When will finally happen for me?
A question by me about me.
When will it finally happen for me?
Background: It seems that everyone around me is getting married or engaged or at least starting a serious relationship, while my love life remains to be a stalemate. I’m not really interested in a relationship, but with news of it everyday, it makes me wonder if about my future in this area.
19 December 2007
00:55 (12:55 am) GMT +2
Cairo, Egypt – 30n03, 31e15
My shot at it:
Very descriptive, Libra (sign of relationships) rises. I’m Venus and the potential him is Mars.
OK. So Libra rises, so I am signified by Venus in Scorpio in the 2nd house.
Venus is in essential major detriment by sign but has essential dignity by term. Essential dignity and detriment usually refer to intentions. I suppose this means that I really, really am not ready for a relationship right now, but a part of me wants it.
However, Venus has many accidental dignities. It is
In the 2nd house 3
Free from combustion and sun’s beams 5
The score of accidental dignities is 12
The only accidental debility of Venus is it being oriental, giving it a total debility score of 2.
For the scoring, I used Lilly’s table published on skyscript.
So, Venus is essentially debilitated but accidentally dignified. I suppose this means that I don’t want a relationship, but I can get one?
Venus is in the 2nd house that rules finances and moveable assets. True, my finances and all relevant subjects are my priority these days.
OK. Enough about me. Let’s consider the 7th house, my potential relationship.
The 7th is ruled by Mars. Mars is in Cancer in the radix 9th house, the turned 3rd.
Mars is essentially debilitated by fall in Cancer, but has essential dignity by triplicity and term. It is received by Venus by face. I believe this makes the essential debility and dignity somewhat equal with a little bit of inclination towards dignity.
Mars has accidental dignity by
Being in the 9th 2
Free from combustion and Sun’s beams 5
With a total of 7 points of accidental dignity.
It has accidental debility by
Being Rx 5
Being occidental 2
With a total of 7 points of accidental debility
Again, equal debility and dignity.
I supposed this position of Mars shows that any potential relationship within the timeframe of this horary will have a 50-50 chance of making me happy or breaking my heart.
Mars in the radix 9th that rules voyages and bigger-picture learning. I suppose there’s something still for me to learn. Something that is recurring in my life since Mars in Rx. I wonder what that is.
An important note is that both Venus and Mars are malefics here, Venus by being in major detriment, and Mars by being a natural malefic in Rx with extra debility.
Now, the relationship between Mars and Venus.
So, Venus receives Mars by face, i.e. Venus likes Mars, but not particularly a lot. Mars anti-receives Venus by sign. Mars is actually very bad for Venus!!!
There is no application, or collection or translation of light.
The Moon is a co-significator of me and the answer to the question. Funny enough, it is also a significators of a potent ional relationship by placement in the 7th house. The Moon is peregrine and not close to any aspect at the moment.
The final lunar aspect is a trine with Mercury (I ignored Venus because I generally ignore modern planets in horary). Mercury is a neutral planet. The aspect is connecting the 7th and 3rd houses. A trine is a pretty good end.
OK. I guess the answer is “not any times soon”. And judging by the this chart, it seems to be in my best interest not to get seriously involved with anyone these days. The final lunar aspects makes me feel like I will eventually find someone with whom the relationship will be pretty great “trine” and quite hot “Aries and Sag” although it will not exactly be a a Romeo and Juliet kind of story “Mercury”.
What do you guys think.
It's important to distinguish between means and ends.