mine has also Uranus, Pluto (Virgo) opposite Saturn (Pisces), squaring his Sun (Gemini) and sextiling his Venus (Cancer) and Neptune (Scorpio). So he has Uranus sextile Venus and Pluto sextile Venus in his chart. And Saturn and Neptune trine his Venus.
Please notice that people like him (born around 1965) have now transiting Saturn conjuncting their Pluto-Uranus and transiting Uranus conjuncting their Saturn, so a overall huge conflict between freedom and restrictions... they have to change their life and make important choices. I think that these impersonal energies are very difficult to handle for them. Maybe this moment is just a difficult one and afterwards the tension will release a bit.
I can just say that a relationship with nice aspects between luminaries and Venus and Mars (like our cases) is a big love. Maybe we must just wait.