compatibilities. Bye!