key element in a loyal relationship/friendship

Can someone tell me what the key aspect is to look for when comparing two charts to see if someone is a short term friend/lover or someone will stay for the long haul?

I ask cause all my friendships are unstable and practically end short without much loyalty on their part. I also want to check those of whom I gotta a little crush on, thanks.

V.

[lexia523]

im not expert but my findings have been in saturn aspects for longejectivity.. (not sure thats the right spelling)
I know the usual like sun to moon
and mans mars to your venus.
pluto moon aspects
my favorite one though in most relationships be it romantic or partnership friendship has been venus & sun or Moon & venus
the venus sun one is predominant in my findings with people.

[Looking to Jupiter]

so what do you think saturn needs to aspect lexia? What aspects? Im very interested in this.......

[lexia523]

saturn in my experiance has made a profound effect when aspecting venus
and again stronger if both partners plannets are doing the "double whammy"

like in a lot of marriages ive seen person A sat makes a harsh aspect to B venus. then B saturn making a good aspect to A venus

sat conj sun is another karmic one.
they all have merits but sat to ones sun and or venus is potient.
when ive dated men who,s moon is conj my sun or visa versa was compadible but without the sat aspects there hasnt been anything in it.

I was reading about magi society in the forum earlier and its truly worth looking at when it comes to relationship potential. it is how i started gettting interested in astrology.

thanks lexia for your analysis. i still don't know the basics.. i skip from one thing to the next. hopefully i'll be competent at it one day.

Grazi =)

[lexia523]

oh no i did the same thing years ago,, astrology is like going into willy wonkas chocolate shop... mmm so many choices lol