Is he playing/manipulating with me (and others)?

[Mermaid]

Hello to everyone!
About a year ago I met a guy with whom we started as friends only and than we were more than friends but never dating. I though he wanted to date, but he turned me off, we didn't have any contact for some time and now again we are kind of friends of benefits. The problem is, that a lot of times I hear strange, bad stories about him (often related with flirting with girls) and also sometimes when we go togheter somewhere he gets into a fight with other persons. Almost everytime he claims it is not his fault and that he didn't do anything, but it's getting hard to believe.
Is he a bad person and is just playing with me and others? Is he a bad company for me? Where is this our 'friendship' going?
I know I have to made decision by myself, but I would also like to hear the answer of astrology.

Thank you in advance.

[dr. farr]

Well, for me at least, finding his signifying house (7th house) to be Gemini positing the difficult and disruptive South Node, and given the nature of your specific question, I would have my doubts about the character/intentions of this person...

[gen6k]

venus opposition pluto hes romantically intense, venus in cancer.
that oppositon also makes a T-square to uranus in aries.

could designate problems with love

mars in detriment (a feeling of not being able to be internally assertive next to saturn square mercury, so it comes out in intense type of language.

[Mermaid]

Thank you for replies.
He has very good communicative skills, so I think for him is easy to play if he wants.
About his good/bad personality I was actually never sure about it...of course at the beginnig, when u meet a person, there is no reason to think, that that person is bad or has a bad intentions...and now, when we got quite close and I got to know him better is hard to believe for me, that he is bad (even though that some of his actions could proove that). But probably this happens to everyone who has been disappointed by a close friend or a lover.
As far 'us' is concerned: We both go soon abroad and we are not from the same countries either (ok, at this moment we live in the same city) and a long time I though that because of this he is letting me close, but when I'm to close he cools down for a while.